if you want to learn how to get back
together with your ex when he or she
says that they don't have feelings for
you then you've come to the right place
in this video I'm gonna reveal sneaky
psychological tactics that will help you
convince your ex that you're the only
one for them and you'll be able to
ignite those powerful emotions inside
your ex's mind whenever you want how's
it going everyone
my name of course is Brad browning as
most did you probably know and before I
jump into the goods here in this video I
just want to thank all of you guys
before for pushing my channel here on
YouTube over 200,000 subscribers so
thank you again from the bottom of my
heart you know it gives me a lot of
satisfaction knowing that I'm able to
help thousands of people get through a
breakup here in my youtube channel
alright but enough of that let me jump
right into some of the tips on how you
can get your ex to share that spark and
that feeling with you again tip number
one force your ex to go back to what I
call emotional neutral now just a quick
disclaimer making your ex have feelings
for you overnight is going to be next to
impossible
I'm just very little that you can do or
say right now that's gonna make them
change their mind and take you back
tomorrow but there are things that you
can do right now to begin that process
today now I'm not gonna talk about the
no contact technique in this video since
I've already explained it and plenty of
my other videos but one of the best ways
to start mending wounds is just to
simply not contact your ex for a period
of at least 30 days and during this time
of no contact there are several things
that you can do right now to to expedite
the process of making your ex return to
that emotional neutral state for example
if you've done a ton of begging and
pleading right after your breakup
you can send something that I call the
clean slate email template now this is a
covert and sneaky email or or text that
you can send to make your ex forget
about all the bad memories that they had
of you so that they can eventually
replace those ones with with nostalgic
and happy ones but to learn more about
how about that email and how to use it
you're gonna have to go over and watch
my video at breakupbrad.com my website
in that video you can watch the free
presentation that will explain what the
clean slate email template is along with
tons of my other strategies and
psychological techniques that are going
to help you get your ex back so just
keep in mind again guys that getting
your ex to go back to that emotional
neutral state can take anywhere from 30
to 90
you know in some rare cases I've even
seen it take longer than that but in
this stage it's important to do whatever
you can to recover from the break-up so
to put your best foot forward so that
you can be mentally ready to to contact
your ex again in the future when the
time is right tip number two is is to
basically just become the most
attractive version of yourself now guys
in order to get that spark back with
your ex you're gonna have to become a
much more attractive version of yourself
and I don't just mean physically either
I'm although that does help what I mean
is that you need to become a more
confident a more vibrant happy powerful
version of yourself because remember
human beings are attracted to people
with equal or higher social status than
their own this is true for for both
sexes but it's especially true for women
so in order to to regain that feeling
you know and get that attraction back
you're gonna have to focus on yourself
you ultimately want to make your ex look
at you and say you know why the hell did
I ever let that awesome guy or girl go
now of course this is a lot easier said
than done and right now you're probably
feeling you know pretty shitty and and
probably becoming the best version of
yourself is is often the last thing you
want to do in your shoes right now
I mean understandably so but it's
moments like this that define us right I
mean some people will tend to drop
everything and give up when they face
you know even the smallest bit of
resistance and these people are destined
to live in mediocrity right people who
pull themselves up by the bootstraps
when when they're faced with with
adversity like what you are right now
are ten times more likely to succeed in
life that's true fact so let me ask you
this do you want to succeed in life or
not do you want to live powerfully or do
you want to just roll over and give up
the choice is up to you of course now
let's go quickly into how you can become
the best version of yourself
so take a pen take a piece of paper and
write down all the traits that you think
or that you wish you had so for example
if you wish you were more confident
maybe they're kind of shy write that
down and then write down how you want to
become more confident so you know do you
want to be able to talk to people more
easily do you want to make a friend
more easily whatever it is come up with
a plan of action to help yourself gain
that confidence and then stick to it or
you know maybe do you want to learn a
new talent you know again write that
down and then once again come up with a
solid plan of action that you're gonna
pursue to learn that new talent I mean
really guys now is the time to to spread
your wings and make sure that when you
do contact your ex when that time is
right and they're gonna be receptive he
or she is gonna be helplessly and
uncontrollably attracted to you and only
you and on a tip number three contact
them in in a non-intrusive manner and
make sure you contact your ex for a very
good reason when you do reach out so I
mean when you when you finally do
contact your ex and the time is right
you really need to craft the perfect
message to make sure that you hook them
in properly you know if you're if you're
too forward with things you're gonna
come across as needy and desperate which
obviously isn't good but then on the
other hand if the message isn't powerful
enough then your ex isn't even going to
bother to text you back at all or even
you're not gonna get any replied off
so really you just need to strike that
perfect balance so help me explain
here's a quick example of a really good
message that you can send to your ex
after the no contact period ends so you
can send a text something like hey do
you remember that incredible band that
we listened to during Woodstock last
year what was that more is the name of
that band again I'm trying to make a new
playlist I hope everything's going well
with you now this is a great message for
a number of reasons but first and
foremost it forces your ex to reminisce
about a happy time you spend together
this is gonna start to bring back some
of the the feelings that he or she had
for you when you first started dating
and if you do this at the right time it
can be an extremely powerful technique
and it'll only actually probably be a
matter of days before he or she starts
to miss you like crazy now guys if you
want more examples like that that you
can use after the no contact period ends
or or maybe you're wondering when you
should be sending these types of text
messages then you should look into
registering for my personal coaching
program you can get more information on
how you can hire me as your personal
breakup coach at
breakupbrad.com/coaching breakupbrad.com
slash coaching which I'll have that in
the description below as well and on
that page you'll learn about how I can
customize a plan for you to get your ex
back and really
I mean who better to help you then the
the ex back geek himself all right and
tip number four ties in nicely here and
tip number four is to implant the seed
of desire deep within his or her mind so
getting your ex to to start feeling that
strong emotion and that attraction for
you again is gonna have to start with a
lot of a lot of the tips that I outline
in my best-selling X Factor program in
the program I go through hundreds of
little you know simple psychological
tips and tricks that are gonna slowly
add up and begin to make your ex yearn
for you again they're gonna start to
miss you and eventually they're gonna
ask you to get back together and one of
the most powerful techniques that you
can use to to make your ex regain some
of those emotions in that feeling of
attraction is to engage in some playful
flirting so for this one you're gonna
have to set up a quick coffee meetup or
meet them for a drink basically just
some kind of casual hangout with your ex
now if outlined how to do that in a
number of my other videos but if you
somehow miss them basically what you
need to do is come up with a very
specific and very good reason as to why
you want to meet up with your ex so you
can't simply just you know ask for them
for a coffee date or to go for lunch
just because you miss them that's gonna
make you seem you know needy desperate
and unattractive so instead what you
need to do is text them something like
you know this say hey I've decided to
get into water water painting again I
always knew that you were super good at
that stuff do you think I could buy you
a coffee so I can pick your brain a
little bit about that or you could say
you know something like hey all hope
all's well I'm planning that trip to New
Zealand finally and I was worried if you
had any tips for me since you were I
know you were there just a few years ago
I think I could buy you lunch sometime
and get some advice and really you know
that's all it takes if you've if you've
done everything else correctly up until
this point your ex should really be
eager to meet up and hang out with you
and of course this is where you need to
start building attraction with some
light-hearted flirting so really that
means you know smiling making strong eye
contact making some slightly fun and
playful jokes at your ex and touching
them at the right times in the right
places and again in my ex factor program
I go through a ton of these little
flirting tactics so if you're interested
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copy all right and tip number five one
of my favorites and then is to use a bit
of sneaky psychology now my final tip
for you in this video guys is to to make
your ex feel that powerful emotion for
you again by using some subtle reverse
psychology now by using this tactic
you're gonna begin to turn the tides and
make your ex start chasing you instead
of the other way around
so listen closely here throughout your
meet up with your ex you know when you
meet them for coffee or for a drink
after work you're gonna want to drop
some very subtle hints about where
you're at in your life so you know talk
about about how you felt like the
breakup was a positive thing for you how
it's forced you you know to church I try
and pursue new hobbies and and take on
new passions that kind of thing and by
hinting at this kind of stuff you're
gonna make your ex begin to question
themselves and you're gonna make them
wonder if they really didn't make the
right decision and maybe they shouldn't
have walked away from such a great catch
now you're also gonna want to use
another powerful psychological tool
called pre selection to your advantage
so to use this subtly drop the hint that
ever since you and your ex broke up
there's been a lineup of people of the
opposite sex dying to land a date with
you human beings basically guys are just
hardwired to want the guy or the girl
that everyone else wants this is you
know sort of an evolutionary phenomenon
that's ubiquitous throughout the animal
kingdom and you can use this
psychological strategy to your advantage
and it can really skyrocket your sex
appeal and make your ex feel desire for
you
yeah alright guys this is getting long
so I'm gonna wrap it up here I could go
on and on about all these little-known
psychological tactics that you can use
but if you do want to learn more about
some of those tactics you have to go to
my website I mean you have to watch my
free video presentation again the URL
for that video is breakupbrad.com so
head over there right now and you can
learn more some about some of those
other techniques and that is it for
today folks thanks for watching we'll
see you next time