Hello, everybody. I hope you are all having an amazing
week. So, are you in a love situation, a crush situation?
Well, today I am going to give you a little bit of help.
Today's video is the top 20 signs he thinks you are super
cute, whether it is a hottie you are meeting for the very
first time, or someone who you've known for quite a
while. Today's video is going to focus on some of the
behavioral and physical things that happen in those initial
stages of attraction. And you guys, despite the title, this
video is actually gender neutral, so whatever gender or
sexuality you fall in to, this video should be super, super helpful.
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find out if your crush thinks you're super cute? Well, let's
get right into this video.
The first sign your crush thinks you're super cute is that
they ramble, ramble, ramble. People have a tendency to
talk more or ramble when they're nervous because they
want the conversation to go super well. They don't want
there to be any awkward silences, because god forbid, that
would be terrible, and they're trying to impress you. They
want to fit in as many words and stories as they possibly
can. This is totally fine as long as you enjoy the stories
they're telling and if you want to put them out of their
misery, you can definitely jump in with a little question or story of your own.
Number two is bobbing for apples. Now guys, this might
seem really weird, but if your crush is a guy you're going
to notice that if they like you, their Adam's apple bobs up
and down when they talk to you. This is because for a
guy, the #[strain] [00:01:25] or nervousness of talking to
someone he thinks is super cute can actually cause his
Adam's apple to bob up and down. This one only happens
in cases of extreme attraction, so if it happens, it's a dead
giveaway he thinks you're super cute.
Number three, is exclusion and this means not that your
crush is going to try to alienate or exclude themselves.
They are going to try to exclude you and them from
everybody else around you. This is an instinctual behavior
when we really like someone. We want to get them alone
and have some quality downtime just with them.
The fourth sign of when he thinks you are super cute is
that they have a bit of an awestruck look when they first
see you. You guys, one of my own hidden talents is that
I'm almost always able to predict the winner or the runner
up of every season of the Bachelor or Bachelorette. I am
actually the champion of guessing this, and the way that
I'm able to successfully predict who the winner will be is
based on the bachelor or bachelorette's body language
when they first meet that person. The way that I know
this is because the bachelor or bachelorette's face gets an
awestruck appearance the minute they see someone who
they see that long-term potential with. This is
subconscious. It's instinctual. It happens without us even
knowing or realizing it's happening.
The fifth sign they think you are super cute is that they
lower their voice when they're talking to you. Research
has shown that people who lower their voices when
they're talking to someone that they really are attracted to
for guys, could have to do with a lower tone of voice
being more dominant, but let's face it, you guys. Lower
more hushed voices are also seen as way more sexy. So,
it's also a subconscious way that person trying to make
the conversation more intimate.
Number six is the long hug. We all know of the long hug,
I think. The long hug is when someone just lingers a little
bit longer than normal when going in for a customary or
obligatory hug. You can tell they're enjoying it. You can
tell they want it to turn into something more and you can
tell that they totally don't want to let go. This is a surefire
definite sign of physical attraction.
Number seven is that they talk about working out or they
talk about something physical about themselves. This is
not a coincidence, guys. Do not be naīve, because they're
trying to draw attention to their body or the body part that
they're talking about specifically. So, if your crush is a
girl and she's like, "oh my god, I hate my boobs, so much.
They're so uneven. Give me a break. Or "I did this
workout in the gym today like curling up and down."
Even if someone talks funnily enough about gaining
weight, like "Oh, I used to have a 24-inch waist and now
it's a 25. I'm so fat." Don't be dumb, guys. Don't be
blind. That is not friendly banter. That is drawing your
attention to something very specific.
Number eight is preening. Preening. Preening! Do you
guys know what preening is? It's essentially grooming
yourself to look better. So, this person is like picking
fluffs off their shirt or smoothing their pants or fixing
their hair or something. That's all forms of preening.
People will never realize that they're doing this. It is
totally a subconscious thing people do to look better or
more presentable for someone else.
The ninth thing people do when they think someone is
super cute is that they start doing outrageous things to
capture your attention. This could include telling more
jokes, being more outrageous in conversations, play
fighting with friends, doing silly things to get your
attention. This is called peacocking and for both guys and
girls, it is a way to kind of get your crush's attention for
the first time because if you want to get them to notice
you, you have to stand out. So, if someone is doing this
every time you're around, it's a surefire sign they think you're super cute.
Number 10, I like to call this one the slunch stand, even
though it's not really slouching or standing. The slouch
stand is when somebody literally adjusts their posture
when you enter a room. So, they could be like slouching,
sitting at a desk or at a bench, but then when they see you
come in or when they see you walk up, they immediately
change their posture, maybe without even realizing it.
This happens in nearly every attraction scenario.
Somebody goes from being relaxed and cool, they're
hanging out with their friends. They don't care about
impressing anyone, but when you enter the scenario, they
change their posture because they're alerted that you are
there and on a subconscious level they want to look their
very best for you. So, if it means sitting up straight,
puffing up their shoulders like that's what they're going to do.
The next thing is defending you. So, somebody who
thinks you are super cute always wants to be your hero or
have the opportunity to stand up in your honor. So, if
you're in a social scenario like a bar and you have an
unwanted admirer like someone that won't leave you
alone, the person who thinks you are super cute is going
to want to protect you from that person. This is not so
much because they think you can't handle it yourself, but
they want to be that hero for you. They want that excuse
to stand up and do something that's going to allow you to notice them.
Number 12, you guys, this one is weird, super weird.
When someone thinks we're very attractive, he or she
may just touch their leg and hip area more often. When a
person finds you attractive and is hoping for things to
happen with you, three is the subconscious drive to bring
the attention down to that part of your body. I can't
believe I can't do this without laughing or blushing. This
is crazy. Why is this such a big deal? It's not. Research
has shown that when someone wants something to happen
with you on a more intimate level, that they
subconsciously want to bring the attention, your attention,
down to that area of the body. So, if you notice your crush
touching their leg or their hip or their thighs quite a lot,
that could be a sign that they're trying to draw your
attention down to that area. That's as far as we're going to
go on an Ask Kimberly video, put it that way.
Next is that they laugh but specifically in situations that
are not meant to be funny. A person is more likely to
laugh if they think you are cute than if they think you are
funny. That's crazy, right? So, if they're laughing a lot,
they may not even think you're funny. They just may
think you're really, really cute.
Next, you guys, is a red face. Now you guys might be
thinking, well, Kimberly, they're not embarrassed when
they see me. Why on Earth would they turn red? Well,
here is the truth. Sexual attraction can actually bring a
rush of blood to somebody's face, causing it to be red and
maybe get a little bit itchy. So, if you notice someone's
face is red or agitated, it could just be that they are hot and bothered by you.
Fifteen, I like to call this one the entertainer. Similar to
people who talk a lot, people who are nervous or trying to
make a good impression are a lot more likely to talk with
their hands. So, if you're talking to someone and they're
using a lot of gestures, it is because they're trying to make
a good impression on you and they're really trying to get their point across.
Next is the sneaky smile. When somebody thinks, you are
hot, they are likely to give you a sneaky smile which is
not like a big, enthusiastic and welcoming smile like this.
A sneaky smile is more like this, or this, or this. A sneaky
smile is usually out of the corner of someone's eye. It's
usually a private kind of intimate glance the two of you
share that kind of feels like there is a secret between the two of you.
Next is that they will find several ways to find out if you
are taken, so maybe asking what you did last weekend
and the weekend before to see if there's any mention of
somebody special or even asking you outright if you're in a
relationship right now. This is an insatiable part of
progressing the relationship and is definitely a sign
someone thinks you are super cute.
The next one is if you've known them for a little while,
they start to wear perfume or cologne or there's any other
noticeable shift in the way they groom themselves. When
someone finds you attractive, they're going to want to put
their best foot forward and present themselves as the most
attractive person they can be so if you notice that
someone really cares about the way they look when
they're around you, it could be a sign.
Number 19, guys. We're almost at the end. When
someone is attracted to you, they're going to pout when
they see you talking to potential competition. This is
because they want to protect you but they also want to
protect themselves from having you stolen by someone
else. So, if they look like they're insanely jealous and that
they're hating every minute of their life while this is
happening, it's probably because they are.
Now, guys, the final thing he or she is going to do when
they think you are super cute is that they're going to stare,
stare, stare and this is going to happen no matter what.
They are going to spend time appreciating your beauty
and that is how a crush ends up developing when
somebody is staring at them so if this is happening to you,
it's a sure fire sign this person thinks you are super, super cute.
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