Hello. Going to rent a scooter that is pretty close to where I'm staying and
gonna get this puppy for a week. Let's get into today's topic; what is a
girl thinking when she rejects you? Well first of all you must know that girls
don't want to reject you. A girl doesn't have fun rejecting a guy just as much as
you probably wouldn't enjoy rejecting a girl. I think that guys have
this attitude or feeling that girls get really excited and like the
opportunity of rejecting a guy and any chance that they can tell a
guy off they'll do that. But that's not really true. That's not really true at
all. I've heard from a lot of various girls that they do not enjoy when they
have to tell a guy no
We're here. Are you Vanessa? You're not Vanessa? Are you calling Vanessa? Yeah.
Oh you're calling Vanessa. She'll be here in five minutes.
Just come back okay. One of the problems is that a guy might think that a girl is
rejecting them soley because she is a b-i-t-ch. That happens guys end up
getting rejected and they put all the blame on her oh well she's mean she's a
jerk or she thinks she's too good for me
right and that is a bad attitude. It's a very unhealthy attitude and also it's a
very false attitude. Just because a girl rejects you and doesn't want to be with
you, that doesn't make her a bad person. Do you want to be with every single girl
that would come up to you? No of course not so let's give women a little bit of
a break here and not be so harsh when they say no. Driving up the mountain here
and I'm with Nick. He's up ahead and I'll introduce you in just a second. If you don't
know who he is again he's got a YouTube channel that teaches guys and girls how
to do amazing YouTube videos and grow their channel so definitely check it out.
I'll put a link down in the description below. Nick I want you to meet a lot of
people. Hey what is going on? Nice to meet
everybody here. Careful. So that's one way right that's
one way that you end up thinking that maybe the girl is mean, she's the b-word.
We don't like her that's one side of things that guys think that a girl is
doing when the rejecting a guy but then there's the other thing the other thing
that guys mostly think about when a girl is rejecting them what are they thinking
about you're thinking about themselves. The guys are taking it super personally
what I mean is guys always put themselves too much to blame when the
girl is rejected them the guy thinks he's not good enough the girl is too
pretty she's out of his League the guy is ugly he's not rich enough he didn't
use the right opening line you know what he was evil wasn't able to be able to
hold the conversation he puts himself in a really terrible light thinking the
reason why this girl's rejected means because I am the one who's doing
something wrong and while that may be true you're not thinking about it on the
right level right now walking up the steps
I'll joystick that see what it's all about
yeah steps in the thing in my shape some panting so let's get about the collapse
as you can see behind me unfortunately didn't get the view we wanted to today
so I'll have to come back here it looks like a white wall
all right so any of you who are interested in growing the YouTube
channel I got Nick here who I already told you is the master at growing
YouTube channels and he does a lot of videos on how to do it so I've asked him
to tell you some of his best tips on how to do that so Nick you got number one is
to make sure that you're adding value to the people that are watching your videos
that can be you're teaching them how to do something you're sharing information
from the knowledge said that you have you're entertaining them in some way you
are helping them escape their day to day life you're giving them tools that they
can use in their day to day life things like that that's how you had value to
people that's very important if you're adding value you can be putting up
videos that don't look great they don't sound great but if you're adding value
to people they already spun by by subscribing your channel coming back and
being a part of your community number two would be to make sure that you have
the fundation 'el foundational elements of your channel together that means make
sure they have channel art that explains what it is that you're going make sure
that you have some type of thumbnail that people can recognize on your
channel so that as your channel grows people can get used to looking for that
and identifying your content as yours so that they can notice it when it comes up
in the suggested features and things like that super important and can make a
huge difference on the amount of traffic that you're referring to yourself as far
as your suggested video comments
so when you get rejected doesn't necessarily be that she's mean it
doesn't mean that you even did something wrong
sometimes it just not the appropriate time for a girl to be taught she's
having a bad day maybe she has a boyfriend maybe she just broke up with
her boyfriend maybe she's trying to get to work there's a million reasons why a
girl might be rejecting me other than the fact that you think she's mean or
the fact that you were doing something wrong or that you are not good in it so
what is a girl thinking when you are getting rejected to be honest we don't
know and we shouldn't care it shouldn't matter at all the only thing you should
ever be focusing on is you meaning how you're doing in the interaction when
you're talking to a girl in fact the only thing that you could ever be
thinking about is this she's thinking that she's attracted to you or she's not
a truck eating okay that's all you need to be thinking about in terms of what
she's thinking because that's all that matters yeah that's all that matters
meaning when you're talking to a girl and you want to get her number you want
to take her out you want to get her on a date that's it you got to do the best
you can do to be able to have the conversation necessary and have the
interaction necessary so you guys have fun
and she's attracted to you other than that we shouldn't care anything she's
thinking because when you're overanalyzing and they're gonna get
yourself into a big mess apparently on this mountain here and they grow opium
and marijuana kids don't do this
all right it is night time now and I've had a very long day running around the
mountain here in in Chiang Mai I'm thinking more about the topic of this
video and I already hear what you're saying
trip don't give me that BS don't give me that clickbait you know your title says
that we're gonna be talking about what a woman's thinking when she's rejecting
you so why could you say that you shouldn't care what she's thinking I
want to know what she's thinking okay you want to know I'll give it to you on
a logical level she's thinking I'm not interested in this guy and I just want
to be talking to someone else that's what she's thinking when she's not
attracted to you which was we're talking about when she's rejecting you on an
emotional level what she's thinking is wow I am bored I'm feeling absolutely
nothing and I need to be somehow stimulated and this conversation in this
person is not doing it for me that's the tough love there man that is
the harsh truth that's what she's thinking again I'm coming back to this
idea of being able to being able to stimulate an emotion inside of her get
her to feel something I gotta repeat this I gotta say this all the time
especially when we're talking about rejection because that's what we're
talking about this video but you getting rejected and what she's thinking and why
you're getting rejected it's because there is nothing going on in her brain
that says I want to know more I'm putting out almost daily vlogs here so
if you want the answer to how to do that just keep watching these videos go back
in the past watch some other videos all these videos are teaching you how to do
that and how to be that guy so I hope today's video helped you and I hope you
learned something from it I'm stumbling over my words and tired I'm going to bed
I'll see you in the next video