A lot of women judge the potential of a new relationship by the first kiss.
Many people want and desire the kissing in their ongoing relationship to be electric,
passionate and exciting. So whether it's the first kiss or one of 1000 kisses,
in this video I will teach you how to blow your partner's mind with just a kiss. Hi, my name is
Helena Nista and I make videos that help you have the best sex of your life. And today we're delving
into Helena's school of kissing, i.e all you need to know to completely wow your sweetheart
with your kiss. I've definitely had a few epic kisses in my life. You know the kind, it's the
ones that make the Earth stop in its orbit. And I've also had some very very bad ones. Plus many
sort of average in between. And I truly believe that kissing can be an amazing tool of seduction,
love and romance, both while dating and later on in the relationship. So it really pays to master a
trick or two when it comes to being able to take your lover into a magical kissing experience.
But before we get to the actual technique, there are a few things you need to take care of first.
Number one: your breath. Your breath should absolutely be fresh. I can't even begin to tell
you what a huge turn-off it is to be kissed by someone with a bad breath. So take care
of your mouth with a regular dental routine. I mean daily brushing, flossing, tongue scraping.
I also love oil pulling which is a practice of swirling oil in your mouth for a few minutes.
It's great to cleanse your mouth and detox your system so look it up if you would like to learn
more about it. And number two: your lips. Your lips should be smooth and moist. Dry lips are a
sign that you're dehydrated and they're absolutely no fun to kiss. So drink plenty of filtrated water
and take care of your diet. Healthy whole foods including plenty of fruit and vegetables will
help you keep your lips and mouth fresh, inviting and very kissable. Okay, so when it comes to the
actual kiss the key is to go slow. I really like to create a bit of a pause in the conversation
before the kiss. I look my partner deep in the eye and I'll typically deepen my breath...
This is the moment to tune in with each other, to soften, to relax your bodies and particularly
your facial muscles. I might lick my lips or even bite them gently just to bring my lover's
attention to them. Now you're ready for step two: get closer. This is where you're really going
to build up the anticipation before the kiss. Bring your bodies and your faces closer together
but don't kiss yet. It's a great moment to tease yourself and your partner a bit. And you can do
that by coming so close that you can feel your partner's breath on your skin. And they can
feel yours. You can gently caress their face, head, ears, neck... Really take your time here,
see how much you can drag out this process so you can start to drive both of you crazy with
the desire to finally give in to that kiss. And when you're ready to go a little further,
it's time to get playful. I absolutely love to brush my lips past my lover's lips and face,
I like to breathe in a way that they can hear my deep, sensual exhale...
I can stroke their cheek with mine, caress their nose with my nose, run my fingers
through their hair, gently squeeze their ear, lightly touch their lips with my fingers, etc.
All of that is letting them know that we're getting closer, while we're savouring the
sweet torture of the anticipation of the kiss to come. When both of you can't take it anymore,
it's time to bring your lips together. Keep them really soft and relaxed. You can trace their lips
with the tip of your tongue, you can place very gentle kisses in different parts of their lips,
you can linger in some places longer than in others... Don't go too deep or aggressive here,
remain slow, mindful, sensual. Be very present in this moment, keep paying attention to your own
sensations and to the responses of your partner. Don't let your mind wander or get distracted.
This is very important for the quality of your kiss. And now you're finally ready to go deeper.
Suck on their lips, let your tongue go deeper in their mouth and move in a loving dance,
caressing their mouths and lips. But don't let your tongue go stiff, that's not a great feeling.
Keep your tongue soft and only use it as much as your partner does. This is a really important
point! Otherwise she might experience your kiss as too intense or aggressive. At this point you
can also keep switching things up. Move from soft, slow, sensual kisses to the more intense,
passionate ones. And then back to the slower ones again. At times make sure to pause, breathe, relax
and integrate all the passion, pleasure and sensations. And then go back to kissing again.
You can also add to this experience by using your hands to hold, stroke and caress their back, neck,
chest and arms. In a moment of strong passion you can even pull them back by the hair,
whether they're a man or a woman and not so hard that you cause them pain of course,
and look them deep in the eye, before slowly merging into another kiss. The point here
really is to make love to them with your lips. To flow, caress, merge through your lips, to pause
and then flow again in this beautiful dance of pleasure, passion and connection together. The
art of kissing well is absolutely exquisite and I hope that this video inspired you to take your
own kissing game to the next level. After all, kissing is typically a part of any erotic exchange
so it's worth making each kiss as amazing as possible. If you enjoyed this video, please
leave me a 'Like' and a comment: what do you most enjoy about kissing? Make sure to also check
out my online course for men What Women Want. This is a powerful program that will teach you
how to be successful with women that you desire through a very authentic and confident approach.
So if you want to learn how to approach a woman, how to take her on a great date
and how to give her what she truly desires, make sure to check out my course now!
The link is in the description below. And now it's time to go and practice your kissing. Thank you so
much for watching till the end and for all of your likes and comments. I always respond personally
and i really enjoy reading what you guys say. Have a wonderful day and I'll see you next time!