Kissing has always been my passion. I have always loved to sink into juicy, sensual lips..
into the moment where you are totally in the moment; into to the moment where you become
one with your partner
well.. maybe I am a little crazy about kissing.. but maybe that’s the reason why my man sometimes
sings stuff like that..
You do it so good, you fuck my mind You pull it out, then you open fire
You make me wanna tap out and retire Your pretty lips leave me so inspired
I think that she a winner She could be a keeper
'Cause she's such a good kisser
Yep that’s today, but I remember some nights in my late teens when I kissed something like
10 different men … and women.. in one night just to taste their lips and learn about their
kissing styles
Unfortunately not many knew how to kiss. And it sometimes ended up looking like this:
Not really inviting, right? So to make this world a better kissing place I decided to
share my 9 secrets to a sensual, passionate & unforgettable kiss.
Before I share with you my secrets let me give you some insights into the science and
art of kissing.
A kiss.. is sacred. It is a revelation to your partner. It is an intense exchange of
information. That’s why 60% of men and women do not pursue a relationship after a first
bad kiss.
But it is not just the way you kiss that matters but also the information your partner receives
through a kiss.. to be more precise through your saliva which carries your DNA.
Through a kiss a man can subconsciously assess a woman’s levels of oestrogen and therefore
fertility and a women can size up the man to see how strong his immune system and health
is and how well he looks after himself.
So for a good kiss you need not just be a good kisser but also take care of yourself
healthwise.
If you kiss a person in the right way your kiss can be healing, electrifying, nurturing
& bonding.
You see where I am going here right... So let me share with you my secrets..
Okay babe let’s start with the basics.. A good kiss starts with a fresh breath. How
you do you that?
Certainly not by using chemical oral spray or chewing chemical and unhealthy chewing
gum but by maintaining a healthy diet and drinking lots of fresh water and of course
by taking care of your mouth hygiene.
That means not just brushing your teeth but also scraping your tongue. Your tongue is
covered with old cells and usually harmless germs which is why you usually have a a thick
white layer on your tongue. So scrape that baby..
When you know that you want to kiss someone try to avoid foods which leave a strong aftertaste
such as garlic, onion, coffee, milk or corn..
A soft, smooth, and slightly-moist mouth is ideal for kissing. Dry lips don’t feel good
and are a sign of dehydration.
If you want to soften your lips drink lots of water every day and eat fresh, natural
foods.
If you are really in a pinch then quickly run your tongue over your lips and press them
together or use an all-natural lip balm.
One of the most important things for a mind-blowing kiss is the right energy between the two of
you. In the best case the energy should feel something like this:
Energy is something you cannot see but only feel.. call it intuition
or whatever but never go against that feeling. If something doesn’t feel right don’t
kiss.
Also prepare your mind to have loving thoughts towards your partner during a kiss. This will
greatly enhance your kissing experience.
Prepare your mind for this unique union of yin and yang. Connect with the idea that this
kiss is sacred.
Like I said before .. kissing is something very intimate and personal. The more you honor
it in this way the better your kiss will be.
A truly wonderful kiss doesn’t start with kissing but with the anticipation of the kiss.
A crucial part at this stage is your breath. Here’s an example:
Get really close to your partner, let him feel you hot breathe. Do so by slightly opening
your lips. Exchange each others breathe.. This can be pretty intense but resist the
urge to kiss. Let your fingers play with his hair, her neck, ear or shoulders.. Make your
fingers featherlight. And go super slow.
Now make your lips super soft and tilt your head to one side.
Now slowly get closer to his lips. Breathe her breath. Open your lips and in slow motion
lower your lips featherlight onto his lips. Be playful now. Back off again.. don’t go
right into the kiss now. Be playful.. stir up the energy. Tease him.
By the way.. if you don’t have a partner use your palm. I am serious. Using your palm
to train your kissing skills is much better than any external object since you can feel
on your own body how your lips and tongue feel.
Slowly introduce the tip of your tongue. For this train your tongue to become ultra soft.
You can use your palm to train this.
Become playful.. softly lick the bottom lip or your partner's upper lip while holding
her face or his neck. Super lightly bite his lips and have the tip of your tongue come
through sometimes.
Most importantly: Don’t shove your tongue like a sword into her mouth. Always get in
sync with your partner and find the same rhythm.
Once you feel that you two have the same rhythm let your tongue go a little deeper. Softly.
Always move in sync with her. You should use your tongue only as much as she does.
And by the way make sure to swallow your excess saliva. Nothings worst than having too much
saliva all over the face.
The most important thing now: Be playful, never stick in your tongue too deep and always
let your tongue be soft..
Now that you are in the zone keep playing. Nothing is worse than someone who keeps doing
the same thing over and over again.
Switch between different kissing styles. Be sexy and then sweet. Be wild and then soft.
And most of all intuitive.
Or go a little crazy and tilt your head from the right side to the left side.
Try a little few light bites.. or pull back when things are getting really heated and
then lean in for another kiss again
And don’t be afraid to use your hands to make kissing a full-body experience. Play
with different intensities. Make your hands featherlight, then use more strength.
The combination of strength in your hands and softness in your lips is amazing.
don’t take it all too seriously. If you tried something that just plain failed
it’s okay to laugh, to lightly apologize and then maybe try it again. No one is born
perfect.
But if the kiss was epic then don’t be shy to let your partner know.
Yo babe.. I hope this little kissing guide was of much help to you. Let me know in the
comments below of your own tips & tricks. I love to learn from and with you.
And remember this beautiful old saying: “The sound of a kiss is not so loud as that
of a cannon, but its echo lasts a great deal longer.”
Much love.. peace .. I am out.