Energy is just not something I've spoken about a lot on this channel, but it's something
that I'm a real believer in. For attraction to occur, there has to be polarities. For
a magnet to attract another magnet, they have to be polarized in their energy. And it's
the same with people. If you want to attract a man with a masculine core, then it's important
that you nurture and take care of your feminine core. So in this video, I'm giving you 10
ways to be feminine and radiant to men. Stay tuned.
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Okay, so welcome to today's video. And we are talking your feminine side and how you
can take better care of it. So what this really is is a self-care video, but it also has the
secondary effect of making you radiantly attractive to men. When you nurture your inner feminine,
masculine men are going to be attracted and drawn to you. So the reality is, we live in
a masculine world. A lot of the time we're spending eight, 10 even 12 hours a day in
structure, logic, planning, aggression, competitiveness.
These are all things that are congruent with
the masculine energy. And it's important that all of us, all of us, us men included, take
care of our feminine sides. It's especially important though for you as a woman to radiate
and connect with that natural energy. So your intuitive energy that that flowing feminine
energy, the connected, receptive, moment-to-moment energy of the feminine is something that frankly
now, well, none of us take enough care of.
So what I'm doing in this video is giving you 10 ways to help you do that. As I say,
it's really a self-care video, but it's going to have the secondary effect of making you
radiantly attractive to masculine men.
Number one, practice being present.
The future-orientated masculine energy has to be balanced by the presence and warmth of the feminine.
I have each and every one of my clients nurture their feminine energy by doing meditation every single day.
Number two, enrich your senses. Your senses are more attuned and more receptive
than that of a man, so make sure you're enriching them to take care of yourself, whether it's
a bubble bath and a massage or getting out into nature and seeing, feeling, hearing the
sounds of nature and feeling that within your body invigorating your senses is such an important
part of maintaining your feminine energy.
Number three, move and look after your body. So if the masculine is the tree, then the
feminine is the wind through the trees. It's the movement. And you want to make sure you're
regularly moving energy through and around your body. So maybe that's the air coming
up through your lungs. You're singing, well, maybe you're dancing. Maybe you are taking
care of yourself with yoga or Pilates and you're physically exercising to move your body.
Whatever it is, you want to be moving that energy through you and it's going to
enrich your feminine side.
Number four, let a man lead. You're a woman. You can lead, but it doesn't mean you always
have to. If you're in the habit of always leading the men you date, I'd pose this question
to you, wouldn't you love it if you could find a man you didn't have to lead all the time?
Wouldn't you love it if you could find a man who took initiative, who asked you out,
who kissed you, who f***ed you without you having to lead the scenario? If your answer
was yes, and I dare say for most of you out there it was, then it shows me that you're
attached to your feminine core. Letting a guy lead you sometimes isn't weak. It means
being receptive and being vulnerable, and vulnerability takes strength.
Number five, spend time around other women. If you want to ensure your feminine radiance stays high,
then make sure you're around other sources of that radiance on a regular basis. Spend
time with the girls. Make time for your friends and you'll better connect with your inner feminine core.
Number six, buy clothes that make you feel feminine. So whatever it is for you, buy clothes
that make you feel great within your energy. You know, we spend a lot of time at work wearing
pants, suits, restrictive clothing, and for a lot of women that doesn't put you or them
in your most feminine state. So whether it's dresses, skirts, free flowing tops, whatever
clothing makes you feel the most like a woman, make sure you wear that clothing as much as
possible when you're not in a work environment where you can choose what you wear.
Number seven, create. The feminine energy is a creative energy. It gives birth to life and form. It's
an energy bursting with self-expression and creativeness. Any man will tell you that when
he lives with a woman, his house will look a lot different as to when he doesn't. So
make sure you make time for creating in your life, whether it's playing music, baking,
decorating, whatever it is. Make time for creative pursuits that you enjoy and that fulfill you.
Number eight, be playful. Connect to the youthful energy within you. Now, it doesn't matter
how old you are, whether you're 18 or 80 we can all exude a youthful, playful energy.
When you do, you're going to connect with your feminine core and be radiant to men.
If you don't, and you'll come off to men old or worn by the world, no one's going to be
as attracted to that and you're not gonna feel as good within yourself. Remember, youthfulness
doesn't mean childishness, but it does mean accessing that playful part of yourself that
men are gonna resonate with.
Number nine, practice receptiveness. Now, the penetrating energy,
the masculine and the receptive energy of the feminine isn't just about sex. It's
about the way you receive in all areas. So it could be the way you accept help and receive
help or the way you accept an offer or a gift. And it could also be the way you receive a
man. Even just his touch. I have one client who can actually orgasm if she receives a
hug from a man that she really likes. Now, I'm not necessarily saying that that should
be your goal, but it shows how when you're connected to that receiving energy of the
feminine, you can feel incredible within yourself and connect to that energy around men.
Number 10, connect with your sexuality. So fortunately times are changing. In the past,
so there's been a lot of shame associated with female sexuality and women enjoying sex.
Thankfully, as I said, things are moving in the right direction, but that doesn't mean
there's not a lot of shame in a lot of corners with a lot of women still attached to their sexuality.
Now, as you know, the female orgasm is very mental. It's mental as opposed to
the male orgasm, which is more physical, and it means that a lot of women can't experience
the sexual pleasure that they potentially could because mentally, there's shame or guilt
associated. So whether it's going to a workshop, opening yourself up, there's lots of ways
to better connect with your sexual essence and your sexual energy and to become more
connected with the sexual being that you are without experiencing any inner or outer shame over it.
Connecting with your sexuality is going to make you feel like more of a woman, and it's
going to radiate to the men you meet and date. Well, that's it. Thank you so much for watching.
That is 10 ways to restore your feminine essence and be polarizing and attractive to men. Not
only does it attract men, though, more importantly, it takes care of you, and that's the real
bonus with looking after your feminine energy. Thank you for watching. Let me know your thoughts.
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