In a world of competition, power-seeking and the challenge of having to be better than one another,
the INFJ isn’t interested in proving themselves to anyone but themselves. Test an INFJ and you’ll
learn the hard way that they’re natural gifts don’t allow for ego-boosting or power-tripping,
or watch today’s video and avoid being embarrassed by the INFJ’s mysterious ways.
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Number 1: They will remove the power from the situation
When people feel the need to test other people’s limits, there’s usually some aspect of underlying
power that is desired. For example, narcissists test the manipulation potential of their victims
before they fully invest their narcissistic ways upon the relationship to ensure they
won’t be challenged. For the INFJ who has always relied on studying human behavior
in order to navigate in life, they can easily recognize unideal behaviors in others.
While they may give power-seeking individuals the benefit of the doubt,
INFJs don’t tolerate people that intentionally interfere with the hard-earned harmony they’re
so passionate about maintaining. Whether it’s relationships, work environments,
or even family dynamics, when INFJs realize the ulterior motives of people, it removes the power
that the beholder is so convinced they have over the INFJ. While this sensitive type may
play into mind games, they can easily stand their ground should they be pushed past their limits.
Number 2: They’ll find your weakness When an unhealthy INFJ is tested in particular,
they may turn to using their innate abilities of reading others as an unfair advantage. Through
MBTI research it is said time and time again that when you think you know an INFJ, you can be almost
certain they know you on a deeper level. So, while some people think that using the nurturing nature
of the INFJ to test them is a good idea, they may reach into their bag of intuitive finds to
pull-out something that really makes the provoker think otherwise. Although even the darkest
of INFJs usually doesn’t want to hurt others, they may mention things surrounding a sensitive
topic with the hopes of that other person re-evaluating their decision of testing the INFJ.
Subtle remarks and deep-seated questions is how the INFJ casually communicates that there
is much more to them than just kindness. Number 3: They may unexpectedly lash out
The INFJ personality type is certainly equipped to put up with a certain level of negativity in their
lives, but everyone comes with a breaking point. Normally kind, caring and empathetic, when the
INFJ is provoked time and time again, there’s no telling when that breaking point may be.
While they don’t always give much verbal warning beforehand, the INFJ will definitely make it
apparent that they’re unimpressed before they resort to a full blown out lash. Luckily, these
are pretty rare, and would have to be triggered by something seriously detrimental to their emotional
and mental well-being. As a matter of fact, this lashing out behavior can be considered a defense
mechanism, designed to keep the INFJ’s sensitive intuition and feelings away from burnout.
Number 4: They will demonstrate their silent treatment expertise
Depending on who is testing the INFJ and how, they may resort to building their walls even higher,
to the point of no entry. Utilizing the classic fight or flight responses, the INFJ either
becomes enraged enough to outlash or disappointed enough to step back for good. The thing with INFJ
and the silent treatment is that they don’t use it to punish the provoker, but instead
use it in place of an outlash. This is what makes them such an expert, because once they’ve resorted
to the silent treatment, it’s nearly impossible to get them back to where you once had them.
Sometimes the silent treatment is done intentionally to let someone know they are upset,
yet other times it is simply because the INFJ really needs space and time to recharge. And this
is when INFJs walk away and rarely look back.. Which is why they’re notorious for the famous INFJ
door slam. They will shut down and retreat inward in order to avoid dealing with the conflict.
Number 5: They instantly revoke their INFJ benefits
INFJs aren’t referred to as advocates and counselors for nothing..
Their unmatched listening skills and caring nature allows them to be some of the most
understanding people on the planet. When these INFJ strengths are taken for granted however,
they will be the first things to be revoked from the connection.
In fact, it isn’t exactly easy or effortless for the INFJ to absorb the feelings of others
day in and day out. With a short social battery life and a need to deeply ruminate about their
thoughts - giving other people care and love may be one of the most exhausting aspects of this
rare type. And so they need to be picky with where they donate their time. Not just anyone deserves
an INFJs kindness, and testing them is a sure way to end your subscription to these benefits.
Number 6: They will use doubts to fuel their passions
The INFJ personality type may be known for taking offense to criticisms, but that doesn’t mean that
they don’t take them as a lesson. INFJs are known to opt for more unorthodox interests and
lifestyles, yet it doesn’t come easy. As a matter of fact, this type more than most are familiar
with being questioned for their decisions, looked down upon for their life choices,
envied for their strengths and even challenged on their beliefs. And so, INFJs eventually learn
to use these tests as fuel to excel. They may be considered overly sensitive, unrealistic dreamers
and out of touch with reality.. But with class and composure, this driven type will constantly
prove people’s assumptions wrong in life, using their intuition as their main guide
and others' negative opinions as their power! Number 7: They’ll refuse to care
Go ahead and challenge an INFJ to do something that doesn’t interest them, just know you’ll be
wasting your time. When INFJs are pushed towards a goal, a dream or a life change that doesn’t sit
well with them, it’s almost impossible to convince them otherwise. INFJs have deep-rooted morals and
values and a strong intuition that allows them to make the best decisions for themselves. So,
in other words, you can’t really make an INFJ care about something that they simply
don’t care about. For example, if they don’t want to compete for the top position at work,
they won’t try to just because other people think it’s the best thing for them. INFJs mind their
own business and don't feel the need to prove their worthiness through unhealthy competition.
Number 8: They will humbly prove your wrong
INFJs are tested at every point in their life. They may seem too quiet for a social position,
too intuitive for a corporate setting, too out of the box for traditional school settings,
too off for certain friendships, and the list goes on. For the INFJ to
make it anywhere in this physical reality, they end up proving a lot of people wrong.
The funny thing is that when an INFJ is tested or challenged on their capabilities,
they usually take it as a chance to humbly prove themselves to others. They’re quick
learners and natural intuitives, which give them the advantage of excelling in a number of hobbies,
even at their first go. For example, people may argue with an INFJ ‘s intuitive findings
only to realize that they actually have great points to back up their reasoning.
Number 9: They instantly crush ego
With proving people wrong comes a great challenge to the ego. Being one of the most targeted
personality types amongst narcissists, on the outside the INFJ seems like a great candidate
for being manipulated and taken advantage of. With a reserved and quiet essence, people may
pick at the INFJ to watch them squirm and attempt to prove themselves for their own enjoyment.
But they realize soon enough that that’s not the case. When INFJs humbly prove others wrong,
something happens within that other person.. A realization that’s long overdue.
Their seemingly powerful ego wilts in the matter of minutes, leaving the provoker feeling
embarrassed and shocked. They make such an impact that the provoker ends up questioning themselves
before testing other people with similar demeanors. In fact, a simple challenge to
the INFJ can change someone’s entire perspective on the capabilities of introverts and intuitives.
Well, that’s it for today PSYCH-Os.. So, if you’re an INFJ, what’s your first instinct
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