Okay, you're trying to figure out how you can develop this ability being an empath.
And you can't figure it out, can you?
Well, I am here to teach you on how to become a stronger empath.
I'm ready to show you the steps.
Okay empaths.
I want to talk to you about how you can become a stronger empath.
Now, there are other videos I know you could have watch to share with you about what is
an empath.
So this is not about what is an empath.
I'm talking directly to people who know they're an empath and how you can improve this talent
so that it can work more for other people and you can have more of peace of mind.
So let's cover a few parts here that are going to help you become stronger as you exercise
this gift of being an empath.
First and foremost, judgement.
Whenever you judge people because you can perceive people, what happens is you can't
actually use all that the empath ability has for you.
Judgement lowers your ability to be perceptive.
So, your perception is going to decrease equal to the amount of judgement you have on people.
Judgement is something that causes you to measure people.
And as soon as you get into judgement, you actually now will fall out of being in-tune
with people.
So, you actually are not functioning your highest ability when you judge.
So, just cut out the judgement.
And how do you do that?
Well, the way yo do that is you allow people to be in the space in their life that they're
in currently right now and honor them.
Honor where they're at.
Don't measure them compare to you or measure them compare to another person.
Don't even measure and compare at all.
That turns into judgement.
And so, you cut that out so that you can raise your perception of people so you can be of
more help to them.
But you cut out judgement.
Second part is stop taking it personal.
Whenever you feel feelings or thoughts coming from other people, sometimes and empath, what
they'll do is they'll actually think it's about them.
And if you do perceive someone's thought or emotions then they are about you, you still
don't take it personal.
Because this is all information.
And the more you can take this and be it's about information being exchanged, you'll
actually be able to do a better job at this and help people.
But everytime you take it personal, you will drop your self down or you will raise your
self up and actually be a little bit more aggressive and how you talk to people.
I've met people who kind of have an aggressive side to them.
And I'll ask them, "Are you an empath?"
And they're like, "Oh, no.
I could never be an empath because I'm so ornery all the time."
It's like, "Oh!
No, I think you are because you're reacting to what's happening.
You're reacting.
And your taking it personal."
Stop taking it personal.
You just let it be.
It's just information.
It's all it is.
It's information.
Okay, the next one is...
Another way to become stronger as an empath is not just only listening to what people
have to say and what they're going through.
But you can create dialogue . Meaning you can talk to the person and be able to create
a connection with the person verbally.
But you also can create dialogue by how you can respond back to them with your own thoughts
and feelings.
For example, I had a class that I was teaching.
And an individual stood up and they were asking a question.
And while they were asking a question, I in my mind, was posing questions to them.
And the question I was posing to them was is this your real question or do you have
a different question.
And while there are having a microphone and they're talking to me, I heard from them a
message comeback to me and says, "No, I'm just asking a question because I'm a little
nervous to ask the real question."
So, here I'm having a dialogue with this person, it's kind of like a behind the scenes dialogue.
And when the person finished asking their question I said, "Hey, is this the real question
or do have actually something else you'd like to share?"
And then the person with the microphone says, "Gosh, it's funny that you say that.
I was just thinking that.
Can I ask you the question that I really want to ask?"
So, you can actually have dialogue with people.
So when you feel messages from people, you can send messages back out to them.
Now, is this like a type of...
Oh, what is it called?
ESP or I know it's now it.
ESPN?
That's a sports network.
So....
Right?
But it like a type of like communication through your thought?
It kind of is but what it is just you're being perceptive of a person's request for help.
But you can actually have dialogue with them.
And if you think this is weird, maybe i got to talk to a mom who can hear messages from
their children.
Women are very perceptive.
I mean, moms are very perceptive of their children.
And they actually can sense and feel their child while their child is at school.
So, moms have this ability to be able to be an empath.
And they hear messages from their children.
And where sometimes the dad even picks up on them but the mom will go,"Oh, somethings
up with little Tommy.
We need to talk to him."
And sure enough, they go talk to little Tommy and they find out he's having some rough things
happened at school.
So before you think this is weird, it's already going on everyday between moms and their kids.
It happens all the time.
That mom is very in-tuned and perceptive of their children.
Now, can dads have it?
Yeah, dads with focus.
And be able to listen with their heart and listen with their mind.
They can be as in-tuned as mom is.
So, it's a very common thing that's already going on.
A husband and wife who were just madly in love with each other.
A husband and wife who does not have judgement towards each other literally can complete
each others sentences in a conversation.
A husband and wife who have little to know judgement can literally almost perceive what
the other one is thinking and feeling.
Because they're so in-lined with each other.
And that naturally happens everyday to couples like that.
It really does.
My wife and I, we were walking in the church one day.
And I thought the thought...
This is my thought.
I thought, "Kim, why don't you go and get us a seat.
I've got to go drop of my bag and the class where I'm going to be teaching the kids."
In this church class that I was teaching.
And I was going to say, "Go pick a seat at church."
You know, in the congregation part.
And I did not say it.
But my wife is right next to me and my wife says out loud.
"No, it's okay.
I'll just go with you."
And my kids who are around us go, "Mom, what are you talking about?"
"Well, dad just asked me to go get a seat in the congregation."
And the kids are like, "No.
Dad, didn't even say anything."
"No, I just heard dad say that."
And the reason why she was so in-tuned with our conversations going on in our head was
because of little to know judgement.
You see judgement clouds the mind.
Judgement takes us off in lala land of we think we can measure people and put them in
certain categories.
Get away from judgement and you'll be able to literally have more communication with
each other.
Like...
So, like a husband and wife.
Just like a mom and a child.
It's very common, very normal.
And a mom has empath abilities.
A husband and wife can have an empath abilities.
It's not a weird thing.
It's actually...
We all have it.
Just some of us are so plugged up with judgement and so plugged up of taking everything personal
that we can't use this gift.
So, everybody's got the ability got the ability to be an empath.
But you are ready to like really starting to get more of where you can literally use
it to help people.
The last one is stop trying to fix people.
Empaths do not fix people.
We're not here to fix people.
We're here to help guide people.
We're here to support people.
We're here to understand people.
We're here to let them know that they can be heard.
That's why we're here for.
And that's why you're here for.
And we're here to be very in-tuned to people.
That's what an empath is.
It's somebody who is very in-tuned to people.
More than the common person.
More than the common person but a mistake you'll make and which will lower your ability
to be in-tuned to people is your weird ego of I like fixing people because people are
broken.
People are not broken.
They just have things happened to them.
It's just life.
We don't fix people.
We don't fix them.
So, get out of your head that you're got to do this because you just want to help fix
people.
Boy, that'll gum up your brains so you can't be as in-tune.
So, you, me and others who are really striving to be really tuned-in to people.
The way you get to be stronger in this talent and gift.
Cut out the judgement, stop taking things personal in life and stop trying to fix people
but create some dialogue.
If you will go to this direction, within a couple of days, you'll notice.
You will notice something different and something changing.
But number one is the most important one, is you have got to stop judging your self
and condemning yourself and stop judging other people and stop condemning people.
Stop doing that.
Because it messes with your head and you can't.
You will not be able to tune in to people as well as you could.
Don't miss out we only have so many minutes and seconds and hours of our life.
Don't mess up your head that way by being in judgement.
Stop being critical about people and start caring.
Stop being critical and step in to being more caring and helpful.
That'll help you be a stronger empath.
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