Lynn: Has a woman ever rejected you? Ghosted you? Or just plain old stopped responding to you? Then you may
have been doing things that were creeping her out. And unless you fix this it doesn't matter
what amazing compliments or amazing skills you show on the date, it's just not going to work out.
So in this video i'm going to share with you the five creepy things that most guys do and don't
even know it and the last one is especially the worst one. It's so bad that a lot of guys are doing
it and they think that it's actually normal. Stay tuned to find out how by tweaking three
really simple easy things is gonna resolve all those creepy tendencies away in an instant!
We're gonna count down from number five trying too hard to impress her so i'm gonna tell you
what that looks like and i also want you guys to know that all five things we're gonna be talking
about are things that i see on every side of the interaction with a woman whether it's during an
approach or during just a normal interaction with her or even on a date these five things are common
throughout all of it including trying too hard to impress so what that looks like and when i see my
students doing this in the beginning over and over again is they think that they need to impress her
and they do this by doing things such as being way too agreeable by thinking that every word
she's saying is the holy grail by not knowing what to say and instead using filler words kind
of like wow that's amazing that's incredible i had no idea for example she might be telling you that
she's an art student and you have no idea about art but instead you're trying to make her feel
good trying to impress her so you start dropping nuggets about the little art that you do know
and everywhere that comes out of her mouth you're just over emphasizing and putting on a pedestal so
you're saying wow that's incredible that's amazing you're probably really talented i'm sure you are
guys that's not cute and we can tell that it's not genuine so if you're curious about it ask but you
don't have to try so hard to impress and also if she drops in a term that you don't know or a
subject that you're not that familiar with instead of trying to cover it up and pretend like you know
all about it actually say you know what i don't have too much knowledge on this what is that about
it is so much more attractive and confident when you own your stuff versus trying to cover
it up because you think that it's more impressive that you know number four a forced smile or fake
smile and that includes laughing as well so what i see all too often is when guys are in a situation
where they're trying to create a pleasant conversation all of a sudden that disingenuous
smile comes up and it just does not look real. It looks like you're uncomfortable in your own skin
actually it's how it comes across it looks like you are trying too hard to to be agreeable again
to make us feel good it makes us feel like we can't see the real person underneath that mask it
also is one of the things that i see a lot of our students do especially with that four slap they
are uncomfortable with the tension that's created so laughing is and also smiling is a surefire way
to kind of break that tension within our own bodies and within the situation guys tension
is what we need do the opposite and actually emote how you're feeling if you're nervous
tell her that you're feeling nervous and allow yourself to feel nervous number three standing
too close now i want to be clear what i mean by standing too close because i don't want you guys
to start standing hundreds of feet away what i do mean by this though is that you are energetically
standing too close and that comes off really needy you can almost see it in someone's body
right it's this over eagerness it's being so forward in your energy and in your body as
you're almost coming off as just very insecure and that you need to get in her space and
you are just taking from her instead of having this forward oh my gosh we gotta make this work
i gotta get her to like me take a step back relax be grounded be present enjoy the moment
versus forcing to make it happen that's what i mean by standing too close it comes off as that
needy wanting energy instead of just like hey i'm checking out what's going on here i'm seeing
if this is a good fit take a step back breathe and allow yourself to feel the moment number two super
intense and overly serious so again i see this especially with my students whether it's in an
approach during just a conversation or on a date and that's the worst because dates should be fun
talking to women should be enjoyable it should be a pleasant experience where you're creating
connection where you're exploring if there's chemistry there and i see guys just taking
the interactions way too seriously it starts coming off not only almost as if it were an
interview but almost an interrogation there's a list of questions that a lot of guys have or
they're scrambling in their minds to try and find question after question after question
where it's just exhausting you're not letting the conversation have any room to breathe you're
not really being in the moment to truly listen what she's sharing with you you are
more in your mind thinking where you want to take the conversation next what questions you want
to ask for next you're really concerned that you will run out of questions or conversations or just
things to talk about that's not fun guys that's not fun for you and it's certainly not fun for her
so start letting go of those questions and start seeing what the moment needs not what question
you have to ask for next which gives the entire vibe just a very serious kind of mood you want
to be a little bit more challenging in a playful way where you're flirting you're bantering you're
having fun where this is a good time it's a good time for you and it's a good time for her and
drum roll to number one lingering what i mean by lingering is lingering in all different types
of interactions whether it be eye contact or eye gaze or being in your head or waiting for her to
finish a conversation before you approach or even your touch your hand on her shoulder just resting
there lingering it is so awkward and it is so creepy and i'm gonna help you guys stop it once
and for all so why does lingering happen there's actually a very simple reason ready for it you
guys are spending way too much time and effort in your head waiting for a moment trying to figure
it out and how it comes across as not real not authentic not natural and when you're not natural
that equals creepy so stop lingering i see this also when you guys are at the bars or the clubs or
lounge you get a drink and you park yourself on the corner and like a creepster you're waiting
around to see who's approachable who you like who's giving you any kind of signals
and i call this the owl syndrome where you're just perched up with your drink or with your phone
because you're feeling uncomfortable and awkward and you are not having fun you are not socializing
you are not there for you you are there with hopes of picking up on someone and it is creepy by the
way guys as women we can always tell for the most part when you are looking at us and when you are
thinking or debating about approaching us we feel the eyes on us and it makes it really awkward when
you are in your head debating is now a good moment should i do it maybe she's out of my league maybe
that's her boyfriend i don't know i'll wait until she's off the phone guys stop with the lingering
it's gonna help so much during a date you're going to want to escalate the mood the vibe so
that you can make it more romantic and so that it doesn't stay the same wavelength and all friendly
getting to know each other in order to do that you need tension and you need touch so if you haven't
been touching her throughout the whole date it's going to come off really creepy if all of a sudden
you decide on your head oh this is the moment that i'm gonna go in for the touch and you just
plop your hand on top of hers and then you leave it there same thing with you haven't touched the
whole date and then you rest your arm on top of her shoulders and just leave it there it is weird
so you have to start touching from the get-go small innocent little touches so that when that
moment does come up it's much more seamless so now the moment that you've been waiting for i'm about
to share with you the three things that you need to do that will instantly dissolve every ounce of
those creepy vibes that you've been given off number one stop making it all about her looks
yes her looks are what got you attracted but it has to be deeper than that we as women do not
want to feel like a piece of meat we want to feel like you are interested in getting to know us as
people so start getting curious and start getting really present with her it's going to change the
game when you're not overly focused on her looks and you're not overwhelmed or intimidated with her
looks where you're just attracted to her she may be a knockout and stunningly gorgeous but there
is more to her than just that so start getting curious number two stop micromanaging yourself
and what i mean by that is we need to stop with the overthinking the over planning it's how
you're coming across by being in your head waiting for a right moment being overly calculated with
what you're going to say where you're going to put your hand and guess what that means more time in
your head means less being natural in your body and that's what creepy is and by the way guys
if you're worried about coming off creepy now you're gonna come off creepy so stop worrying
about being creepy and start doing things that feel normal and natural to you and so here's
what you're going to do number three take action so what i like to teach my student is the three
second rule the three second rule means when you have a thought you have three seconds to go and
act so you see a girl that you like you see a woman that you're attracted to one two three go
go and do it even if you have nothing to say i'd rather you go up to her and say to her wow you
are absolutely stunning i just wanted to come up and say hello to you but i am incredibly nervous
and i don't know what to say but hi i'm john so much more real and authentic than waiting minutes
on end until you come up with some amazing line that she's not gonna respond to because you're
saying it in a really creepy way now if you're still struggling with getting out of your head
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