what's happening ladies and gentlemen I am YouTube's number-one breakup and
relationship coach Brad browning first you probably already knew that didn't
you but let's skip the formalities though you can just call me breakup Brad
that's my mother calls me anyway all right folks so what is this video
gonna be all about well one of the most common concerns that I hear from my
clients and my subscribers here on YouTube is why can't I seem to let go of
my ex right so that is what I'm gonna be talking about right here right now in
this video I'm gonna share four common reasons why you're struggling to let go
of your ex why you can't seem to get him or her out of your head and why all you
can think about is getting them back into your arms now please don't go
anywhere just yet because I think for most of you watching
this is gonna be a very helpful video but once you do watch it all the way to
the end take my free quiz at breakupbrad.com is to find out where you
stand with your ex the quiz takes you know five minutes to complete at most
and it actually works so if you do take a few minutes to answer the questions in
the quiz you're gonna get a score and a detailed assessment of your situation
and your odds of getting it back together with your ex w breakupbrad.com
slash quiz all right let's dive into four reasons that you simply can't seem
to let go of your ex number one you've never really been in a serious
relationship with anyone else now look guys I'm saying this isn't really very
good for business after all I I do make a living helping people reunite with
their ex but quite frankly sometimes people mistake the feeling of not having
a partner with missing their ex specifically in other words sometimes
heartache the heartache that you may be feeling is as much or more about no
longer having any one rather than it is about not having your partner in
particular or your ex in particular now usually this happens when you've had
very little dating experience or other romantic partners in the past maybe
you're still maybe you're still young in which case I'm jealous or or maybe
you're you just spent most of your adult life with one single partner your apps
whatever it is if you've had really only one serious relationship then chances
are that you may not be fully able to tell the difference between missing a
particular person and being in a relationship more generally
now the emotions and then the heartache that you're feeling are just as real
either way but if you are able to determine that it's actually not so much
your ex specifically that you're missing like crazy and it's more than sure that
you're missing the feeling of having someone around you know of having a
partner to talk with and someone to share the more mundane parts of life
with then at least you know that you can begin dating other people and eventually
expect to fill that void with someone new so if you're not sure whether you
miss your ex are you just being miss being in a relationship more generally
then my free quiz tool should help and again if you want to take that it's at
breakupbrad.com a slash quiz and I mean aside from the quiz it's really tough to
offer any further advice other than to sort of you know look deep inside
yourself or sign up for my one-on-one coaching program so we can talk about it
in more detail to sign up for my for my approaching program or to learn about
working with me one-on-one I'll just go to breakupbrad.com slash coaching
alright and let's move on to reason number two which is that you realize in
hindsight that you made mistakes while you were together with your ex and you
know now that you do a much better job of things if you've had a second chance
then I tell you if I had a dollar for every single email that I received from
someone who screwed up big-time and desperately wanted my help getting a
fresh start with their ex I'd probably have enough dollars to afford a Ferrari
488 GTB w1 preferably with the carbon ceramic brake package
sadly that is not how it works so I'm still short a couple hundred grand but I
do think you get the picture this kind of thing is extremely common tons of my
coaching clients have realized the mistakes that they made during their
relationship whether it's being too clingy too needy
being disloyal or cheating or even something as simple as just taking their
ex for granted it's very tough to let go of an ex knowing that you you could and
should have handled things very differently now for those of you in this
situation I really do sympathize and I know how difficult it can be to sit
there wondering you know what if right but look if this is where you're at
right now consider this you have absolutely nothing to lose by trying to
win back your ex if you play your cards correctly you take my advice and you
actually use the proven techniques that I recommend and you stick to it and for
some reason if things actually end up not working out with your ex hey at
least you gave it your absolute best shot and you can still take these
learnings and apply them to your future relationships either way now if a fair
bit of time has already passed since the initial breakup don't sit around and
waste more time dwelling about your past mistakes you know start taking action
start changing your situation for the better
and begin riah tracting your ex with strategic texts phone calls and so on
now if you don't already have a clear plan moving forward or what you don't
know what to do next either take the free quiz that I
mentioned earlier or visit breakupbrad.com and watch the full
how-to video on my home page okay and reason number three you've had little or
no success with the opposite sex since your breakup now this is also a super
common concern that's brought up by my clients and my subscribers here on
YouTube a lot of men and women are actually a bit excited at the idea of
being single when they're still in a relationship or even when they've
recently been through a breakup you know it's a symptom of you know the grass is
greener syndrome where you tend to have a more positive outlook on how life
would be as a single person right up until the point where you actually are
single and you realize that that being on your own comes with its own set of
drawbacks that you maybe hadn't forgot about or you forgot about or you hadn't
considered or maybe you just pushed to the back of your mind so whether it's
been a few weeks or even a year or more since your breakup don't be shocked if
you're not loving the single life as much as you
you might or maybe you just haven't really met anyone that you've been even
remotely interested in and your lack of success in finding somebody new is
making you appreciate your ex all that much more it's not really that
surprising when you think about it because most of us aren't compatible
with just anyone right you may have to go out with with 10 different people
before you actually meet someone that you actually want to go on a second date
with thank goodness for tinder though right yes I know
tinder isn't everyone's cup of tea and it can be super frustrating when you've
when you've broken up with someone only to realize how how special the
connection that you had with them really was now most of the time and for the
majority of you watching this who are in this kind of situation it's just a
matter of being patient and continuing to be social and go on dates eventually
you're gonna find somebody who can fill your ex's void and make you truly happy
or maybe you'll decide that you actually can't stand the idea of being with
someone else in which case you'll you'll take my
advice to use the strategies outlined in my best-selling X Factor program and
here on my youtube channel and you'll win your ex back for good
now whatever road you choose I'm rooting for you and I know that you'll find
happiness sooner or later so let's move on to reason number 4
which is you had an incredible connection with your ex and you know for
sure that he or she was the one all right so obviously I've saved the most
obvious one for last year and quite frankly this can either be the easiest
or the most challenging situation to find yourself in now first of all um you
do need to be certain that the bond that you had with your ex really was
something special don't trick yourself into believing that just that just
because you're feeling hurt and lonely after the breakup but if you are
confident that your ex was you know the one then the good news is that you know
exactly what you need to do you need to go out and get him or her back it's as
simple as that now assuming that you don't screw things
up and unknowingly push them even further away then it's definitely
possible that your ex will come to the same conclusion and suggest to you that
you get back together now I personally don't recommend that you take that
chance I suggest you begin to work actively on changing their mind about
the break-up using the the techniques that I explained in my program and in
the full video of my website breakupbrad.com
now the downside to this scenario of course is that there's always the chance
that you may never get him or her back which obviously really sucks but don't
dwell on that ladies and gentlemen if you do find yourself in this scenario
where you know that the special bond you shared with your ex is something they
will be nearly impossible to replace then take action starting today to make
sure that that doesn't happen there's usually plenty of reason to be
optimistic anyway all right now and on to reason number five nope there is no
number five folks sorry to disappoint but you can add your own thoughts in the
comments below maybe come up with number five yourself and of course you can also
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