Is it true that jeans are not elegant to wear?
No, it's not true, of course not ladies. However,
there is a very specific reason to why I don't recommend wearing
certain jeans if you want to dress elegant. Oh,
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So let's dive straight into why I want women to avoid certain jeans when they
style themselves to look elegant. You see,
when we dress elegantly,
I think a lot of us would do it not only to feel good about ourselves,
but also because we want to stand out a little bit from the masses.
We don't want to wear what absolutely every other Joe out there is wearing.
And unfortunately,
jeans is worn by every other Joe out there.
And that is because it is the most common garment out there because it's a
staple in the wardrobe and it's really easy to wear.
So if you really want to move away from kind of your old plain Jane
self, then you really need to start thinking about, like, okay,
what garments are going to elevate me now? And jeans
are not going to elevate you, but they can still be part of your wardrobe.
And that's what we're going to talk about, how to make it work. You definitely,
definitely need to be mindful about jeans for this reason.
I'm talking about the texture. Ladies,
it is bulky and it's thick,
meaning that it does add width to us.
And the jeans kind of overall style is actually also very casual,
a little bit masculine.
So if you are here on my channel because of the elegance of femininity content,
then you probably have to be very careful of what jeans you're going to
wear so that you are not now looking more casual,
relaxed, and maybe more like a man.
Now that's one, but what about what jeans to avoid?
And you have probably heard me talk about the skinny blue jean a lot on this
channel and ladies, not my most favorite.
However, the most commonly used jeans out there. The funny thing,
and actually a little bit irony of this whole skinny jean
trends era is that it's really not flattering for most body shape.
It does work well for women who have very long and slender legs.
But most of us don't have that.
Most of us look like stuffed sausages when we put the skinny jean on.
And what happens then is that we actually ended up looking bulkier and shorter
in a skinny jean than if we would have one,
let's say a jean that I am wearing right now,
a little bit more flared and cuts in a way that your legs don't look so short.
However, look at this now, okay. Ladies,
you are not often seeing me wearing this.
I do own these jeans because sometimes,
I do like to wear skinny jeans in boots and why not?
However, I would not just go out like this.
I feel like this makes me look short. Look how I look.
I look bigger,
bulkier and I look heavier than in my previous jeans.
What happens is that when things are slick like this,
it emphasize on the width of the leg and you actually look bulkier and shorter
in the skinny jean. And I am now referring this if you wear it with flats,
with boots and with sneakers, which is what most people do. It's really,
really bad ladies because it does cut off the leg.
And also the bulkier shoe you're wearing,
the more illusions going to give you of shorter legs because you're
putting a bulk in the very bottom. So if you want to wear skinny jeans,
that's fine. As long as you may be worried with heels,
because it elongates the leg, maybe inside a boot.
By the way, ladies,
I have more examples of elegance mistakes that you should avoid
doing in my free workshop called, The 10 Brutal Mistakes That Show
You're Not Elegant and how to fix these mistakes. Ladies,
you have to check out this workshop after my video, go to
10EleganceMistakes.com
It's absolutely free and available only for a limited amount of time
so don't miss it. So what are some other jeans to avoid?
And I've spoken a lot on my channel about the mom jean,
because the cuts is quite unflattering,
especially when it looks a bit like a diaper and it also gives this
very masculine look that regular fitted jeans don't really give you that look.
I would also avoid ripped jeans for, I think, obvious reasons.
They just look a bit too nonchalant and not appropriate and what else?
The dazzle jeans, it's not 2001 anymore.
So yes, those are some example ladies, but I think overall,
it's a lot also to do with the color.
I think that the kind of typical traditional blue jeans that I showed
you just now, it gives this very kind of common look.
Although I don't mind dark-colored jeans,
but sometimes, the typical blue jean look is just not going to
be elevating you. And by the way,
when I tell you ladies to avoid wearing these kinds of jeans,
this doesn't mean that there's absolutely no way to make these jeans look elegant.
And the reason for that is women who know how to style themselves,
women will have advanced styling skills,
they can wear whatever jeans they want because they know how to wear jeans
and make it look elegant in their own way. However, here on my platform,
I'm communicating to the general masses and majority of you ladies,
I know that you might not have advance styling skills.
So I want to give you a foolproof method where I know that you are not going to
go wrong if you apply these tips. Okay, but how do we wear jeans, elegantly?
And many people ask me if I wear jeans and as you can see,
I do wear jeans and I do wear jeans at home.
In fact, these are my home jeans.
This is a typical Anna Bey look for home.
And I want to tell you a little bit about this look because these are
Victoria Beckham jeans that are one size too big for me.
And I even bought them on sale.
I think I paid like 30 euros or something like that.
So they were very affordable and my top, I like to wear something cozy,
especially now during fall and winter season. And I love v-necks as an example.
And I like to wear light colors because I feel like it elevates you so much more
than when you are diving deep into the darkness.
Other times you might see me wear jeans is especially when I do very
casual activities or maybe I do some work around the house.
And I do believe that jeans really do have a place and time for them
just like with any other garments. Like as an example,
I would personally not put on jeans when I go to a private member's club or
to a cocktail party or to a fine dining restaurant.
I just find that it's a little bit inappropriate and way too casual
for the venue. As a substitute,
you will therefore see me wear more tailored trousers
as replacements for jeans,
because I simply feel that they will elevate my look more and feel
more elegant than a jean would do. And by the way,
that's a little tip if you want to elevate yourself on everyday occasions,
skip the jean, just wear a nice tailored trousers instead.
You're going to look so much more expensive this way, trust me.
Now,one more thing about the color.
So you need to know those white jeans are actually easier to style than the
typical traditional blue jeans.
And that's because you can wear literally any color on top together with white.
And sometimes, the blue jean, not every color on top works.
Anyway, speaking of colors and besides wearing my favorite color white,
which I understand it might not be for everyone because
I see this a lot in my comments, especially people are
afraid that it gets dirty. Leave me a comment below ladies,
if you feel like this, or if you actually wear white trousers. Anyway,
I need to tell you ladies that I am a very clumsy person and I do actually spill
regularly myself. Even though I am like this,
I still manage to live a white pants lifestyle with great success.
And I think it's a little bit of a myth that people think that they will be
dirty all the time if they wear whites. And sometimes, it does happen,
but all you have to do then is to just throw it into the wash.
But if I have to choose another color to wear as my jeans,
I would definitely opt for kind of a very dark blue.
I think they are often quite chic.
I also think that bootcut and flare jeans worn together with heels.
When the leg gets really long and elongated,
you look so tall because the shoes are being hidden
by the flared or bootcut pants.
And I think this is such a wonderful way of wearing jeans
for literally any body type.
I also did mention to you about wearing jeans where the riding
style boots or just high knee level boots of some sort.
That's a really nice look for,
let's say the countryside or something like Kate Middleton likes to do it a lot.
But you know, there's one more recommendation
I'd really have to give you.
And ladies, wear jeans as a dress.
That looks incredibly feminine and you can find
some really beautiful jeans dresses. So don't miss out on that one
If you are someone a bit older and you want to dress younger,
then definitely use jeans. Jeans look more youthful.
And if you incorporate more jeans in your wardrobe,
then that's going to make you look more younger simply. Now, ladies,
you have two choices right now. Either you go to
10EleganceMistakes.com
and watch this free worship that I told you about,
or you watch my next video called 10 tips to look effortlessly
expensive and put together because there,
I'm going to share with you some secret hacks that I personally use to look my best.
Ladies, I will see you in that video.