this video will show you the main reason why you aren't attracting a relationship
and I'm going to share with you perspectives and practical tools that
you can apply in order to really make that happen welcome back to another
video my name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness now in this
video I'm gonna be sharing with you all about understanding how to remove blocks
when it comes to relationships and how to attract them and the main reason I
was inspired to make this video is because a couple of my coaching clients
have been dealing with this and this little advice has made such a big
difference not just with them feeling better but one of them actually got
results from it simply from doing what I'm about to share with you so when it
comes to attracting a relationship many times if we have the intention to do so
well we find ends up happening is we are trying to attract a relationship the
word trying implies struggle it implies a conflict between the subconscious mind
of the conscious mind is something that we actually have to will to happen but
the thing is is that when it comes to something like this what we must do is
release the resistance and realize we must trust the process if we're going
about things and we're so hard trying to put our ego into it and control the
outcome of something that many times acts as a block itself and even the
wording of us trying to do something implies that there's some type of
struggle there so the key to this is knowing that the first relationship we
must nurture is our relationship with ourselves how do we feel about who we
are how do we perceive ourselves now if we look at ourselves and we see
ourselves and we're constantly reaffirming that we are single we are
single there's nobody here and this reflects back to us that we don't feel
whole and complete then what we do is we continue to perpetuate more of that
feeling and with that feeling comes that experience as well so the key to this is
starting to see ourselves in a completely new light
what is our self-image are we focused on things
that were confident about ourselves are we focused on knowing that we are
already whole and complete because if we're not then what we're doing is we're
searching for something outside of ourselves and we're trying to will
ourselves to experience something that can't be forced this must be about more
trusting the process are we trusting the process of our life are we allowing
things to happen or are we trying to fit puzzle pieces in where they're not
supposed to go so the reason I say this is because the key to this is starting
to focus on you it's starting to simply have fun it's starting to really let go
of needing anything on the external to change before we change now this sounds
like a funny metaphor but imagine going over to a mirror and asking for the
mirror to change the reflection to change before you change now of course
that sounds like something we would never really do but that's a lot of
times what we do when we are saying that I will feel whole and complete when this
happens because what happens is that distance of saying when this happens is
a distance and emotion we aren't feeling it right now in the present moment so in
order to really feel and embody the feeling of being whole and complete now
that comes from one the simple belief in awareness that you are already wholly
complete that maybe growing up you saw a whole bunch of Disney movies and a whole
bunch of movies that showed you know happily ever after and meeting the right
person and someone miserable before then really happy afterwards but that's just
conditioning realize that you can view yourself as right now in this moment
already whole and complete and that width of focus in that direction of that
perspective and starting to focus on things that you love about yourself
things that you really appreciate about yourself maybe is your characteristics
maybe you have a light personality you find that you're a very honest person
you're a loyal person you find that there are certain things about you that
really make you special and unique if you focus on those every day and you
feel grateful for those perspectives you will start to feel differently about
yourself you'll start to really understand your own worth because you
are a valuable person you are somebody that's unique and
all you have to do is focus on those perspectives the more that you focus on
those perspectives the more that you really just have fun in the moment is
when it's really gonna happen for you you will attract a relationship when you
don't expect it because you are simply having fun because you aren't out there
looking for anything that's when things really happen it's things just fall into
place when you aren't expecting it because you become the hero of your own
movie you aren't looking for somebody else to fit into a certain puzzle piece
you are more so focused on having fun so what I encourage you to do is to focus
more on being around good people and having fun with friends on letting go of
the outcome of really trusting the own course of your life and knowing that as
you start to trust in your life more you trust in the course of the way things
happen you will get that reflection in your life I encourage you to first off
change the way that you feel about yourself to start to embody the emotions
you want right here and right now and even think about it what we do is we
have the emotions within us right now to feel whole and complete to feel loved
but many times what we do is we use people as a symbol we use people as a
way for us to feel those emotions we give ourselves permission now that I'm
in this relationship and I'm with this person I can feel these emotions in
reality those emotions are within you right now all you have to do is give
permission to your brain permission to your body to feel those emotions with
the awareness that you are whole and complete
it's just that normally we wait for that person to then feel whole and complete
but you could feel it right now all it takes is the gratitude for the
characteristics of who you are look at these perspectives every day literally
write it down 5 or 10 things every day that you are grateful for with yourself
things and perspectives that you have that really embody and encourage
yourself to know that you are worthy that you can feel that within you just
from a momentum of focus anything that we are focused on we will feel and many
times we're focused on perspectives of I'm not worthy I'm not good enough and
the momentum of that focus starts making us
a certain way and we assumed that that's who we are but I have news for you that
is not who you are that's just a momentum of a certain perspective you
choose your perspective from conscious awareness now that you are aware that
you can choose what you prefer to believe you can choose the momentum of
your thoughts start to focus on what you're grateful for start to focus on
how you are already wholly complete start to focus on how you can be that
the cause and not the effect start to realize you are the hero of your own
movie which means that everyone else is a cameo that means that you aren't
trying to get into someone else's movie you aren't trying to impose yourself in
other people's reality you are already having fun
you are already grateful for who you are and as you go out into the world you
will start to get a new reflection because you will be showing up much more
powerful so I encourage you to look at yourself in that way start to see
yourself as already whole and complete let go of all the conditioning from the
movies that we watched growing up let go of all the conditioning of our parents
telling us and maybe you know one day we'll find somebody and we'll be happy
you'll be happy right now just from a simple choice and a simple momentum of
thought and knowing that as you change and you start to feel worthy wholly
complete right now you will get a new reflection have the intention that you
want to meet a certain type of person have an intention for certain
characteristics they have but also have the intention for feeling whole and
complete right now giving yourself the emotions and the permission in your own
mind to feel the way that you prefer to feel and as you feel the way you prefer
to feel you will eventually get a new reflection in your life that's where you
change before your mirrors reflections change it's a very powerful
understanding and if you do this every day for just five minutes and you feel
grateful for the characteristics for who you are you will find that things begin
to change so with that being said I hope you guys enjoyed this video feel free to
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