Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 11 subtle signs you're more attractive
than you think. I have men ask me every single day "is there any hope for me?
Should I just give up on ever having my dream relationship? Is it just too late?" The answer is,
oh my goodness, there's so much hope for you. I seriously help men with this every single day.
Never feel like there's no hope. If that's you right now, if you're asking "oh my goodness,
is there any hope for me?" this video is for you. We are going to be going over some of the traits
that matter most to women. These are the traits that make a woman fall in love with you and stay
in love with you. So if you have these traits you are far more attractive than you realize.
Many of you saw this video. If you haven't seen it yet there is a link in the description below.
But if you saw it you remember that one thing that sets my methods apart and my channel apart
is that I always teach you guys how to have a happy, lifelong relationship. I am never going
to teach you tactics and tricks that will only get you a one night stand. That's not what I'm about.
So if you are here because you really just want to find that special someone to have and to hold
and to love like crazy for your entire life then these are the types of things she is looking for.
One thing that causes a lot of confusion for a lot of men is they're told that women want things that
frankly only one night stand type women want. If she's looking for a lifelong relationship,
she's looking for completely different traits. The truth is, if she's the kind of woman who's only
interested in one night fling or only interested in using you she doesn't really care about who you
are as a person. But if she's a woman who wants that happy, crazy and love relationship these are
the traits that mean the most to her. But before we dive in if this is your first time watching one
of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and I teach you
how to stop wasting your time and your energy and your money on bad and dead-end relationships by
learning the skills you need to just get the girl and the relationship of your dreams. So make sure
you subscribe, ring the notification bell, give me a big thumbs up, and let's dive in. So our
first subtle sign you are more attractive than you think is that you are loyal. As I mentioned,
we're talking about women who are looking for a lifelong relationship, a very happy relationship,
and loyalty, that is one of the most important things you can have in a partner. If you're a guy
who doesn't look around at other women and who wants to be completely committed and completely
loyal to one woman, oh my goodness, that right there is insanely attractive. It helps her feel
safe with you, helps her feel like she can count on you, and yes, makes her fall in love with you.
Now our second sign that you're more attractive than you think is that you are a sincere person.
At the end of the day, we all want to matter, right? We all want to feel like we're important to
somebody else. This is especially true if you're going to be in a relationship with them. And so if
you are someone who sincerely cares about other people and can make her feel important to you,
make her feel like you actually care about who she is as a person, that right there, oh my goodness,
that'll give her butterflies and make her think about you all day
and it's ultimately one of the traits that makes her fall in love with you. So if you
are someone who is present, someone who makes her feel connected to you,
someone who makes her feel important, then you are far more attractive than you realize. In a
society where we're always scrolling on our phone and kind of not really paying attention to people
this is a trait that really sets you apart. Our third sign is that you are proactive
about maintaining a healthy relationship. Of all the traits you could have this one is probably
the most undervalued trait. A good way to think of it is let's pretend somebody wanted to go
into business with you, they wanted to be your business partner. But let's pretend that they
weren't really committed to the business, they didn't really know what they were doing, and they
just kind of expected you to put in a lot more effort than they did. Would you go into business
with this person? No. That would be like really a bad idea, right? Relationships are the same way.
The type of woman you are looking to attract, the type of woman who wants a happy, healthy,
long-term relationship, she is trying to get the dating and relationship skills that she needs,
because she knows that's how you create a healthy relationship. And if you have those traits too, oh
my goodness, you're like a rock star in her eyes. You're like a superhero, you are so attractive,
because that's a hard trait to find. But if you do not have those skills then she knows
it's not going to work. It's like going into business with someone who's not committed to the
business. Does that make sense? If you want a good relationship you have to have the right skills.
Otherwise you're going to stay single forever or you are going to have to settle for a toxic
relationship. She knows that, so she's trying to have those skills, and if she sees that you
have those skills too, whoa, you are amazing. This is why, you know those guys who just seem really
really good at getting girls to notice them? This is why. They have learned those skills, they
have applied them, they have practiced them, and getting girls is really easy for them. If you want
the girl of your dreams dating and relationship skills is the way to do it. Now this leads me
to a question that I know you guys are going to ask because you ask this all the time. "Okay,
Melannie, if I'm so attractive why am I alone? Why am I single? Why do I struggle to get girls
to want to date me?" The answer is attraction is not everything. It's a very important piece of the
puzzle but it's not the whole puzzle. There are plenty of attractive people all over this planet
who are single. I mean, Hollywood, let's be real here. Pat yourself on the back for being
an attractive person, that's incredible. Now all you need in addition to the the attraction
is those dating and relationship skills. This is something as a coach I see
day in and day out. When you have solid dating and relationship skills you get the girl. When you do
not have solid dating and relationship skills you don't. So how do you learn those skills and how
do you create a game plan? Guys, as a coach, this is what I do every day and I have made it insanely
simple for you. This is actually why I created my program for you, so it could be so easy,
so fast, and really fun. If you have not yet seen my free masterclass, check out the link in
the description below and there's a link in the pinned comment. In that free masterclass you're
going to learn about learning the skills, you're going to learn about the game plan,
and you'll get a sneak peek and maybe a couple of bonuses. So make sure you check that out if
you're just sick of wasting time and you're ready to fast track it to getting the girl. Now our next
subtle sign you are more attractive than you think is that you are a kind and a generous
person. If you saw this video then you are going to remember this. One of the traits
that makes you the most masculine is when you are a protector of those who are weaker than you are.
This is what makes you a knight in shining armor, this is what makes you a superhero, this is what
makes you insanely attractive. So if you are someone who is compassionate and who is kind,
wow, that is insanely attractive. Again, she's looking for a lifelong partner so she wants to
make sure you're someone who's going to be kind. And that right there, that gives girls
butterflies, no lie. Our next sign that you're more attractive than you think is that you
are honest and you are up front. This is why mind games don't work. This is why acting aloof and the
whole "stop caring, she starts chasing" thing, all these mind games, this is why they don't
work. A mature woman, a real woman, a woman who wants to love you for the rest of her life
does not have time for mind games. She just doesn't. So if you are someone who's honest,
someone who's up front, someone who will discuss things with her and be transparent,
that is insanely attractive, that's what she's looking for in a man. Our next sign you're more
attractive than you think is that you are good with animals and you're good with kids.
This also kind of comes back to being kind and compassionate to those who are weaker than you.
The way you treat animals and the way you treat children speaks volumes to her. It says a lot
about your maturity, it says a lot about your priorities, and really helps her feel that she
can trust you. This is one of the reasons why men who have dogs are often seen as more
attractive. Women love it when you are good with kids and when you're good with animals.
Quick question before we keep going: Are you guys enjoying this video? Would you like more videos
on signs you're more attractive than you think you are? If you would, comment "YES!" and let me know
about it. And if you have any other questions or suggestions for future videos, tell me about it
in the comments. Seriously guys, your feedback helps me so much so be sure to comment and let
me know. On to our next subtle sign you're more attractive than you think. And that is that you
don't talk bad about other people. Have you ever been around someone who's just super negative
and is really draining? No one wants to be around someone who's draining, but also
if you're talking bad about other people she kind of has to wonder if you're doing that
about her too behind her back. And it just doesn't leave a good impression. Where on the other side,
if you're someone who encourages people and builds people up then she feels amazing when
she's around you. She feels encouraged and she feels optimistic. That's the kind of person she
wants to spend her life with. This also goes back to being a kind and compassionate person.
That's the kind of person that makes a woman fall in love and stay in love. Our next sign you're
more attractive than you think is that you are not aggressive and you're not needy. Being aggressive
and/or being needy, man that pushes girls away so quickly. It creeps her out, it makes her feel like
she can't trust you, it drains her energy, it's not what she wants. If you saw this video then
you've heard me talk about this a little bit. If you haven't seen that one yet check it out through
the link in the description below. What she wants instead is a man who is very confident and again,
a man who has those dating and relationship skills. Because when you have the right dating and
relationship skills you're not needy and you're not aggressive. Instead, you just make a really
really good partner. This is again why learning those skills is so important. So if you haven't
signed up for my masterclass check it out through the link in the description below or there's a
link in the pinned comment to learn more about how you can get those solid dating and relationship
skills so you don't have to be needy, you don't have to be aggressive. Our next sign you're more
attractive than you think is that you are aware of toxic people, you're aware of toxic traits,
and you avoid them. You avoid them in the people around you and you avoid them in yourself. A woman
who is proactive about being the best version of herself she can be, she can smell a toxic person
a mile away and she does not want to get involved. Healthy people avoid toxic people like crazy. So
if you have some toxic traits, which is normal, we all have to assess that from time to time and
see if there are things we need to improve on. If you have toxic traits in yourself, she's done. Or
if you associate with a lot of toxic people, she's done. She doesn't want anything to do with that.
So if you are someone who is proactive about knowing what toxic people are and avoiding
them and making sure you have healthy habits, those healthy skills instead, that right there,
that's insanely attractive. Our next sign is that you are a good communicator. Of all
things women like this is one of the biggest things. Of you can be a good communicator, oh
my goodness, she's going to love you forever. Now communication can be on several different levels.
It can be something as simple as "hey, just wanted to make sure we're still on tonight," you
know, a quick text. Or it can be "hey, can we talk about something? We need to work through this."
Women need communication. So if you're someone who's proactively trying to communicate well,
you're very attractive to her. There are a few things less attractive than a guy who just won't
communicate. Even if he's a really awesome guy but can't communicate well with her that's a
really hard person to be in a relationship with and so she'll move on. And her next sign that
you're more attractive than you think is that you encourage and compliment her. People like people
who make them feel good. So if you're someone who encourages her, someone who compliments her,
and makes her feel like a really awesome person, wow, that is so attractive. Again, you want to
make sure you're not too aggressive and not too needy, but when you know how to compliment
and flirt the right way, when that's one of the dating and relationship skills you have,
wow, your attraction skyrockets, and that's again what makes her fall in love and what
makes her stay in love. So many people are afraid that they won't be able to keep the flame alive
once it happens. Guys, all you have to do is learn the right skills and keep doing them and then
it's very very easy to get her to fall in love with you and get her to stay in love with you.
Just like you like people who make you feel good, she likes people who make her feel good.
So if you're someone who's very encouraging and complimentary that is a very attractive trait. All
right, so let's sum up what you've learned so far. The subtle signs you are more attractive than you
think are first, that you are loyal. Second, that you are sincere and you can really make her feel
connected to you and important. Next, you are proactive about maintaining a healthy
relationship. You're proactive about getting the dating and relationship skills you need
and actually applying them. To work with me to learn those skills make sure you check out the
link in the description below to check out that free masterclass and learn how you can do that.
Our next sign is that you are a kind and generous person, especially to those who are weaker than
you. Also, you are honest and upfront with her. No mind games. Next, you are good with animals and
with kids. You also don't talk bad about people. Next, you are not aggressive or needy. Those are
definitely things you want to avoid. Also, you are aware of toxic people and toxic traits, you avoid
them in others, and you avoid them in yourself. Our next sign is that you are a good communicator.
This one right here is a game changer. No lie. And, you compliment and encourage her. People
like people who make them feel good. And there you have it my friend. 11 subtle signs you are more
attractive than you think you are. If you notice any of these signs or several of these signs,
pat yourself on the back, that's incredible. If you're asking again, "well then why don't I have a
girl," learning the dating and relationship skills you need is the key so make sure you watch that
masterclass through the link in the description below. Thank you so much for watching my amazing
friend! If you enjoyed what you saw be sure to give me a big thumbs up and if you haven't yet
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the comments. Which of these signs surprised you the most? And would you like more videos just like
this one? If you would, be sure to comment "YES!" to let me know. Do you have a friend
who is wondering if there's any hope for him too? If you do, this video is going to really help him,
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sure you check out the links in the description below. Thank you so much again my amazing friend
and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] Hello my wonderful friend today's video is on 11 s-
Just cracked my knuckle. That's weird. [laughter]
Got an itch. We're good. [chuckle] Now communication takes a couple of different...
Uh-huh. [laughter] What is that word? Again, you want to be careful
that you're not too aggressive or you're not too needy, you just- [laughter]
Again- [voice crack] Our next sign is that you are a kind and generous pershon. Pershon? Person.