Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence. As usual, you've got me, Beardy, together
with my colleague, Kay, and our pal, Larry. I recently met a girl and really wanted to
talk to her but I was scared of saying the wrong thing.
Then, I remembered that we already had a video on questions to ask a girl you like.
Did you follow those tips, Beardy? Yes, I did. I especially liked the question
of "What's the craziest, most spontaneous thing you've ever done?" I found out that
she liked the same things I did and that led me to ask her out.
Oh! Looks like someone's got a date! Let me guess. Genevieve?
Well, yes. I’ve got a date. But I’m not saying with whom.
Oh, alright. It’s okay. I'm so happy for you, no matter what, Beardy! I suppose that
means that the tips from our last video are effective, and so that’s why I thought it’s
such a good idea to make another video so we can add more to those good questions to
ask a girl you like. And since we really want to do better this
time, we'll also be sharing one question you should never ask her.
This video will also be a big help if you’re learning how to talk to girls at parties.
Correct. Now without further ado, let's get to it.
10 Questions to Ask a Girl You Like (Psychological Conversation Starters)
10. What was the highlight of your week? Hey Kay, how many times have you met someone
who asked you "So what do you do for a living?" Ugh! I lost count already.
I know how you feel since I've met several who asked me the same thing.
Even though the other person is genuinely interested in getting to know me, hearing
the same question again and again gets kind of boring.
Not to mention, it's also a close-ended question that could lead to an awkward silence.
Instead of asking this question, you can ask "What was the highlight of your week?" That's
a tip on how to attract 99% of girls. Who knows? Maybe the most interesting thing
that happened to her this week was at work. In that case, you won’t have to ask the
most boring question ever. Hey, we have more tips on how to attract 99.9%
of girls. Check out this video where we talk about them.
9. What decade do you think you belong to? The best questions to ask a girl are questions
that aren’t too personal for her. The main reason why you're asking her questions is
so you can start a conversation with her. Of course, you should ask questions that are
engaging, and at the same time, interesting, just not too prying.
When you ask her "What decade do you think you belong to?", you'll see her pause for
a bit and contemplate her answer. She’ll want to give a good answer that shows
her personality and her interests. It’s that simple.
8. What was one of your fondest childhood memories?
Guys, I'll let you in on a secret. Girls love to talk about their families, especially if
they had a happy childhood. Girls like to remember the happy memories
from their youth. You know what Kay, I couldn't agree more on
that one. I love to talk about my childhood too. Did
you know that I used to go to the zoo a lot? That's why I'm so fond of our pal, Larry,
here. I always get reminded of my childhood whenever Larry's around.
Awww, Beardy! That's such a cute story. AND a great tip on how to impress a girl: Share
your childhood experiences. 7. What's your favorite hidden spot in this
city? One of the really cool questions to ask a
girl you like is what her favorite spot in the city is.
This is a great way you can get to know her more and figure out what her interests are.
This is one you can ask through text, and frankly, this is how to text a girl you like.
You ask her this kind of thing so you can discover where to bring her when you finally
ask her out. You know what, Beardy? If a random guy asked
me that, I would be hesitant whether I'd want to share that information with him.
See, a hidden spot is something I guard for myself. It's like a secret haven that I can
run whenever I want to escape. So when a guy is asking this question, I may
not give the real answer to this. Unless of course, he's someone that I’m interested
in. If that's the case, then that means I'd want
to share that secret spot with him and hopefully bring him there too.
You know what, we have more tips on how to text a girl you like in another video. Check
it out here. 6. What's one event in your life that made
you a stronger person? Look guys… There are certain questions to
ask a girl you like that may elicit a personal response that could sometimes be emotional
for her. So... What questions to ask a girl should
you be careful of? This one, in particular. The reason for this is that it could be a
painful event in her life that she’s still recovering from. It could be the death of
a parent or even a previous heartbreak. The important thing you have to know - especially
when you ask them such questions - is that you should always be prepared to listen to
their response, especially when things get serious.
So if you ask this question, be empathetic with how she feels and give her some encouraging
words. It just might be something that she needs to hear.
Plus, she’ll DEFINITELY like you more if you’re a good listener who actually tries
to understand where she’s coming from. Would you look at that? We're already halfway
through our list. Don't forget that we're still sharing the
one question you should never ask a girl at the end of this video so stay tuned for that.
Now let's get back to it. (Back to your items)
5. What is the best advice that your parents ever told you?
Here's one of the many personal questions to ask a girl you like. This may produce an
emotional response, especially if the topic is sensitive to her.
For this reason, you may have to thoroughly think if this is how to talk to your crush.
The trick to asking this is to be genuinely curious and not have a judgmental tone. It's
one of our tips on how to make a girl fall in love with you fast.
When you ask a girl this question, you'll quickly discover something about her interests
and how close she is with her parents, which is good information to have.
For more tips on getting a girl to fall in love with you fast, check out our video that
already has over 2 million views! 4. If you had only a week to live, how would
you spend it? Hmmm… I think I'd spend my life savings
on just about anything I want-- eat everything I want and go anywhere I can. How about you,
Kay? I think I'd spend it with the people I care
about the most and make sure we have plenty of memories together.
Oh.. I'd do that too!I think Larry would eat all the bananas he can get.
This question may sound a little morbid when you ask it, but it's actually pretty insightful.
It's also one of the easiest conversation starters that you can use if you want to learn
how to flirt with a girl. 3. What's the coolest place you've visited?
This is one of the best questions to ask a girl you like, especially if she loves to
travel and go to new places. If you discover that she hasn't had the opportunity
to travel, you can ask her where she wants to go if she could.
I use this conversation starter all the time. It helped me get better at understanding how
to talk to girls. 2. What's your favorite part about being an
adult? Ah, yes. Question about adulting. Of course,
like some of the other questions here in our list, this one can be asked through text.
However, keep in mind that this question can be tricky so you should be familiar with the
texting rules every guy should know if you decide to ask this.
Once you already do, you can now get her insight regarding her favorite part about being an
adult. What's your favorite part, Beardy?
I think it has to be being able to earn my own money and do anything I want with it.
Oh, definitely! I have to agree with that. Find more of the texting rules every guy should
know in this amazing video we published previously.. 1. What's the most important item on your
bucket list? Another tip on how to talk to girls is to
ask her about her bucket list. Everyone has a bucket list. For most people,
it's to see the world. Now, find out if she’s like most people.
You can use this as a way to get to know her and see if you both have the same hobbies
and interests. You can also use this as a way to decide where
you should take her on your first date. Instant date idea there!
Wow. We're done with the questions you should ask.
Now, let's talk about the one thing you should not ask a girl you like.
Alright, never, in any instance, ask a girl "how old are you?"
Why? Because it's rude and some women are sensitive about this question.
Dude... just... don't. You have to wait until she is comfortable enough to open up about
that topic with you. And once she shares this information with
you, make sure that you don't forget it. You don’t want to ask after she’s already
told you. Question Callout
Do you know of any other questions to ask a girl you like? Let us know in the comments
section below. Your Conclusion
Gentlemen, don't forget to check out our other video on the best questions you should ask
a girl you like. In that video, you'll learn more of our other
powerful conversation starters to ask. And we're pretty sure they'll be great to
use on the girl you like. Don't get left behind, almost 1.9M people already watched this sensational
video. See for yourself why they did. Thanks for watching!