especially when it's cold I'll have my turtleneck and a skirt that has like a little slit
that gives you a little something-something. the imagination but then when you lookup
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Neemah Speaks. Hey lovelies today to come back and talk about the five secret
families to dressing feminine and always looking polished this is how to attract
and putting out the energy that you want. TO my patrons I'm gonna share with you a worksheet that
you can go through fill it out to help you dress more feminine now without further ado let's go
the first important thing when it comes to the science of dressing feminine is confident now you
may say Neemah are you kidding me? yes I talked about confidence in the last video that I did on the
power of the [ __ ] when it comes to dressing feminine it's extremely important to understand
that you wear your clothes but your clothes don't wear you. a lot of women they will buy
expensive clothes and they would wear it but it just doesn't look right when you walk into a room
a powerful confident woman she just radiates. You have your shoulders back you are relaxed your walk
is powerful you're walking with a purpose that's confidence. One of my favorite people who always
is confident in what she wears is Rihanna now i personally love Rihanna she would wear a garbage
bag and make that garbage bag look polished. look classy. look sophisticated. why? because she's
confident so when I say confidence what exactly does that mean? No slouching! One of the things that
I hate it so much. A girl would be wearing a beautiful outfit but her posture is terrible. She's slouching!
she has shoulders down! she's looking down! she has her hair all over trying to hide her face
she is trying to look down biting her fingers and all of that just screams you're insecure!
and overall it makes you look unconfident so the science of dressing feminine the first thing that
you gotta understand is that you need to wear your clothes. I wear my clothes! I own that ish! I
walk into a room like yeah I did that. If you need people as inspiration you can watch Rihanna I just
love Rihanna. Rihanna just gives you a bad b energy. Another person is Beyonce especially watch her ivy
park videos. the way she's standing. the way she's moving. she's comfortable. Remember it's all about
the confidence. For me I wear thrifted clothes but I make those clothes look like a thousand bucks! Why?
because I am confident in myself. I have proper posture. I walk into the room and I own it
The second secret formula to dressing feminine and always looking polished is that dress for
your body shape. You might be like Neemah huh? what? What? Yes just do it! This is one of the things that helped me
look my best is that, I dress for my body shape. if you ladies would like for me to go more into
details and literally break it down the different body shapes how you can figure out what your body
shape and your body type is and what clothes will best suit your body type? comment down below and i
might go into details about that. But, one of the things that I'm going to tell you that changed
my life is understanding my body structure. I am a pear shape. Envision a pear. So what does
a pear shape means? that means that the best part of my body is my waist. I have a tiny waist and i
love my waist. I exaggerate my waist yes baby I got that waist and I'm gonna show it off. When you're
trying to look polished classy elegant and so on. It's extremely important to understand your body
shape. 'm gonna use a pear shape because I am a pear shape. So as a pear shape that
means that my shoulders are narrower than my hip. for me, my hip is the widest part of my body and
then next comes my shoulders and then lastly it's my waist. I have a tiny waist and I'm not ashamed to show it off.
I love it. When I dress for myself I usually put the emphasis on the top, my shoulders
and my hip proportion are not the same. so i love to wear things that are off the shoulder
to give that vertical lines make my shoulders look wider. So it can look proportional to my hips
and then that gives me an hourglass shape. always, always dress according to your body shape.
the third step is the rule of one. Now I don't know if this has a different name out there but this
is one of those things that I made up. The purpose of the rule of one is allow one of your accessories
to be the main focus. If you're gonna wear a statement necklace then wear a cute little
stud earrings and call it a day. If you're gonna wear statement diamond big extravaganza earrings
then do not pair that with a diamond big statement necklace. So that's what I mean when I say the
rule of one. To me, it looked tacky not only does it look tacky but your earrings and your necklace are
fighting for attention. When you're learning how to attract it's all about making it look
effortless and seamless. When I woke up. put on clothes and off I went. But truth is I deliberately thought about
those things. So again, if you're gonna wear a statement necklace just put on some pair of stud
earrings. if you're gonna have big bold earrings then leave your chest bare so those two things are
not fighting for attention and are not crashing. another thing where you can apply the rule of one
is that when it comes to showing your assets! now when I say showing your asset what exactly does
that mean? It's that if you're gonna choose to show your cleavage, let the girls out on display, then
cover your legs. Now you can say Neemah wait What! is this the 1950s? let me take a quick break
and give thanks to all my patrons. thank you so much for being a part of Neemah Speaks inner circle
now let's keep going with the video. there's something so subtle and sexy
about this hear me out. listen to me ladies! listen to me! If you were to see me in real life
I'm telling you I know how to dress up. And one of the things that I learned especially when
it's cold. I'll wear my turtleneck but then I'll have a skirt that has like a little slit
that gives you a little something-something. it gives your imagination but, then when you look
up everything else is covered like a nun. it's polished. it's a little playful and it has that
little mystery and the little sexiness without being overtly sexual so that's what i mean when
I say the rule of one. so you're gonna wear a sweetheart necklace with your girls all
pushed up to your face then maybe let's not wear the mini skirt. let's just wear a trouser or let's
wear a midi skirt. that way, we bring the eyes to that cleavage and the girls. Of course you
have some beautiful earrings. and when people look at you as a whole. You are
proportion and you're balanced. pick one thing that you're gonna accentuate and accentuate. for me
again most of the people they like to like show a cleavage or show legs but for me, I love my waist
as I talked about before. Dressing for your body shape I show off my waist. The tiniest part of my body
and I like to show it off. So me everywhere I go you're gonna see me cinching in that waist.
A cinched waist tends to add that flirty playfulness and adds
that little femininity because it gives you the curves. It's just there is something sexy about
it, that I don't know how to explain it to you. but again remember, the rule of one, less is always more
the fourth point is proper fit now if you get nothing from this video is
always make sure your outfit fits you like a glove when it comes to the example that i gave before
that Rihhanna can wear a garbage bag and still look nice feminine and polish is because it's tailored
to the right places. when your outfit fits you at the right places. oh my god you're gonna look
like a million bucks. no joke! so always, always, always make sure your outfit fits you. For me
the one issue that I always have when it comes to my clothing is that, remember, before I was talking
about how my waist is the tiniest part of my body and then my hips are a little bit wider?
so when I wear skirts and jeans especially pants I always get the ugly gap at the back
of my waist! my hip will fit just fine. my bum will fit just fine. but, when it comes to my waist
it doesn't fit I have to take my pants in at the waist. now you can pay somebody to do it for you
but I personally learned how to sew. So I have a sewing machine and I take in the waist of my pants
and my skirts myself. I also make some outfits to just make sure that they properly fit
me. Another thing that makes sure that fits are your undergarment! speaking of underground
I went into details on my workbook and i have like a whole page in the workbook where
I explain how to calculate your measurements. how to know what is your bra size. where to go.
all of that goodness. so if you'd like access to that pdf file as always go on Patreon and get
access the workbook today. I'm telling you dressing feminine it doesn't have to be hard
when it comes to dressing more feminine it's all about finding out your personal style.
now i personally i'm a big believer that personal style or dressing feminine it's not a one
fit all types of things. I believe that as you grow and as time changes, your style is gonna evolve. so it's
extremely important to pinpoint the basic style and the basic things that make your personal style.
now you might say Neemah how can I find my personal style? finding personal style is not something that
you do overnight! it's a process that's going to take you a long time. Now as I stated before if you
go on Patreon and you get the workbook. there's going to be whole pages two pages in
there that's all about finding your personal style. I gave you an example of how to do it. I explained
to you the methods. on the screen here, I'm going to Share with you guys a Pinterest board that I made
from that workbook. From where we went through and we found our personal style. we described it.
and everything. the Pinterest board that you see on the screen right now is an example of the personal
style. This is a clean classy look. Now you may say Neemah, okay I don't get it. I don't. how do I find
my personal style? the first step of understanding your personal style is that you gotta start at
your own closet. look at your closet right now and say what does this closet say about me? The one
central message? you just have a bunch of clothes that go with nothing! says nothing! Archiving
a different random style that doesn't truly represent your personal style. so that's the most important
the thing that you gotta do is that, look at your own closet. Now the second step is that find fashion or
style inspiration and this is gonna come in the form of a Pinterest
board that you can see on the screen right now. where we go on Pinterest. think of yourself! how would
you want people to perceive you? and search those keywords and make a whole Pinterest board that you
can use. Refer to the board every single time you go shopping at the store. you use that board
as a guiding point. now again remember you guys before I made one of this personal style type
of the board for my best friend. People wanted. they wanted me to share the border with everybody.
I don't think that's useful. I think that you need to think for yourself because I do not know
who you are personally. I would like to take a moment and give a shout out to Cleo and shout out to Jaye and shout
out to Annette for being a part of Neemah Speaks inner circle. Again if you'd like to have access
to the workbook. where you guys can go through and find out your
style. but also I also made a video to go with that pdf file to just help you dress for
your specific body shape. and all of that goodness! if you're interested visit www.patreon.com/neemahspeaks
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