I coach clients through a lot of online meeting. Online, it's like taking an entire net through
the ocean, and if you're not good at filtering that net because it catches everything, you
can waste a lot of time on the wrong guys who just want to text for weeks on end and
spend hours for absolutely no gain. So I've created an entirely new category of men for
you to use when you group these men you meet online who want to just text and do nothing.
We're henceforth going to refer to them as the WOFTs
in other words, waste of f***ing time.
As I say, I don't like the idea and I will never coach the idea of referring to
men you, meet with in person as wastes of time.
Check out the enjoy dating video. There's so much to be gained
from just getting out there, meeting people, learning about different people.
All these benefits. I'll put the link to that video, card and in the description below.
However, online, there are some serious WOFTs
and you need to know the type of WOFTs, so that you can filter them out
and get on with meeting the good guys.
The guy who says he's going to call you and then doesn't.
A solid secure guy that you meet online is either going to call you when he says he will
or he's going to be profusely apologetic and explain why he didn't call if he misses the call.
If he does not do that and he does not apologize, he is a WOFT.
The guy who cancels your meet-up last minute without a good reason.
Again, a solid secure guy is either going to give you warning or if an emergency comes up, he's
going to contact you and be profusely apologetic.
If he does not do these, he is a WOFT.
The guy who cancels on you multiple times.
I don't give a shit if NASA called him up and offered him a job.
If he's canceled on you three times, he is a WOFT!
The guy who sends you long charming messages online about how great you are
and then when it comes to actually making something happen,
a phone call or a date, he gets flaky,
inconsistent --> WOFT.
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The guy who makes zero use of the phone number you've given him.
So you send him a text and you say, "Hey, it'd be great to hear more about this.
I'm free after seven tomorrow. You should give me a call, my number is blah,"
and he just ignores it and keeps texting you online.
The guy is a WOFT!
The guy who gives you one hour notice for your date - rock solid WOFT.
As you can see, WOFTs come in all different shapes and sizes and forms
and causes and they happen for all different reasons.
The guy could be incredibly avoidant. The guy could be married or have
a girlfriend. The guy could be lurking online, the guy could be bored. The guy could have
huge stressors in his life. I don't care what it is. What matters is the way he's acting
with you and treating with you. And if he's doing these things, he is a WOFT.
He is one of the many male dating personalities that you need to be
not spending your time on.
So I've got more of those, remember. Make sure the 10 Male Dating Personalities
That Lead to Heartbreak, that free guide is in the description below.
We now have an 11th, it is the WOFT and he is one that you can literally spend weeks
or even months. I talked to clients who spent months messaging WOFTs.
Don't be that client.
Stop messaging WOFTs. Learn to spot them early.
Seriously, look at these signs, basic inconsistencies,
he's not doing what he says he's going to do, all these things and you
will save a huge amount of time. Stop wasting your time in dating
and only be at least meeting
up with men who add some kind of value to your life.
Well, that's the video. Thank you for watching.
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I will start making some shirts with WOFTs written on them.
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