woes and duties that were traditionally
done by males may now be carried out by
females or vice-versa
how do people really feel about it do
you have a problem with paying for
dinner no not no no if you really want
to take me on a date why you not paying
okay it should be a 50/50 yes what
because like she got a e2 if I pay for
dinner
I gotta give up the cookie all the time
there you have it
which will be cool being a stay-at-home
dad he'll you I couldn't do it
yeah I could do that it's why he
offended you making so much money out of
control balling you don't need to work
something could you respect the man if
you made more money than him
sure hell yeah that's gonna motivate me
to do more it doesn't matter to me for
you long as you're both happy I mean I
can make it little more than you but as
long as you kind of catching up then
it's fine
would you accept a marriage proposal
from a woman I think traditionally the
man should do it right but I'm not
asking you ain't asked at all you better
ask me oh it's over if I really loving
I'm really done with it then yeah I
would have said that that has to be me
no problem I don't got no problem get on
the one knee did she pop the question to
you would you be down with yes well it
will have to depend on the time of the
day you know ladies and gentlemen more
from the street we got my man Steve
Harvey in the house no how do we feel
about switching up gender roles Steve
aah
see I'm from a different generation so
what do I was raised it was an
unthinkable thing to do this back where
I'm from
mm-hmm and as I've gotten older it's
still unacceptable to me
for me it would go against everything
that I was meant to be in terms of what
I was taught man who it was about I
can't have a woman taking care of me
that's what make a man a man
here's what I think this is just
thinking you know this is
forward-thinking where we are let's
think about the bacons okay let's say
your woman makes 10 times the bacon I
can see myself I know you got some
traditions where you're from you know
and I feel like as times are changing
and the world is turning it's more
important to wave your flag strong as
alpha male you got to wave it you know
I'm with you 100% you know I'm I'm not
necessarily old-school but I was raised
by the old school and I believe in that
100% like a woman she knows she needs to
feel protected by her man she feel taken
care of and every sense of the word but
see here's another part that this goes
to is that the the new the new evolution
of woman mm-hmm it's partly our fault
it's all agreeing okay I'll go there
with you because we have neglected our
responsibilities to make a woman exactly
yeah it's a Mick woman that's why your
house girl comes but part of that is how
many brothers have seen protection from
a man that's right and so a lot of us
had dads or a father figure or granddad
or uncle
and even if even if he had some on
him and wasn't perfect we still saw him
work every day saw him come home every
day we saw him do certain things and we
were like this is what a man is
and so even if we've evolved into this
new space where men could become more
communicative and we talk about things
at our parents I talked about things
with my wife my dad could have never
talked about with my mom yeah but but my
wife still expects me to show up with
certain things intact but the receipt
let's see here's what's happening women
today have lesser choices mm-hmm and
it's really not the woman's fault
they're just dealing with the residue
that's left for so many fatherless homes
and so now you got young cats on the
tape like up here ya ain't got no
problem staying home oh yeah yeah yeah
oh you're a woman got to pay for my food
our man is 50/50 it ain't 50/50 partner
a relationship with a woman with a wife
it's not 50/50 if you're married its
85/15 the woman get 85 you get 15 that's
really the way it works they do more
they're responsible I didn't know this
this is how it works they it requires a
woman more money to dress mm-hmm
to take care of herself mmm to run the
household you're not really good at
running the household you don't know
where the kids you don't know when a
woman knows virtually everything to
really run that Empire I'm doing what I
do I protect provide and profess my
three people got a man show love so if
you're not providing for your woman
you're not protecting her and you're not
professing your love for what you doing
and until we start teaching this to the
younger generation they actually think
that a girl posed to pay for something
but what do you but but slate slate what
do you think about one the mayor's
proposal piece
would you take a marriage proposal from
me
personally no I wouldn't take the
proposed because again I think I'm from
my old school and I think men we go get
our woman we get the woman I want and if
I'm sitting around her and she gotta ask
me I probably don't want to marry you
look here man go out and get his woman
prepare a place for his woman and set it
out for his woman and she take care of
it and they supposed to be the other way
around but here's what's interesting so
there's cats that are with a woman her
career is on a whole nother level in his
she making money he stays home I don't
think that that means he's emasculated
cuz I think even to your point Steve if
y'all got a relationship where listen
sisters career is the top career that
doesn't mean you can't protect the heat
doesn't mean that doesn't mean that you
can't show love you means though though
it means though you got to be clear
about what your role is yeah I couldn't
understand this things have got look you
know off kilter she making more money
that's cool mmm-hmm and you decided to
stand you got to stay at the house for
time with the kids mm-hmm there's
nothing in me that's gonna allow myself
to sit here the entire time right why my
girl go out and kill and I'm sitting at
the house babysit but wait Steve what is
more important than making sure your
kids your sons your daughters are
prepared for the world and if it's a
brother at the house who said listen she
got this financial thing but I'm about
to prepare some soldiers in the house it
don't mean that he ain't sitting there
doing nothing but we have said as men
that babysitting it ain't babysitting
it's preparing our babies for the world
in a way that they need to be prepared
you got to create I can't show my sons
and I can't give my daughters the vision
of a man sitting at the house while the
woman is out getting part I can't make
my daughter think that's cool and I damn
sure can't make this boy think this is
cool but the family folds up and your
ass was at the house when the families
sank what we talking about is deep there
are things that you can do
around the house like what motor grass
what's your full game look like huh over
to the side cuz brother to brother I
need my drink refill
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