Uncle C, back in the office and in this video, I'm going to be showing each and every one
of you specifically, why you need to stop chasing women.
And how you can actually completely reverse this cycle to start to make them chase you.
Now, you're going to notice that if you can make them chase you, the long term ROI of
this is that it is a win win for both parties, right?
This is not just a win for you.
This is also going to be a win for her.
And I'm going to be breaking this down throughout this entire presentation to show you why all
along there's a very high chance you probably have been doing things completely backwards
and how to never make these exact same mistakes that 99.9% of men make every single day.
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Now, in order to understand why men need to stop chasing women,
what you first have to understand is why modern men fail, okay?
Because if you can start to eliminate this box out of your life and not to do these same
things, what happens is that this whole journey becomes so much easier.
The first thing is that traditional men today worship sex, okay, and the reason for this
is because their subconscious mind is pre programmed to be absorbing all of these different
sorts of information.
And when these information panels take control of a man's head, what happens is that he starts
to put sex on the ultimate pedestal of his value of worth.
You see, he typically today does not feel like he's enough.
He doesn't feel like his masculinity shining through.
He doesn't feel like he has any balls to him if he can't get a woman to have sex with him.
Right and this comes from a lot of things.
This comes from hookup culture, this comes from a lot of movies that produce.
This also comes from a lot of sitcoms, this also comes from a lot of music.
Okay, if you look at the music industry, what tends to happen is that multiple genres of
music, promote this.
And when you promote this, what tends to happen is that it's too seductive of a topic to not
get men hooked.
And since they know that, or since people know that this happens, men now become a slave
to sex.
Think about it.
Think about everything that you do during the day, everything that you do, the way you
dress, the way you walk, the way you talk, the way you look.
You're constantly optimizing in your brain trying to think what is the quickest way I
can get to this.
And because this is at the forefront of your brain, 24 seven, this is a massive pain point
when you take an L that day or when you take an L that week.
And what tends to happen is that you no longer actually look at women as making human to
human connections to build something that should actually go somewhere and that should
be ridiculously push button, easy to go somewhere.
You're now needing to actually prove it to yourself to fulfill your own ego.
Okay?
When this ego starts to take over and you tell yourself Oh, I'm the man on the bro on
the dude if I can get her to do this, this is when this whole cookie starts to crumble.
Because you are subconsciously pedis realizing in every way shape and form your subconscious
mind through the music your subconscious mind through the movies, your subconscious mind
through the friend group that you hang out with is consistently telling you that this
right here is the end all be all of how good of a night you will have.
And if you can't get it something is drastically wrong with you.
Okay, this is what's being laser locked into men's heads every single day.
And it needs to get on done.
And I'm going to show you exactly how to undo it.
Now if we shift our attention over here to this middle column, I titled this middle column
she does not want Okay, these are the things that women definitely deep down do not want.
These are the things that turn all women off long term.
And if you start to display these traits, what tends to happen is that you're going
to get pulled into the category of the 99%.
She's going to go Yep, that's just another In my inbox, that's just another guy who wants
to fuck me.
And what happens is that even if that is what you want, you're no longer able to get it
due to the fact that you don't understand what's actually going to make her tick.
The first thing, she does not want to be your main fulfillment in life.
If you think about what makes a man masculine, it's going to be masculine drive, purpose,
ambition and goals.
Okay, when she sees that, she can take one look at you and you're developed, whether
that be through your body, through your physique, through the way you talk through the way you
walk through the way you carry yourself, maybe through your city of what you're known for,
maybe your job or occupation, she can see that you're talented, okay, and the only way
to get talented in anything is you have to really put a lot of time energy and dedication
into it.
This shows very good long term mating potential.
This actually shows that you have some sort of attractive qualities to you.
This can even signal short term mating potential because you probably have better cognition,
you're probably able to flirt a little bit better.
You probably understand male versus female dynamic a little bit better.
And not to mention since you've been through many life experiences, you don't shit your
pants when you walk up and see her due to the fact that you've been there done that
before.
Okay, she does not want to be your main fulfillment, right?
She doesn't, this is going to lower attraction and instead of fighting the way it is, if
you would just accept it and learn how to maneuver, things would get a lot easier.
Now the second she does not want to be the center of your time.
You see so many guys that are chasing their woman around like a puppy dog, right?
They're chasing her around the pole like a puppy dog at a bar at a party at some sort
of social event.
Yesterday, I celebrated the Fourth of July and when I was on the river I could see on
the sandbar there's certain guys that will follow their woman follow their girlfriend
around all over and they're constantly worried about who she's talking to where she's at.
They're not even centered and present in the things that they should be doing to have some
fun to celebrate the holiday.
What happens is that they're too worried wondering what she's going to be doing.
Okay.
She does not want to be The center of your time, your time needs to be so booked.
If you can book your calendar six days a week, to where like it's a treat for her to get
to see you.
That's going to be like, Whoa, this guy is really going somewhere in life, this guy really
gives a shit.
She cannot be the center of your time.
The third she does not want to have you weak for her sex.
Okay?
If you're weak for her sex that's going to show that you're going to go weak and a lot
of other areas.
If you're so baby, maybe I'll do anything, please come over.
Major turnoff.
All of these things are just signaling in her head.
This guy is probably not what he's cracked up to be.
And even if he looks apart on some ends, the problem is that since he's so emotional, so
needy, so non masculine due to the fact that he does not have purpose, ambition, or drive,
these things are holding him back.
She does not want any of this.
Just accept it.
Now here's why this is a great positive for both parties.
Since she doesn't even want these things.
Now you have more time to focus on yourself.
To improve your masculinity, that's an ROI positive for you.
This is also an ROI positive for her because now she has a better, stronger suited man.
And not only that, you're no longer doing the things that lower her attraction.
This is a win win for both people.
Essentially, you now get to get the women without putting nearly as much emphasis or
time or focus into it.
In my opinion, this is way easier, right?
It's way easier to learn something new, and get some results instead of keep doing the
same thing spinning your wheels, hoping that every single time you chase her, she's gonna
actually appreciate that, sadly, the world does not work that way.
So you might be wondering, Casey, how do I actually get this woman to chase me?
How do I get a woman to chase me?
Can I do this in a text message?
Can I do this in a single line?
Can I do this in a night?
The answer is no.
All of this stuff takes time.
It takes time.
During the initial interaction.
It takes time when you're warming her up and flirting.
It takes time after you guys have known each other for a while everything is constant progression.
Can as soon as you start to slip she's Want to see that what you have to do is you have
to make your own world so fulfilling with or without her, that she naturally wants to
see you.
She sees that you're happy, you're genuinely happy and No, do not get a no do not get that
mistaken with the word pleasure, pleasure and happiness is completely different.
If she sees you're genuinely happy on your own path, fulfilled, enjoys life, enjoys meeting
people enjoys doing things enjoys building, this is going to signal in her head that,
hey, he's living a lifestyle that I also would like to be part of.
And you can't shame her for that.
Because cool.
People want to be around cool people, attractive women are going to want to be around attractive
men just learn to do the right things that actually make you attractive.
The second, this is actually going to make you naturally chill.
The reason why it's naturally chill is because you don't have a lot of the social pressures
that the 99% over here have that are worshipping the wrong things.
You don't have to get drunk.
You don't have to rely on alcohol.
You don't have to rely on drugs.
You also don't have to Fake it till you make it.
The reason for that is because you are making it, you're fulfilled in your own world you're
growing on your path and on your destiny, this natural swagger, this natural chilled
out vibe to you, she's gonna see you're different and you don't necessarily break to what everybody
else does.
The third you live a life that's exciting, skillful or fun.
If you look at what this exciting column means, this essentially means that you can give her
excitement or some sort of sense of emotional pole.
This is going to be good because when you guys Connect, she's going to feel something
towards you.
If you're also skillful, this demonstrates competence.
competence shows you have high cognition, competence shows that you're a desirable male.
The third, if you can actually let loose and have fun.
She sees this guy also doesn't take himself too seriously.
This is like the whole kit and caboodle package so that we when she does get that sliver of
your time, when she does get just a little bit of your time.
It's like a daily bar.
It's like a treat, and I'm going to give you my daily bar story.
When I was a kid growing up, my parents would oftentimes go to Dairy Queen, maybe like You
know, five, six times throughout the summer.
And when we get to go five, six times throughout the summer everybody would get like a Dilly
bar a blizzard or whatever their treat was that Dairy Queen, right.
But since we weren't going there every week since we were going there every day, we weren't
even going there.
Like every other week what happened was when we would get this Dilly bar, it would taste
so good.
We would enjoy it so much we would want it to eat we would even want to eat it slower
because we're not going to get one for a long time.
Okay, this is how it needs to be with your time.
If you can meet that daily bar that she only gets once in a while.
That's when you really go in to get her laser locks because now she has something to pursue.
She has a man of value start building.
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