did you take an Enneagram test and the type 4 came up in your top three results maybe you took a back
Decor test a treaty test or an Enneagram Institute test all of those are great tests but you found
yourself still wondering are you actually a Type 4 or maybe somebody gave you an Enneagram book
as a gift and you started reading it and you thought OMG it's like reading your melt and so
you thought I need to learn more information on this Enneagram type 4. with all that said you've
come to the right place today this is the video for you because by the end of this video you're
going to know a lot more information on what it's like to be a Type 4 or if somebody in your
life is a type for who they are who is this type for well they're known as the individualist they
are motivated by their desire to be authentic and unique they want to stand apart from others they
really want to know who they are in a very deep and meaningful way and they fear that they might
be flawed or defective or thought insignificant so if this sounds like you then you might be an
Enneagram type four but let's not stop there here are the 10 signs to help you further confirm if
you are a type 4 or someone that you know sign number one you think about the past a lot more
than the people in your life do you might even feel like your past kind of like haunts you or
you think about the past in your romanticize it or you want to go back in the past the past is
better than the present or the future a lot of times that four can really I I don't want to say
get stuck in the past but think a lot about the past sign number two you've always felt a little
bit different than everybody else everyone wants to fit in be like everyone else not the four they
feel different the four they can fake fitting in but really their true desire is to authentically
be themselves and a lot of times that makes them feel different sign number three you love deep
Long conversations your conversations need to have depth and meaning to them those are your favorite
kind of conversations to have the four is not going to be into superficial weather talk so don't
try and talk to them about the weather unless it like is a real issue right but truthfully
they are not into this superficial uh Small Talk they love deep Long conversations sign number four
you want to feel all the feelings and you like to feel them at heightened levels so if you're happy
if it's authentic then you're really happy if you're sad well then you're really sad and
you're okay with sadness you can sit in sadness and sometimes sadness can feel tragic if you're
mad well then you're gonna sit in that and you're you're okay with feeling the feeling of anger if
you're uncomfortable okay well then let's sort through that to me the four does a really really
good job at feeling all their feelings sign number five your clothing style might change depending
on your mood fours are so expressive and they can express themselves through their clothing honestly
in my opinion I think the four sometimes secretly are showing thus how they really feel hoping that
we'll just notice what they're going through what they're feeling and so you know a lot of times
what they're wearing and and just however they're expressing themselves is showing us a deeper look
at who they are and this is one thing I love about Force I love that they have this freedom
of expression and they want to be authentic to themselves and they want to be able to dress the
way they want to be and and just I don't know like be who they truly are and I think a lot of
us types can learn from the four about being real and Beyond being authentic and things like that
the fourth thrives on self-expression and this is just another way for them to express their
individuality sign number six the four cannot stand people that are fake emotionally dishonest
superficial people that are people Pleasers like this is so or go so against who they are
as a person that they can spot it and other people right away all that to say it just it goes against
their authentic genuineness and so when somebody is like that it can get on a Four's nerves to say
the least sign number seven you do not care about impressing other people which kind of goes along
with sex right because that would be fake and superficial and so this makes sense you don't care
about impressing other people I think truthfully the four is only concerned about expressing
themselves ourselves in a genuine way not to impress anyone sign number eight people open up
to you a lot they trust you they want to give you their pearls in life they want to you know they
they know that you're gonna listen and you're gonna listen well and you're gonna hear them
and so people tend to open up to you about the hard stuff in their life a lot they trust the
force with their feelings and emotions and I think again it just goes back to because that's
what they're getting from the four and so they can pick up on that and feel like it's a safe space
for them to be able to talk to them about you know themselves and what they're going through before
is not afraid of emotions at all they can handle the hard the sad the nitty the gritty the all of
it which um I'm impressed with I wish I could uh that's not always the case but yeah the four is
okay with hearing and listening and and holding and holding space for that sign number nine some
times you fantasize about meeting that person that truly truly gets you understands you sees you the
force can romanticize this like perfect person that would be perfect for them obviously not like
a perfectionistic type of person but a person that would really really you know be perfect for them
and I'm not saying it has to be a relationship it could even be a friendship or whatever okay
last one sign number 10 you need to feel inspired to do the things that need to be done maybe it's
a job maybe it's housework maybe it's grocery shopping maybe it's mundane things right but the
four really to to go all in they do need to feel inspired it's just this this boring mundane thing
can be hard for them I think for them it's like oh I gotta do that task it's gonna suck the life
out of me you know but if they're inspired even if it is something along those lines then they're
all in and they're gonna do it amazing okay so that's it that's the end guys thanks so much for
watching thanks for wanting to learn more about the four whether it's for you or someone else in
your life I love it when you guys take the time to invest in yourself and the people in your life and
learn about them and understand them and see them uh through the lens of who they are it's beautiful
and it's the reason why I do this if you've gotten to this point and you're like I need more Hillary
I need more information on the Enneagram type four well I've got great news I have tons of videos out
there on the type 4 and I'll highlight two of them this one is the ideogram for wings it's a great
one if you want to learn about the wings of the the wings of the four or this one is all about the
Enneagram for subtypes another great one if you want to learn just more depth of what it's like
to be a four through those instinctual subtypes but both of those are great videos and they will
help you learn more about who the four is that's all I have for today I will see you guys next week