- Just by you watching this video,
you are gonna save yourself so much time,
in the process of you manifesting
or creating your dream life.
These are things that for years I did things I believed
and the thing she knows that it's not your fault.
You're told these things,
you watched the movie, "The Secret"
or you go through different...
You listen to other people talk about it.
And these are things that I believed for a long time
that actually blocked me straight up,
blocked me from creating what I wanted in my life.
And I'm gonna share with you what those things are,
why you shouldn't believe them.
And the opposite of them are secrets
to you actually creating your dream life.
Whether that's your ideal relationship
that you wanna create,
whether that's you going full-time doing what you love
or it's some dream job that you wanna land
or some opportunity, whatever it is,
you can accomplish it.
But you need to know the right energy dynamics at play
for you to actually allow that thing in.
Now, the first thing and the first manifestation secret
that has changed everything for me
is something that I learned
when I worked that nine to five jobs selling woman's shoes.
I would go into work every day and I would only get paid
based on a percentage of what I sold.
So selling woman's shoes,
if I sold $3,000 worth of shoes, I would make $300
'cause I got 10% commission.
Now, one thing that I noticed
is that every day I went into this job,
I could see a direct reflection
between the energy I was putting out
to the kind of sales I was having.
And there's certain things that I learned.
One of them was about just the energy of having fun.
Loosening up, not taking things so serious.
When I went in and I had a goal of selling $3,000
and every customer I helped, I was thinking as,
how is this gonna get me closer to my goal?
It was a very serious energy, very contractive energy
that did not yield great results.
However, I've always noticed that the more fun I am having,
the more abundant I am and the more things go in my way.
So, one of the things you can do for this is to loosen up,
is to not make it so serious
that your manifestations come to fruition
and to loosen up the vibration of it, by having more fun.
And the days I would go in
and my intention was to help customers
and have fun with them and to connect with them.
And those were the days I did the best.
But the days I went in and I was really focused on outcome,
those are the days that were the most rigid.
So, one of the biggest manifestation secrets I learned
is that it's not about just focusing on the outcome
and trying to get the thing that I want or need it's,
am I enjoying the process, am I having fun?
Having fun is always been
one of the biggest things that changed everything.
Even like now, when I'm deciding, like,
what am I gonna do next on when I make YouTube videos
and do live events and these things?
I literally ask myself,
which one is the most fun for me to do?
Because the one that is the most fun,
is the one that's going to do the best.
There's a direct correlation.
So, realize that how you feel about what you're doing
is going to be what other people feel from you.
So, that's very important because how you feel
is literally an important part of manifestation.
They say how you think, how you feel and how you act.
And I used to always go by like
what I thought I should be doing.
But when I started tuning more into fun and feeling,
that's when everything really began to change.
Now, actually, when I first started by the way,
just sharing the secret that wasn't the first secret.
The first secret was more of something I learned at my job,
but the fun was so...
I realized that as I was saying it,
how important it is to have fun and to loosen up
because it loosens up the resistant energy.
But the second manifestation secret that changed everything
was when I read a book called "Psycho-Cybernetics"
"Psycho-Cybernetics", it's a book by Dr. Maxwell Maltz,
I believe is his name.
And it's a book that has to do with
understanding yourself image, how do you see yourself?
And that we will always do anything we can
to stay consistent to how we define ourselves
and to who we believe we are, so it's our self image.
And what the book is about is
how everything in your life is equal to yourself image.
I read this book and I realized
that working at Nordstrom's and women's shoes,
I saw myself as an average employee.
And at the end of every day,
or at the beginning of the next day,
you can see the sales from the day before
on a sales leader board, and I could see
that I was consistently always at the middle.
I wasn't the best and I wasn't the worst,
but I was always at the middle.
And I thought to myself, what is my self image?
I read that book and I realized,
I view myself as an average mediocre sales employee.
I'm not the worst, I'm not the best.
So I said, what if I changed that?
What if I started to literally be
and act as a top salesperson?
How would the top sales person, Aaron
act in going to work?
How would I present my...
How would I be?
How would I be connecting to people?
Would I greet just selective customers
or would I greet every customer?
Would I talk to them a certain way?
Would I joke around?
I would think about this and I started to be it.
I started to be that version of me, and guess what?
Within days, I was consistently at the top of that list.
Because I stopped being the old version of me
and I started being the new version of me,
that was a top sales person.
So, what I learned is
one of the most important things is how you view yourself.
And you could change it like that by making a new choice
about who you are and tapping into that version of you.
So the manifestation secret is that
it's not just about the thinking,
this is about your identity.
How do you view yourself?
Because if you view yourself as only able to make
and only deserving a $40,000 a year,
then you will find yourself thinking thoughts,
feeling emotions, and taking action
equal to that $40,000 a year.
But if you start to see yourself as more,
you'll start to question where you are
and you may see that
you start to get into new opportunities.
So, a manifestation secret is that your identity
is powerfully affecting your life.
So, that's the second manifestation secret
that absolutely transformed my life.
The third one has to do with letting go of outcome.
So yes, you can have your focus on an outcome
when there's something you wanna manifest or create.
You can focus on whatever that is,
the outcome if it's a relationship,
maybe it's being in that ideal relationship,
traveling with this person,
having kids or whatever the outcome is of that.
And what you could do is you could imagine that outcome,
but one thing people do is they think about it all the time,
and it's almost reflects back to them
that they're not there already.
So, one of the things you can do is leave the details
up to the universe.
Become aware of what you want.
And you can literally think about it for just
and feel it for just five or 10 minutes a day,
and then completely let it go.
The degree to which I can let go of outcome
is the degree to which I can allow new things in.
And I've realized that when I'm too attached to outcome,
I create that resistance and that's when things get serious.
So, you can allow things to get much more flexible
by you enjoying the process,
but also knowing that it's not your job to do everything.
It's not your job to figure out
how every little detail works.
And if you think it is your job,
then you'll find yourself
putting the whole burden on your back.
And you'll find it starts to feel really heavy.
And I've also...
I realized that there's a lot of me
I've had this pattern of going into believing
things have to be really hard.
When I first started on YouTube,
I started making daily videos
and I started creating hard work, I guess you could say
that got me great results.
Hard work did get any great results,
but then I realized that I always believed
I had to work hard in order to be successful.
And I became a loop.
So what I eventually learned is you know what?
I can let go of the outcome.
And the more I let go of outcome,
the more I've allowed amazing things in.
Even I remember when I was really like attached
to what people thought
when I was making certain YouTube videos,
the videos that go viral,
the ones that I'm the least attached to.
And then also, I just like kind of trust
that it's gonna reach whoever it's meant to reach.
I remember that I was also really caring
what people thought.
And I remember one time I made a video on star seeds
and it was something that was like really out of the box
for me to make especially at the time.
But I was like I was gonna let go.
This is something that I'm passionate about making,
I wanna talk about this concept and I made it.
And it like infused a whole new level of life
into my YouTube channel.
And it was something I was afraid to put out,
but I let go of the outcome.
So, I know some in your life you may feel afraid to do,
but realize if you let go and you just do it
because you trust the larger process,
you'll find that you get rewarded in many ways.
The more I've stepped out of my comfort zone,
I've always been rewarded
because when you get into the unknown,
you can then create something new.
You're allowing new things into your life.
But when you have created from the known,
you're gonna continue to create what you've always got.
If you think the same thoughts, feel the same emotions
and do the same things, you'll get the same results.
And yes, it will feel safe,
but it'll keep you locked into that kind of reality
and it's not beneficial long-term .
So the fourth one...
Okay, this one I wanna share has to do with...
I for a long time was just thinking better thoughts.
I would like watch Abraham Hicks
and be like thinking better thoughts.
I'd be thinking about what I wanted.
And for a long time, I knew I wanted to be on YouTube,
but I was just thinking about it.
And I was trying to manifest unique situations.
I was trying to manifest...
I met Jack Canfield,
I met Sage Robbins, Tony Robbins' wife,
while I was working at Barneys New York and women's shoes.
And I was getting these signs
of like these cool things happening.
And I'm like, yeah, that's kinda what I wanna do one day.
And what I realized is that,
even though I was getting these signs,
I thought like I was gonna meet Tony Robbins
and he was gonna put me on or see some potential in me.
Or I thought that Jack Canfield
was gonna like, I don't know.
There's these fantasy ideas
about how things were gonna manifest.
And one day I just realized, no one's gonna put me on.
Yes, it's, almost looking for an easy way out.
It's very disempowering too, I'm like,
someone's gonna give me everything.
And then I thought about it, I said, you know what?
I'm gonna create this for myself.
That's what I started making daily videos on YouTube
in February, 2017.
And that's when my life really began to transform.
Because remember this,
it's not just what you're thinking about,
it's who you're becoming.
And as I focused on the version of me,
that was a full-time YouTuber.
And I was being that version of me
that's when things would change.
But one of the things I needed to hear,
and one of the manifestation secrets
is to simply start right meow.
Start right meow.
Look, start right meow this right there.
Meow, meow, just start right meow.
We don't wait, the longer that you wait,
the more you're putting your dreams on hold,
the more you're putting
you getting out of your comfort zone,
you're just prolonging that process.
But if I would've started a year before I did,
I probably would've gotten full-time way sooner.
Now, I'm grateful for the way everything turned out.
But just, I see so many people they're amazing.
Like they have abilities,
they have like amazing talents,
or I get to see there's so much potential
in so many of you, but what's holding you back
is like you think you need to have it all figured out.
You need to have the camera equipment
or the best paint brushes, or the best of this,
or the best you don't need any of that.
You start with where you are
and then you get better as you go.
But when I finally started,
that's when the momentum really began to shift.
So, a manifestation secret
is it's not about thinking better thoughts,
this is about being that ideal version of you consistently.
And as you do, there's a new version of you
that you become in the process.
And as I did that, my whole entire life began to change.
And that's why I'm living my dream life right meow.
Now, the fifth manifestation secret
that has changed everything for me
is something called outer intention.
Outer intention, now think of it,
there's the inner intention.
I want to create a certain level of abundance in my life
and a certain level of freedom and the ability to travel.
Those are my inner intentions.
My outer intention is what affects other people
that also aligns with them
so that the energy dynamic comes back to me.
Lemme explain this a little bit different way.
The universe is one giant connective organism.
We're all connected.
What you put out is literally what you get back.
The more value that I can add to other people,
the more value that comes back to me,
and that's really all the abundance is.
Abundance is an exchange of value.
And when I started to focus on
the universe flowing through me,
that's when things really began
to change my life in a powerful way.
Yes, I'm passionate about making videos,
but it was like, how can I make videos that add value?
Once I tapped into that, it's like the universe
kept bringing me more and more people.
The universe kept bringing me more
and more new opportunities.
Because I was using that of my own energy
to add value to the collective.
And we all have this ability,
when you are in your most channeled state
or your most aligned state,
you're adding value just by being you.
Doesn't mean you need to make videos on YouTube.
Doesn't mean any of that.
It might, but realize that the universe
wants to support you.
And the more that you tap into that part of you,
that channeled part of you,
the more that the universe is gonna give you more
and more opportunities as a reflection.
That changed absolutely everything for me
when I began to apply it,
when I began to understand my own vibration,
I began to understand my own level of alignment.
So for this, remember, fun.
Focus on the more fun you have
and the more you're excited about what you're doing,
the more your manifestations are gonna come to fruition.
The more you're gonna find that you're in a loose state
and you reduce and you release resistance.
Secondly, realize your identity
is powerfully shaping your life.
How do you view yourself?
And when you begin to change how you view yourself,
everything changes.
That's something that we do in the Shift Academy.
The Shift Academy is where we teach people
how to shift their identity, to create their dream life.
So it's shifting your beliefs,
it's shifting your labels,
it's shifting your inner reality
to change your outer reality.
And if you wanna check out the Shift Academy,
you can click the link below, check out the Shift Academy.
That's where I go live, we do live coaching,
and it's a tribe of people as well
that are committed to shifting their life.
So, that's something that we do to shift identity.
Letting go of outcome it's been huge for me,
the degree to which I can let go of the outcome
and trust the universe
is the degree to which it gives me
a completely new reflection.
One of the things you may need to hear
just to start right meow, don't wait any longer.
The sooner you can start,
the sooner your manifestations
can have an opportunity in a way of coming into you
and realize that for this process in general,
what was the last one?
Outer intention,
outer intention is allowing the universe
to flow through you.
And when you do that as well,
you get the ego out of the way,
it allows these things to happen.
There's less control there
and things happen easier than ever.
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And as always, let's talk till the next one.
Peace, much love, and namaste.