[music playing]
WOMAN: Well, Dave and Amber, the time
has come for the two of you to make one of the most important
decisions of your life.
Do you want to stay married or do you want to get a divorce?
[suspenseful music playing]
I'm feeling (SIGHING) just confused,
because of this whole process, but I want to stay married.
Because, even though this has been one of the most
challenging things I've ever done,
I think it's all been worth it, and I think you are worth it.
And I think that we can grow and be in the place
that I want us to be in.
[music playing]
Dave, do you want to stay married--
[suspenseful music playing]
--or get a divorce?
Um-- make sure I get this right.
Eight weeks ago, these three chose to put us together.
And it's been a process--
a process of getting to know each other
and going through some conflict, and having moments where
we were at our breaking point.
It wasn't easy.
It wasn't fun.
Today, sitting here with you, I don't want to rush any of this.
I don't want to rush feelings.
I just want more time.
The only thing holding me back is time.
I want to stay married.
[romantic music playing]
I want to choose to be with you and to continue this marriage,
and to continue working towards what I think can
be an amazing future together.
I hope that the commitment today means more to you
than the commitment eight weeks did.
This whole crazy thing that we're doing,
there's no way I could possibly imagine it being anyone else.
You know, marriage to you has been awesome in so many ways.
It's been challenging.
You've pushed me outside of my comfort zone.
You've helped me grow.
You've shown me so much of who you are.
I think that, just, you've shown me what a good partner can be.
I mean, I really think that it's been an amazing experience.
It certainly hasn't all been positive.
I think that we both know that, but
there's been so much positive.
And it's-- for me, it's been a great experience.
I couldn't imagine doing this with anyone else, either.
PASTOR CALVIN: Amber and Dave--
I'm so glad they made this decision to stay together.
They have the maturity.
They have the experience.
They have all the ingredients necessary to make
a beautiful marriage together.
Now the rest of their life together truly begins,
and I'm hoping they find true success and happiness.
When you guys think about your future,
now that you've made this decision to stay together--
which, I can speak for all of us, we are ecstatic about--
what really excites you now about the prospect
of this life together?
I'm just excited that I get to see you every morning,
and I'm excited to start working on our goals.
DAVE: I'm excited to--
feels like we're taking the training wheels off now.
And just to focus on the positives,
continue to learn what we need out of each other
to become the best husband I can for you.
I mean it, I think it's all going to be awesome.
[music playing]
This calls for a celebration.
Yes, it does.
PASTOR CALVIN: This calls for a celebration.
[champagne bottle popping]
This is the beginning of your marriage.
Make it a little heaven on Earth.
- Cheers. - Cheers.
[glasses clinking]
[inaudible]
[music playing]