10 life lessons I wish I knew earlier.
I have learned some tough lessons on my journey to multimillionaire and I have learned so
many things that I had to learn and so many things that I had to unlearn.
And in this video I'm going to share with you the good advice, the bad advice, and what
you really need to know if you're going to get to that next level.
Let's go.
I'm going to share with you my most vulnerable life lesson that I've ever learned.
And yes, I'm nearly 40 years old.
I'm going to share with you the hardest lesson I ever learned and share with you exactly
how I learned it.
And I'm going to share with you the biggest secret that's keeping you broke cause it was
keeping me broke.
So as a multi-millionaire real estate entrepreneur, I have learned so many lessons.
I started from my parents' basement with bankruptcy, foreclosure, bad credit, no job and just the
worst situation ever.
Today I'm a multimillionaire with Lamborghinis, mansions, properties and so many other successes.
I absolutely love my life and it has been a quite the journey.
However, I learned so much in this 10 year process of going from bankrupt, broke person
to the multimillionaire that you see today.
And today I have 10 very important lessons that I'm going to start with.
Going from 10 all the way down to one, sharing with you exactly the real life lessons and
how I got some of them along the way.
Here we go.
Number 10, I create my identity.
One of the things that I just did not realize when I was getting started in this whole journey
to become from basic to millionaire was that I created who I was.
I'd never thought that. Someone told me that you create your reality and all this, that
and the other, and I was super skeptical at first.
I did not even understand what that meant.
Well pretty simply put, I create my own reality.
It really is just that simple.
I did not understand it.
I tell the world who I am, not the other way around.
And so guess what, that means I get to decide who I am.
I decide if I'm an introvert or an extrovert.
I decide if I'm outgoing or if I'm not outgoing, I decide if I'm rich or if I'm poor.
Yes, even that you get to decide.
I never really thought these things were choices.
I thought this was just how life worked out for people.
But when I was talking to millionaires and multimillionaires, they started to explain
to me not only how the world worked, they started to explain to me my power and my power
to create the person that I am and to create my own reality.
It really is that simple.
You can decide that you are not a person that is poor.
You can say to yourself, I am a millionaire.
You start telling yourself that and you create that.
You create your own reality because you create your I am. Number nine.
Reading is the key to success.
Oh my gosh, I never thought that reading could change your life.
Yeah, I knew that reading books was important.
I knew that I should know how to read.
I knew that smart people read books, but I did not think that reading could actually
help me make money.
Well, I was wrong about that.
One of the first things that my millionaire mentor gave me when I joined their program
was a book.
And I know a book seems like a great gift, but it just did not seem like that great of
a gift to me until I opened up the book and I started to learn that reading is the key.
Most of what you need to know about becoming a millionaire or a billionaire is all found
within a book.
Literally.
That is what most successful people do.
They write books and they teach you on what they did.
So books like Think and Grow Rich, for example, by Napoleon Hill, was life-changing for me.
Literally reading a book that taught me that my thoughts became things was just mind blowing
for me and something that I had never even considered before.
I thought that I had to go to school and get degrees and climb the corporate ladder in
order to live a successful life.
But truly I could read books and I did not even need a professional education in order
to ever become rich.
The book Think and Grow Rich and Success Principles and all those types of books taught me that
rich is a mindset.
It's not about how much money that you have in your bank account.
So this was a real life lesson for me.
Reading is the key to success and any rich person that has a big library, not a big tv,
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To change your life, you have to change your life.
This was an incredible statement that I heard from my mentor that I could not believe. To
change your life, you have to change your life.
I mean, what does that even mean?
I remember when I first heard it thinking, is this like some metaphor?
Is this a rap line or something?
But no, it really is the truth.
If you want to change your life, you have to change your life.
You may have to move to a different place.
You may have to talk to different people.
You may have to change your name.
You may have to change your friends and your family, who you talk to, the things that
you do, the stuff that you enjoy.
Literally when I became a multi-millionaire, I am unrecognizable from that broke person
that you used to know.
I've literally met back with cousins and old coworkers and they couldn't even believe how
different that I am today than I was five or seven years ago.
Because to change your life, you have to change your life.
There's no way that I was going to going to be this luxurious millionaire that drinks
beer all the time and gossips with their friends.
No, I wasn't going to be the person that watched Love and Hip Hop and could tell you about
different shows on tv.
No, I'm a multi-millionaire.
I don't even watch tv.
I don't even play video games.
In fact, I played golf.
Again, to change your life, you have to change your life.
And if you're really willing to change your life, you can.
Number seven, more value equals more money.
So many times we see the haves and the have nots and we wonder, well, how did they get that?
Or how did they get that?
And how do they get these things and where do they get their money from and blah, blah, blah.
And you just wonder how have they become the has and I am a have not.
Well simply put, if someone is rich, you gotta wrap your mind around this.
They bring a lot of value to the world.
Yeah, I know it's hard.
Trust me, I was such a skeptic and I used to think that rich people did not bring value
to the world, but they do.
Let me give you just the quickest example of one that was given to me.
Paris Hilton, she is rich, right?
Yeah.
Well, most of us don't think that Paris Hilton did a lot to get her money or that she's some
big successful person, but we all know her last name Hilton.
And we've all been probably to a Hilton hotel.
Think about that, for example.
Hilton brought so much value to the world that his great-granddaughter is taken care of.
Let's think about this for example, when people used to travel back in the day and they needed
to stay somewhere, do you know that they would just stay at different people's houses?
Literally, my parents told me a story that they were driving like from Chicago to California.
And when they were making that drive, and again, this was before hotels existed, this
was like my grandparents, they would stay in people's houses.
People would put a sign outside of their house to say that you could stay there and that
they charged a fee.
This was before hotels.
But here's the issue.
You never knew what you were going to get at that house.
Sometimes it was dangerous, and there were people in that house that were murder or kill you.
You weren't sure if the sheets were clean or if the bed smelled good, you weren't sure
of the customer service that you were going to get.
Sometimes they would wake you up in the middle of the night and tell you to get out of their house.
It was a very crazy situation before hotels came along.
So now let's think about what Hilton brought to the table.
He brought it where you go into a Hilton hotel, you know exactly what you're going to get.
You got white sheets, you get a clean bed, it's sanitized.
You go to the front desk, it's clean.
It's a very great experience.
So staying at a Hilton hotel is very, very valuable, especially compared to what the
old situation was.
So just think, would you rather just stay at random people's houses on the side of the road?
Or would you rather go into a place that's clean, safe, secure, and you know exactly
what you're going to get and you're not afraid that someone's going to bust in your room
in the middle of the night and start sleeping in the bed with you?
Well, yeah, exactly.
So now that you put that in perspective, and I gave you just a quick example of the Hilton
Hotel brand and how much value that it brought to the world, that even his great-granddaughter
is still rich.
Now your mind is open to say, wow, if I bring enough value to this world, not only will
I be rich, but my children will be rich, my children's children and my children's children's
could be rich.
So it really depends on how much value you are willing to give to the world, how big
and grande your idea is, and that is how much value you will bring to the world and how
much money you will get in return.
The more value, the more money.
Just that simple.
Number six, I am going to die
so I have to live.
This was a crazy epiphany for me.
I remember when my mentor kept saying this to me, I don't even know why she kept saying
this, but she kept reminding me, Noelle, you're going to die.
So it's time to live.
And this is just a statement that I share with you because it's so powerful, because
it truly is a great life lesson.
None of us are going to get out of this thing alive.
We're all going to die.
That's the only guarantee.
So it's time for us to live.
What type of life do you wanna live?
What type of car do you want to have?
What type of home do you wanna live in?
What type of relationships do you wanna have?
What do you wanna spend your time doing?
What's your purpose?
Why are you here?
Well, once you know the answers to those questions, you gotta start doing it because you're just
going to die.
So instead of being afraid of what's going to happen tomorrow, or if you're going to
lose money or your credit card bill or some other thing, that's just going to be temporary.
You can start living your life and going after your dream.
This is what my millionaire mentor taught me, and that's what I'm sharing with you.
Live your life cause you're going to die.
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