It’s one of the most disheartening and downright painful experiences in life – realizing
the man you’re dating doesn’t feel about you the way you feel about him.
Imagine you’ve just bought your favourite ice-cream, you take off the wrapper, you start
to enjoy the chocolate outer layer and just as you’re about to bite into the ice-cream,
the best part, someone walks past you and accidently knocks it out of your hand and
it falls to the ground.
Dating can sometimes feel just like that… sometimes you feel so close to finally tasting
the magic and then you’re so far away again… but it doesn’t have to be… keep watching
as you’ll know why soon…
Hi and welcome back.
I’m Nadine Piat, the creator of Healthy You Healthy Love and the world leading online
program Unlock His Heart and in today’s video I share the very important 5 signs “he’s
just not that into you” and what to do about it.
The truth is most women know most of these signs, they know when they’re not being
adored and treated in a way that makes them feel safe and secure, they know when a man
is hot and cold and doesn’t seem all that invested…So my question to you is - Are
you guilty of ignoring the signs your boyfriend is not that into you?
Or maybe he’s not your boyfriend yet, though you’re hoping he will be.
You see humans have a habit of getting attached to people, and women are really good at wanting
to see the best in people, and when it comes to men many women are experts at making excuses
for unkind behavior….
They will make up reasons why he’s acting how he is so that they don’t have to face
the hard truth… that perhaps he’s just not that into you!
Yes, you can make all the efforts you want, he may feed you with enough affection and
attention to keep you hooked, and you may be able to influence him into staying in a
relationship longer than he wants to but, and yet as harsh as this sounds, when he’s
not making an effort consistently he’s not doing so for a reason.
Let’s look at the 5 signs a man is not that into you so you can put an end to a relationship
that’s already doomed, rebuild your confidence, heal your heart, and attract a man that will
actually add to your life, not suck the life out of you…
First of all, let me ask you: how do you know that a guy likes you?
Men are pretty straightforward in general, so the obvious answer would be: you can see
he likes you by his actions!
He shows it clearly by wanting to spend time with you, calling or texting regularly, being
nice to you, making future plans with you.
It’s hard to miss the signs.
Well, the opposite is also true if you’re paying attention: when a guy is not that into
you he will do none of these things I just listed.
And that’s your cue to say goodbye and move on: you can’t force a relationship on someone
who doesn’t want it.
But do note… some men may really like you, though for whatever reason he’s not moving
towards you, he’s balking… it may be because the timing is off, maybe he’s insecure or
super shy, perhaps he’s not yet achieved what he wants to achieve in his life and doesn’t
feel “enough” for you.
The why doesn’t really matter all that much… it’s the same principal… he’s not invested
enough right now to give you what you want and deserve.
The first sign that the guy you’re dating doesn’t like you as much as you like him
or is not as invested in you is he’s reluctant to line you up for a date and there’s no
future planning.
He’s not hankering to see you as often as you want to see him.
If you’re the one asking him out most of the time, or it takes him a long long time
to reach out and suggest to catch up, sure he may be superbusy at work, or it could be
one of the key signs that a guy is not into you, especially if the following signs I’m
about to mention are present, too.
Sure, some men are slow movers, yes, the shy ones can be, though this shouldn’t last
more than 6-8 weeks, after that momentum should start to build.
If the momentum is not building then it’s more than okay to want more and there’s
a good chance it’s time to say Adios!
#2 - The next sign is: Lack of consistent communication Calling and texting are apparently
activities the man you’re dating does not enjoy, at least when we’re talking about
calling or texting you.
I’m not saying you should keep score of who texts or calls who first, what I am saying
is if do you tend to be the one to waiting for hours – or days – until he finds the
time to bother to call or text back, then things are pretty clear, aren’t they?
You need to stop initiating, focus on your life without him in it, and see if he starts
taking the lead, if not, then you have your answer.
Sign #3: When a guy likes you he will want to touch you and often.
This doesn’t necessarily mean touching in a sexual, foreplay sense.
No, a guy who likes you will reach out to hold your hand, hug you and be close to you
in any way possible.
A guy who’s not that into you won’t do this, particularly not in public.
Yes, some men are not overly touchy feely, that’s okay if it’s okay for you, though
he will show you other ways of devotion and commitment.
Sign #4: Convenient for Him Sexy Time!
He does want to have sex with you and it’s when it suits him.
When a guy doesn’t like you as much as you like him he will hit you up for “play”
normally during the times when he’s bored, not during prime time Friday or Sat night.
You’re more off a late night after thought or a weekend hangover booty call.
And often the sex feels more like a sports activity rather than a sensual yummy kind
of connection.
All women know when a guy is being attentive and adoring in bed or just, you know, going
through the motions.
A guy who’s not that into you will be going through the motions.
Sure, not all men are great lovers, and they can get nervous, though the connection should
deepen, not remain on the sports field with one goal in mind.
His pleasure.
Sign #5: He’s HIDING you or AVOIDING ALONE TIME with you.
These are two extremes that can mean the same thing that he’s probably just not into you.
If he doesn’t try to spend solo time with you and prefers to invite you to join him
with his friends then he could be avoiding getting closer, sure you might have some alone
time at the end of the night, though most of the time you feel like a buddy and not
a girlfriend – or the opposite – you spend time hidden or in hiding, normally at your
place or his, you don’t meet his friends, you’re not going out to restaurants, you’re
under wraps.
These are NOT the signs a guy likes you, well he could like you, though he’s not hook
line and sinker into you.
A man who’s becoming more and more invested naturally wants you to meet his friends and
he will also want to spend some quality alone time with you going on dates, at home, day
trips, etc.
He’s holistically interested in you!
There you have them, the 5 signs that a guy doesn’t like you as much as you hoped.
I know it can feel kinda rotten.
Like rejection.
Though try not to see it that way.
It’s an opportunity for you to say no to mediocre dating and get clear about what wholehearted
interest actually feels like when a man is invested in you.
To help you to attract the man you deeply want and to put an end to painful dating I’ve
a free gift that will support you to meet your perfect match – it’s called 5 Easy
Ways To Get A Man to Commit… you’ll love it so please check it out in the link below.
I know you’re a smart, gorgeous woman, so be smart with your heart and only date men
who want you too!
Yes, sometimes it takes a number of weeks to work it out, though it really shouldn’t
take longer than that!
I want you to find the courage and self-honour to breakfree from going nowhere dating so
that you’re available for someone truly ready for a woman just like you.
If you want to eat the whole ice-cream then you have walk away from those time wasters,
mend that ego, and get out there and attract that special man for you!
This is what I want for you!
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