Here's the deal man: When she doesn't text you back, and you want to make her miss you,
and you want to get her to think about you... the very best thing to do... is absolutely nothing.
The more that you chase a woman, the more that you're trying to get her attention,
the less interested in you she becomes. Here's why – Women secretly want to know that you're
desired by other women. This means that when a woman knows other women like you, it lets her
know there's something about you to be desired. This is called Social Proof, or pre-selection.
What's so powerful about this is that it gives a woman instantaneous feelings about you,
because the other women have already done the work.
When it comes to attraction, women are like a dial. Men are like a light switch.
This means that it takes longer for a woman to become attracted. And because it takes her
longer to become attracted, it helps her when she sees other women interested in you. How did
we get here off of texting? Well, when you're not texting her back, when you're making her miss you,
you are basically saying to her that you are busy, you have other things in your life,
maybe even you're texting other women. The whole act of not texting her is going to make her think
that you don't care about her, which is then going to make her want to get more validation from you.
Now, of course, this does not work every single time. In fact, the girl who doesn't text you back,
just might not be interested. And that's fine. Great. Now you know. You want to know because
you should only be hanging out with women who have a high level of interest in you anyways,
not some woman that doesn't text you back. That's not the woman you want to be with. In fact, low
interest women are women you want to stay far away from. Because if you start collecting all these
women who are low interest that you're trying to chase, this is the worst form of abundance,
and it's going to drop your self-esteem. And it's going to drop your confidence and it's going to
make you feel worse. You want to move on from women who are low interest, who are not texting
you back. Now, let's say it's been a week, two weeks, three weeks, and she doesn't text you back.
Consider this woman done. You should be done with any woman who's not going to bother to
text you back because you and I both know, and if you don't know, I'll tell you right now,
every woman reads every single text message. Some guys say "well, maybe she forgot. Maybe
she's busy. She's getting texts by all these other guys. Maybe just a reminder text. I should
send her something to remind her of who I am." No, that's not how it works. Because a woman, if she's
attracted to you, like really attracted, like high level of interest attracted, she will 100%
remember who you are. And she will remember that you texted and she will remember to text you
back. My friend, this is an art. It's the art of practicing abundance when you're not in abundance.
What that means is you have to remind yourself, or even pretend that there are so many women
out there and more women for you to go on dates with or to attract or to sleep with or whatever.
You have to remember this so that you don't get caught in a needy situation.
The second you start double texting, triple texting, and really trying to get her attention,
she's going to be pushed away even more. Neediness is one of the most unattractive traits. That's why
I don't want you to be begging or chasing women who have this low level of interest.
If you want to get a woman to have a high level of interest in you, and really get her attracted,
this is a whole other conversation that we need to have. You need to learn the art of
attraction so women can start texting you back so you don't have to play this game.
In order to do that I have a lot of options. First of all, I do have my coaching program;
Coached By Tripp.com is where you can go to apply to work with one of the coaches here at
Tripp Advice to help you with building attraction. But you also might want to know some text messages
to learn how to text them to set up a date. I have something for free called Seven Deadly
Text Messages. These are copy paste text messages that you can use to text a girl
to get her to respond. Check that out. It's free. There's a link down in the description below. If
you want to skip all that noise and just learn how to attract women, go to www.coachedbytripp.com
to learn how to meet and attract women today and get those text messages back.
In the meantime, if she's not responding don't text her again. She'll wonder where you are
and this is going to be your best chance of getting her to miss you and then respond.