INTPs are known to be the "oddball" personality type.
People do things differently at times, which makes them distinctive but also peculiar.
It's safe to assume that all personalities can be strange in their own unique ways!
While the INTJ, INFJ, ESFP, and other types may agree, the same cannot be said for the
INTPs.
If you are an INTP, you are already aware that your normal behavior may appear unusual
to others.
People who have unconventional personalities, such as yours, are sometimes told that they
are wacky, quirky, or eccentric because they are different from the typical.
But why exactly do INTPs come off as so weird to those around them?
Today I am talking about 7 Reasons Why INTPs Seem Really Weird to Others.
Be sure to watch until the end of this video and let me know in the comments your thoughts
on these reasons why other people think you are weird as an INTP.
Let’s get into it.
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Starting things off for me today is that INTPs Don’t Care About Social Norms
INTPs are incredibly individualistic people who do not care about social norms or expectations.
If they want to do something, they will do it, regardless of what other people think.
Rules and regulations cannot stop them from pursuing what they had intended to do so.
INTPs rarely respond to peer pressure and may even place themselves at the center of
attention, regardless of the social consequences of doing so.
They have no problem being the bad guy if it means being direct and honest.
One of the reasons INTPs are often considered weird is because they don’t care about what
other people think of them.
They don’t care about fitting in or following the crowd.
They are their own people who march to the beat of their own drum.
This makes INTPs interesting to be around and certainly not boring, but it does make
them seem really strange to others at times.
If people really take the time to understand INTPs, they will start to like their weirdness!
Next up and number 6 is that INTPs Are Constantly Observing & Analyzing
INTPs are constantly observing and analyzing their surroundings.
This can lead to a lot of insight and interesting conclusions, but it can also be quite jarring
to others.
As INTPs are constantly taking in new information and processing it, they can be oblivious to
what is happening around them, and this is due to their introverted sensing.
To others, this can often seem rude and offensive.
INTPs can also be incredibly critical of everything they see, which can make them seem harsh and
unfriendly to others.
For example, an INTP could notice a tiny detail about someone and point it out to them.
Let’s face it, no one likes having things they are self-conscious about being brought
up.
INTPs do not mean to come across this way, but that is just how they are.
It can be really difficult for INTPs to switch off their constantly analyzing brains, which
makes them stand out and can make them seem really different from others.
There is nothing to be ashamed of about how your brain works.
What makes you different isn’t wrong, but unique in so many ways.
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Kicking off my top 5 today is INTPs Are Skeptics By Nature
INTPs are skeptics by nature and are likely to question everything.
This is especially true when it comes to social conventions and expectations.
INTPs find it incredibly difficult to simply go along with the flow and pretend something
is true when they know it isn’t.
This makes them seem very out of place, especially when they are younger.
They just don’t understand why they have to sit quietly in class and listen to a teacher's
lecture when they know they could be learning so much more by reading and researching on
their own.
INTPs just don’t understand why certain traditions are followed when they are clearly
outdated and useless.
Not following typical social behaviors and norms can make an INTP an oddball since most
people just blindly follow without question.
But it is just who they are.
Also, INTPs want to know the reason behind everything.
You cannot just order them to do something and expect them to simply follow it without
wanting to dig deeper.
Be ready to provide your reasons.
You must be able to justify it!
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Next up and number 4 today is People Seem To Dislike An INTPs Lack Of Empathy
INTPs are often considered to be really weird because others find their lack of empathy
off-putting.
They are not naturally empathetic towards others and do not really understand the concept
of empathy.
To INTPs, this is just pointless and doesn’t make any sense.
They don’t understand why they should care about what others are feeling, and prioritizing
this above all else is just silly and unhealthy.
While this makes INTPs seem really weird to others, it also makes them unlikely leaders.
One of the qualities of a leader is having emotional intelligence.
The ability to navigate a group of people and all of the feelings and personalities
that come with it.
INTPs simply don’t have, nor do they care to have the emotional intelligence required
to lead others.
For example, if an INTP is leading a team, they can be very inconsiderate if someone
makes an excuse.
This can make INTPs appear cold and harsh to others, and it is also one of the reasons
they are frequently unemployed and unable to sustain themselves financially.
This isn't necessarily the case for all INTPs, as many INTPs excel in positions that require
independent effort.
Starting my top 3 is The Way An INTP Communicates Can Be Irritating
INTPs communicate in a very different way to others, especially when compared to other
personality types.
They don’t talk a lot, and they don’t always respond in a timely manner.
To them, every single task is a puzzle that needs to be carefully analyzed and solved.
This is why INTPs are often late for things or don’t respond to texts or emails.
They are constantly thinking about the puzzle in their head and can’t be bothered with
trivial tasks that don’t require their full attention.
This can make an INTP seem really bizarre to others, especially when they are trying
to communicate with them.
If you try to strike up a conversation with an INTP, be ready to dive in deep because
small talk isn’t going to feed their brains, and they’ll easily get bored by you and
leave the conversation mid-way.
To communicate with an INTP, try to be mindful and go deep into things instead of just touching
the surface.
You will start to see how wonderful they can be and the knowledge they hold is truly exceptional.
Are you an INTP?
What are your thoughts on these reasons that other people think you are weird?
Leave a comment and tell me your stories.
In the runner-up spot is INTPs Couldn't Care Less About The Real World
INTPs exhibit little interest in the ordinary aspects of life, such as tying their shoelaces,
being on time, or doing things because the rest of the world expects them to.
They prefer to do their own thing and march to the beat of their own drum rather than
follow what everyone else is doing.
Reality is frequently a barrier to overcome since it interferes with their inner world.
When left to their own ways, an INTP may become so involved in their own thoughts and ideas
that they forget about the world around them—this is both a blessing and a burden.
Because of this, they typically excel in whatever they are focused on, but friendships and relationships
often suffer because of their lack of awareness of everything else.
To make matters worse, INTPs are a rare and unique sort of breed, accounting for only
3% of the population.
There aren't many people who can relate to their unconventional ways of thinking, so
it's no surprise that others believe they're "strange."
Topping my list and the number 1 reason people think INTPs are weird is because
INTPs Prefer To Operate Alone
INTPs prefer to do things for themselves and by themselves.
This makes them appear extremely strange to others.
INTPs intensely dislike working in groups and prefer to work independently and on their
own schedule.
People may perceive them as selfish when they prefer to do things their own way and on their
own terms.
People see them as loners who aren’t willing to share their space.
They don’t understand why they need to be part of a team or follow someone else’s
command when they are perfectly capable of getting the job done on their own.
INTPs prefer to be in control, to do things the way they want them to be done.
This can make it challenging for an INTP, especially when they are in a position that
requires them to work as part of a team.
For example, it is extremely difficult for an INTP to cooperate and work with others
in group settings since they want to provide their input on everything and expect everyone
to do as they say.
While an INTP may believe that what they are doing is correct, others may find it strange
since they do not want to be bossed around.
Everyone prefers to contribute and wants their own voices to be heard.
Another important reason people think that an INTP is weird is how they handle relationships
and, more specifically, intimacy.
It is important to remember that INTPs are not trying to be difficult – they are simply
operating according to their naturally introverted thinking style and way of behaving.
This does pose its challenges when it comes to INTP relationships.
There are certain things people must know when trying to have a relationship with an
INTP.
This video goes in-depth on the things an INTP personality must have when it comes to
successful relationships and the things they need for true intimacy.