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Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
All right, you're watching this video because you might be ready to give up on women.
Maybe you gave it your all and it just didn't work out.
Maybe you're in a relationship and you found out that you know what, she just wasn't the
girl for you and now you're ready to give up.
Maybe you're hearing a lot of stuff on the internet that is encouraging you to give up
on women or give up the fight.
But hopefully you're watching this because there's a little bit of fight left.
And I'm not here to convince you whether or not you should be going out and dating and
meeting women and swiping on apps and approaching women and building a social circle.
I'm not here to convince you of that.
However, what I'm here to do on this video is, I'm here to give you one last look or
one last shot at looking at this process in a whole different way.
I've come up with a formula that I believe is really flawless in terms of going out there,
learning to meet women, learning to approach women and basically helping you not give up.
What's interesting about this formula is, it's something that can be applied to almost
anything you're trying to accomplish in your life.
But of course, for these circumstances, we're talking about meeting women, we're talking
about rejection, we're talking about dates.
And this formula has basically summed up exactly what you need to do so you don't give up.
Think of this as a little bit of a motivational video.
I'm here to motivate you and give you the reality of what it looks like.
Yes, I have to say that dating meeting women is extremely challenging, especially if you're
a guy who doesn't feel confident or you feel like you have low self-esteem or you feel
like your ugly, you feel like you're worthless.
I completely understand.
In fact, I was ready to give up too.
I was ready to give up to back in 2007, 2008 when I was trying to learn how to meet women.
I was ready to completely give up and I'm really glad I didn't.
I'm really glad I didn't.
Why?
Because it was so rewarding to me to accomplish something that I really wanted to accomplish
in my life.
I really wanted an amazing girlfriend and I wanted to be in a relationship.
That's just me.
That's what I wanted.
And because I wanted it so bad and I didn't give up, it made life so much better.
Let's go through this one by one.
Here's the formula.
Persistence.
You need persistence in this game.
Persistence means you need to keep going.
You need to be persistent.
If you're a person who's trying to go on one date every month or you want to approach one
girl every couple weeks or you want to spend 20 minutes a week on a dating app, that's
not going to do it.
This is also a reality check this video.
That's not going to do it.
You need to be persistent, you need to keep going and you need to do a lot of it.
That's the name of the game.
I'm not going to sit here and give you rose colored glasses.
The whole idea here is, if you want an amazing girl or you want to attract really beautiful
women, really high quality women, if you want to be an amazing relationship, it's gonna
take hard work.
Duh.
With that being said, you're going to have to be persistent.
You're gonna have to quadruple, quintuple your efforts.
Because right now, you're probably not doing enough.
So of course, look at it, look at the numbers.
Your numbers are so low so of course you're ready to give up.
Of course you're ready to give up.
I mean, think about it.
You're sitting here and you're getting rejected once a week or even date once a month and
it doesn't go well so you're feeling defeated.
But I'm here to tell you the good news is that it's a numbers game.
It's like, okay, now you can understand.
The reality is it's a numbers game.
It's a numbers game.
That means you're gonna have to do more approaches, swipe more, work on your profile.
You're gonna have to get rejected a bunch of times.
You're gonna have to go on a bunch of shitty dates.
Yeah, that's the reality, it's gonna have to happen.
You got to be persistent with it and understand that it's going to take time.
But it's okay, you'll get through it and the more numbers that you put up, the better you're
going to be at this and the more results you're going to get.
So I ask you to please be as persistent as possible.
Now the next one, patience.
In the beginning, it's going to be hard and you're not going to see results necessarily
right away so you have to have patience.
The person who doesn't have patience is really not going to get too far in this.
Why?
Because nothing happens overnight.
You've heard the saying (and if you haven't, I'll say it right now and explain it to you)
Rome wasn't built in a day.
Meaning anything that you want to put work in, anything that you want to work at, takes
time.
It takes time.
You have to be patient with it, you have to go into this knowing that it's not gonna happen
in a day.
It's not gonna happen in a week.
It's not gonna happen in a month.
And it might not even happen in a year.
Now what I say what's gonna happen, I mean you getting the results that you're looking
for.
I exaggerate a little bit.
If you have persistence and you're doing it really well (and another one I'll be telling
you about in just a little bit) but if you have persistence, patience is not going to
be that hard for you because you will start seeing results.
But understand that you got to put at least a dedicated year into this.
I have to ask you, what's one dedicated year into all of your life?
You're going to live hopefully to at least 70 years old at the very worst 70 years old.
So why not take one of those years and master the skill of meeting women, attraction, conversation,
being more charismatic, building yourself self-esteem.
These are some serious skill sets and qualities and characteristics that anyone should have
in their life beyond just meeting women.
Let's be patient, let's practice patience and just know to focus on the journey and
it will come.
So again we're talking about persistence, putting in a lot of effort, being persistent
with it, being consistent.
I look at it as a bit synonymous.
Being persistent is being consistent.
Meaning you're going out all the time, meeting women, putting your best effort into it, being
patient while it's all happening.
And then here's the next one.
Resilience.
This is really important.
They're all important for their own reasons.
The reason why this one is important, why resilience is so important is because you're
gonna fall and you're gonna fall hard.
There's gonna be days where you feel like shit.
There's gonna be days where you get rejected.
There's gonna be days where you get so excited to go on a date with a girl and she's gonna
flake on you.
There's gonna be times when you end up really liking a girl and you date for maybe a month
and then she breaks your heart or she cheats on you or she throws you to the curb.
There's going to be days that are going to be so hard.
So what do you do?
You have to pick yourself back up.
It's the only option you have is to pick yourself back up.
To really fight through the hard times.
And I'm asking you to be resilient because eventually you're going to be fine.
Whether you get rejected or you have a bad day or it's just not working out and patience
is not kicking in for you.
There's gonna be times where it's gonna be tough.
So what do you have to do?
Well eventually you're going to come to the point where it's gonna be okay.
Everyone heals.
Time heals.
I'm asking you to look into resilience and just use time as a way to move faster, move
faster.
Let's speed up the process from being down in the dumps to back on your feet.
Being resilient.
It's like you're riding a bicycle.
What happens when you fall?
You hop back on the bike.
That person who hops right back on the bike right after the fall is resilient.
So when you have your hard times, which are inevitable, I'm asking you to be more resilient.
I'm asking you, I'm asking you to fight the good fight and say, okay, even though I feel
depressed, I feel sad, I feel anxious, I feel like crap, can I just keep moving forward?
Can I go out and approach another woman?
Can I get back on a dating app?
Can I give women a second chance even though I might be thinking that I hate all of them
because they keep on treating me like shit, even though that's just a generalization?
What can we do to be more resilient?
What can we get you back on the horse?
Whenever you can do, please do it.
Next and the last piece is strategy.
Strategy.
None of this works without strategy.
Again this is my ultimate formula here.
This is everything in one.
Persistence, consistent action, patience, being willing to be patient while you wait
for the results, resilience, keep on moving forward even though you're having bad times
and then strategy.
You need strategy because without strategy, nothing's happening.
You can have as much persistence as you want.
But if you're persisting in the wrong thing or you're being patient for something to happen
when it might not happen because you don't have strategy or maybe you're trying to be
resilient and get back on your feet, but it keeps on working out not to your advantage.
Why?
Because you don't have strategy.
You need strategy.
Strategy is everything that's on this YouTube channel.
It's in my Hooked program.
It's in my book Magnetic.
It's all the information that you're listening to and reading and you're putting into place.
Your strategy is your goal setting.
It's about how long am I going to spend on this app swiping?
How many profiles am I going to put up on dating apps, how much time am I going to put
into optimizing my profile?
How many approaches am I going to go do per day per week?
How many social events am I going to attend?
How many networking events am I going to attend?
You got to think about all this stuff.
What do you want to focus on?
What's your strategy?
You need a strategy.
If you go at this blind well of course, I don't blame you for giving up.
You never had a strategy to begin with so you're completely lost in the dark and none
of this is coming together so you're screwed.
You need some sort of strategy, you need some sort of goal setting, you need to be able
to say to yourself, what can I do?
What are the steps?
What are the steps I need to take?
You got to figure out where are you lacking?
Am I lacking in not approaching enough women?
Am I not getting enough matches on the dating apps or sites?
Am I still afraid of rejection?
Am I still a bad conversationalist?
Do I need to work on flirting and getting out of the friend-zone?
Identify where your sticking point is so then you can move on forward from there with a
strategy.
So you have strategy, you're being persistent with it, you're being patient for the results
and resilient when times go bad and getting back on the horse.
Getting back on the bike.
You win my friend.
That is the success right there, this formula.
As long as you, and by the way come back to this video.
Whatever you got to do, bookmark this, like it, thumbs up it.
Whatever you need to do to come back to this to remind yourself, to get yourself back on
your feet to know that oh yeah, that's right I don't have strategy right now.
You know what, I'm not really doing much effort right now.
You know what, I'm really just sitting here not being patient enough.
I'm just really anxious to get results.
I'm not being patient.
You know what, I took a lot of time off after I got that rejection and I really didn't get
back on the horse that fast.
You got to really think about this and think about where you are in this process.
Come back to this video.
And if you need any more help you go to www.getherhooked.com where you're going to see how to get access
to my Hooked course.
Hooked, meaning getting women hooked on you, getting them interested in you, and understanding
what strategy to put into place.
If you feel like you're lacking the strategy portion and you want to know where to go with
this, this is the program that's going to help you out a to z.
I teach you in this multi-module course that you get access to in a private member's area,
how to go and approach women, how to talk to them, how to identify where it's going
wrong, how to understand attraction, how to meet more women, how to start conversations,
how to be more charismatic and how to be able to attract more women into your life by bringing
out the best parts of your personality.
It's easy because you're gonna get access to my entire system.
Go to Get Her Hooked dot com.
Get Hooked so you can learn how to do it and so you can have the strategy to put into place.
I hope this helps you.
The link is in the description below.
Make sure that you always come back to this video when you're feeling down, when you feel
like giving up and you feel like that there's no more hope left.
And I know some guys are gonna say, Tripp this sounds like a lot of work.
And if that's you, that's fine.
Then this game is not for you and this is not something you want to accomplish.
But if you're saying to yourself, no, this is for me, I want to get to the point where
I am getting women hooked on me, then follow the formula, Persistence, Patience, Resilience,
Strategy.