everybody mat Boggs here this is your
place to understand your man and create
the love that you deserve today I want
to talk to you about a question that
came in online about hidden blocks this
woman wrote in and said hey I feel like
there might be some hidden blocks I feel
like there might be something that's
standing in my way
from creating the relationship that I
want and I don't know if you felt that
way I don't know if you felt like guys
is taking a long time what's holding me
back what's blocking me if there is
something blocking to me how do I
discover how do I identify it and how do
I release it so I can create the
relationship that I want so here's one
place to look are there any old
relationships in your life where you
have connections where you have
relationship ties to that person because
if there is it's a well-known fact
scientific study that there is an
energetic connection between you and
that person in your past have you ever
been thinking about somebody and all of
a sudden they called you on the phone
and you're like oh my god I'm just
thinking about you and they're like no
way you just popped in my head or you
called someone on the phone and they
were like oh my gosh I was just thinking
about you there's like why does that
happen because our field of energy does
not stop with our skin we are energetic
electromagnetic beings that our energy
field stretches out beyond that which we
can see and connects with people in our
lives when we have old ties to past
relationships that is energy tied to
that old relationship that we don't have
to be able to move us forward and it
usually shows up in two ways number one
are you still hung up on an old
relationship do you have ever had the
thoughts like man that was the best
relationship I could have ever asked for
and I will that's the best it will ever
be I will never have a better
relationship than that or do you still
have God if the person was just ready
like we were so great together but they
just weren't ready they weren't at the
right place and I'm looking for
something new but when they get ready I
might want to be ready for them do you
have an old hang-up on an old
relationship or here's the second way do
you have resentment
have you been burned have you been
betrayed
were you let down where you left is the
resentment because resentment is just
the opposite side of that energy of
desire and attraction for them is that
resentment can also be an energetic
chord are there people in your life that
you need to forgive because releasing
the hang-ups and practicing forgiveness
from old past relationships can free us
up to create something new I'll give you
a demonstration okay I have a
demonstration that I think you'll find
fascinating there really represents what
it's like when we have old relationship
ties in our life so come close I'll show
this to you all right so on this table
come take a look at this table here I
have three magnets you can see them here
they're colorful magnets let's imagine
that this middle magnet is you this is
beautiful blue this is you in your life
today let's imagine that this yellow
magnet here this is the man of your
dreams this is the one this is mr. right
this is the one you've been waiting for
this is the one that you are going to be
madly in love with create an amazing
partnership with boom super compatible
super chemistry everything you want but
this old relationship mr. red right here
this is the guy that's still in your
heart and mind you either pistou this
guy or you're still hung up on him right
so this is how this works right when
you're energetically connected to this
old relationship this is just you having
given this man real estate in your heart
and mind when you're energetically
connected to him what happens is you go
through your your life and you're
looking for a new relationship but
because you're still connected you
actually make it very very difficult to
get connected to a new relationship
let's imagine now that you release this
past relationship that you either get
over this person or you practice
forgiveness and you release this you
release this old relationship and let's
imagine that you reorient yourself for
the kind of love you you want to have in
your life you make new commitments
create new beliefs then what happens is
it becomes very easy and oftentimes this
person comes into your life out of the
blue right it's someone that may have
been circle
your circle of friends are in your life
you meet them you like oh my gosh we
have the same friends oh my gosh
we've been connected but we just haven't
met for so long what happened you
released you released old ties you
became open to new possibilities so my
question to you is this is there any one
you need to forgive in your life right
now
or is there anyone that you need to
release and let go to make way for the
new right now because as you go out
there in your life and as you move
forward with a clean heart right with an
open slate with a mind open to
possibilities you'll be amazed what
happens in your love life so thank you
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as always I've posted a link in the
description for a resource that can help
you remove negative blocks and practice
this forgiveness work and it will really
serve you so I'll see you soon