Wouldn’t it be amazing to find the man of your dreams, and then know, without a doubt,
that he’ll never leave you?
How’s it going, ladies?
My name is Brad Browning with another relationship YouTube video.
I’m a breakup and marriage coach from Vancouver, Canada with over 10 years of experience…
and I’m going to try something a little different today.
See, usually, I only talk about breakups and marriages – after all, those two topics
are my specialties…
but today, I’m going to teach you ladies how to attract and keep the man of your dreams.
So why am I making a video like this?
Well, for a few reasons…
For one, what I’m about to teach you is important to PREVENT breakups.
My Ex Factor Guide program, a course designed to help you get your ex boyfriend back, is
all about creating an incredible amount of attraction between you and your ex boyfriend.
And one of the main tenets of my program is simple -- if you know how to create enough
attraction, your ex boyfriend won’t have a choice but to come crawling back to you…
But here’s the thing – some of these tips that I teach also work if you’re a single
woman looking for a man!
So if you want to learn some psychological techniques that will help you put a quality
guy on lock down, then watch this video until the very end…
AND don’t be afraid to ask questions in the comments section below.
I do my best to get back to every single one of you!
Now, before I get into how to attract and keep a man, I need to tell you common mistakes
that a lot of women make with guys… these are mistakes that not only destroy attraction,
but may actually PUSH guys further away from you…
I call these mistakes my “Man De-Magnetizing Mistakes”.
Mistake #1 – Showing too much interest, too quickly.
This might be pretty common sense to some of you out there, but showing too much romantic
interest in a man is a BIG no-no.
Men thrive on ‘the chase,’ but when you’re too readily available to him, then the pursuit
dies off and he’ll get bored.
So bored, that he’ll begin ignoring your phone calls and texts… has this ever happened
to you?
Mistake #2 – Not flirting enough.
If you want a man to develop romantic feelings for you, then you have to make him feel a
great deal of sexual attraction.
Now, you have to be careful here, because there’s a right way to flirt, as in the
classy way, or the WRONG way to flirt…as in the “Christina Aguilera – Dirty”
way... and learning how to flirt with class can be one of the most powerful skills for
finding your ideal man, but more on this later…
Mistake #3 – Having sex with him too early.
Like I said before, showing too much interest can reek of desperation….and this KILLS
attraction.
But so does sleeping with him too early.
If you sleep with a man before you feel like he’s earned it, he isn’t going to respect
you, and when he doesn’t respect you, he won’t want to be in a long-term relationship
with you.
A big part of attraction is INVESTMENT.
You need to learn how to get a man invested in you before you give up your goods…
it may sound complicated, but it really isn’t.
You can get a man invested in you by letting him make you happy...
For example, you can let him pay for dinner, let him open doors for you, and let him give
you a ride home after a date.
After he does one of these things, make sure you pet his ego by saying something like,
“You really didn’t have to do that, but thank you.”
Mistake #4 – Getting overly emotional about anything.
This is a huge red flag for a lot of men… if you become highly irritable, angry, depressed,
or spastic over anything insignificant, you will send him running.
So if something doesn’t go your way or he has to cancel a date for whatever reason,
play it cool and don’t let it bother you.
That doesn’t mean you should be a doormat, however.
There are ways you can stand up for yourself without looking desperate or crazy.
So do your best to be as emotionally solid as possible and he will be much more into
you.
Mistake #5 – Giving away your life story.
Like women, men are into ‘mystery’.
If you spill the beans about everything in your life right away, you’ll become boring
to him really quickly.
So instead of telling him all your plans for the weekend, be a little cryptic… don’t
tell him what you’re doing.
Just say something like, “I have plans with some friends” and leave it at that.
Doing so well him make think about you more than he should.
This is just one of the many psychological techniques you can employ to get a boyfriend
(and make him stick around), but if you want to learn more about how to make men fawn over
you, then you have to watch the free video presentation on www.BreakupBrad.com/boyfriend.
In that video, you’ll discover 3 things that you can to improve your chances with
the guy you’ve got a crush.
Again, the URL to that video is www.BreakupBrad.com/boyfriend.
So that’s just a quick preview of what NOT to do.
But to become a real “man’s lady,” so to speak, then be sure to listen to the following
tips...
Tip #1 – Expand your social circle.
These are words that introverts probably hate.
But if you want to actually find a man that’s worth keeping, you’re going to have to get
out of your comfort zone and make some new friends.
Meeting people leads to meeting even MORE people and you never know when and where your
dream guy is going to show up.
And once this man sees how much of an active social life you have, he’s going to think
that you have higher value…which will make approaching him even EASIER!
Tip #2 – Remember that being single is okay.
The women that have trouble with men all seem to have one issue – and that is, they have
troubles being alone.
When you aren’t comfortable being by yourself, people can smell the desperation… and like
I said before, being desperate and needy is off-putting.
I know this is easier said than done, but be sure to take some time to enjoy yourself
and remember why you’re a big catch.
Tip #3 – Be bold and unapologetically you.
Confidence is obviously important for attracting members of the opposite sex, but even though
many women say they’re confident, they don’t actually act confidently.
Acting confidently isn’t just about sticking up for yourself and being ambitious…
no.
Being confident is about TALKING to the guy you think is attractive…
it’s about flirting, unapologetically, and being a strong, classy woman.
It’s about seeing what you want and ACTUALLY going for it, not just think about it.
If you’re really serious about the finding the man that you’ve always dreamed of, then
you’re going to have to adopt a completely different mindset!
Tip #4 – Read the signs men give you.
In order to figure out how to act when you’re around him, you need to read what I call his
“love signs”.
These “love signs” are body language cues that indicate whether you’re coming on too
strong (or not strong enough).
Like with everything, balance is key… and to win a man’s heart, you need to show him
the right amount of attention.
So for example, if a man makes solid eye contact with you while he’s talking to you, you
can assume that he’s interested in you to a certain degree.
However, if he’s scratching his head, looking away, and sitting back, then you need to pique
his interest by flirting more.
In order to figure out how (and when) to flirt with a man, then you should head over to www.BreakupBrad.com/boyfriend
and watch the free presentation on that website.
In that video, you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do to make men wild with desire for
you… and how you can interpret all of his “love signs.”
Again, that URL is www.BreakupBrad.com/boyfriend.
Tip #5 – Be positive, vivacious, and upbeat.
You know one trick that will make you about 10 times more attractive to men?
LAUGH!
Yes, something as simple as laughing at his jokes or looking like you’re having a great
time can not only make you seem more approachable, but you’ll also look like good girlfriend
material.
Do you think a guy is going to be around a woman that doesn’t know how to have fun
or laugh at a joke?
Of course not.
It’s scientifically proven that people secrete feel-good hormones around people that are
always laughing…
so get out there and have fun!
Tip #6 – Have a passion.
Even if you aren’t the most talented woman in the world, there are an infinite number
of ways to show that you’re passionate about something.
It can be something as simple as traveling, wine-tasting, or bird watching.
Any sort of cool and interesting passion will not only catch his attention, but it’s a
great topic to discuss on a date.
So instead of making a man your passion, force yourself to pick up a hobby and make THAT
your new passion.
Once a man sees how driven you are, he’ll want to get to know why… so don’t be surprised
if he starts texting you more often as a result.
And finally, tip #7 – Be great in the sack.
Making a man yearn and fantasize about you when he’s NOT with you is a key ingredient
to making him commit.
And in order to make a man do this, you have to blow his mind in the bedroom.
I’d rather not go into the specific details on exactly how you can do this – I’m sure
there are plenty of guides on YouTube on this topic, but keeping a man committed and loyal
is really just about meeting his needs both physically and emotionally… and if you don’t
do these two things, he’ll eventually try and get these needs met elsewhere.
So there you have it, ladies… of course I can’t cover everything you possibly need
to learn in this short YouTube video, so if you’re serious about finding a man and making
him fall in love with you, then I encourage you to watch this free video up on this website
here… the URL is www.BreakupBrad.com/boyfriend.
That video is jam packed with incredibly effective psychological secrets that will help you make
almost any man commit to you.
Again, the URL is www.BreakupBrad.com/boyfriend.
Okay, that’s all for today ladies!
Make sure you give this video a like and don’t be afraid to ask me anything in the comments
section below.
Talk to you soon!