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All right, so the topic of today's video as you can tell based on the title is
trans-masculine people and our hip dysphoria
so I have mentioned many times on this channel and throughout all my outlets that I personally
suffer from hip dysphoria, and it's not just something that trans masculine people go through I've talked to
cisgender men as well who suffer from this obviously since I'm trans masculine, we're going to talk about it in that realm
So I also have hips I mean they're there and they're not going anywhere
And so some of the questions I get are like "when I start T
will my hips go away?" and your hips are a bone. I mean, it's literally a bone you hear that?
but the point is that a lot of people suffer from
Hip dysphoria, and I too suffer from hip dysphoria
So what I notice is I compare myself to other guys and like well look at their hips. Look at their hips
I really want to set the record straight on what male bodies
Sis male or trans male bodies look like because there isn't just one set way to look
what I actually did was I did some research and what I found was that there are five different male body type the oval the
triangle the
Rectangle the rhomboid and the inverted triangle
now the one that you might recognize the most out of all five of these is the inverted triangle and that's because that is
What society tells us as men is the ideal look that you should have that that quote-unquote
V-taper look the reality is is that that's only one in five different
You know body shapes that men can be with this
I want to point out six different male celebrities that are considered sexy and hot that also have hips
So the first one I want to pick out is Ryan Gosling
So if you look at Ryan Gosling, he has hips he is not an inverted triangle. He's more
rhomboidy-rectangle okay
Bradley Cooper just came out with that great movie a star is born with Lady gaga
Another guy who does not have an inverted triangle. He has hips very visible hips Shamar more
Visible hips very visible hips, you know lies even more visible
If Terry Crews Terry Cruz's hips protrude out of his body no matter how lean and mean he looks okay
Another lean mean guy is the rock Dwayne Johnson. He has Apes, too
they're a little harder to tell because he's so
massive but he does have hips that protrude out of his body along with other famous celebrities that are considered sexy men
right Hugh Jackman, right like Hugh... I think he was like people's
Sexiest man alive at one point they have hips they are not that
v-taper look but they're all considered sexy and they're all considered men and nobody devalues them because of
Their body type, okay
and so that's where I just want to break this myth that all men have this v-taper shape because the end of the day it's
Our bones you can't change bone. Okay. Your bone is not gonna change
So what you need to do is you really need to look more around and understand that bodies come in all different shapes and sizes
You know the more and more you can look around and find those people
Not find them not find the one guy at the beach is
Super-ripped and toned and super v-taper like look around it all the bodies around you
Okay, and notice that you're no different than most of these guys you look just like them
there's really no difference between you and them and so I just want to point that out and
reiterate that to you in case you know
Maybe you've heard it before but maybe you just you didn't really get an understanding of this
and so, you know, I've got some tips for you and the first tip is gonna be
relax
Okay, just relax. It's okay like you you may have hips they may cause you dysphoria
I'm not trying to invalidate that but what I'm trying to say is that
Everybody has hips and how you're shaped
Doesn't determine if you're gonna be read as male or female if you really are suffering from dysphoria with your hips
Do what I do and that is work your lats your shoulders and your chest pretty much your whole upper body
Because what you can do is you just make it look like you have a smaller waist than you actually do because your upper body
Is bigger right? So maybe you don't have an inverted triangle. Maybe you're more of a triangle shape
Okay, so you're gonna go more like this. You're kind of bigger on your hips
well
what you can do is you can transfer from a triangle to maybe a rectangle right and that would be by taking the top and
Broadening it out. We take the triangle and you turn it into a rectangle
Now you're more straight and how do you do that?
You have to build your muscle on top so that the at the top looks bigger
But the reality it is is that you're not a rectangle shape
You're a triangle shape by making an illusion
You know making it look like you're one way when maybe your actual biological
Like structure of your bones are actually another way. That is what a lot of these guys do
And so that's a tip that I want to give to you all if you're feeling dysphoric about your hips, you know
Look at some of these guys look at some of these celebrities, you know scope through your Instagram and stop following every single person
Who's got the exact same body type that you don't have maybe you have an oval body type start following guys with oval body types
You don't I mean and also just try to kick the concept that like if you're curvy then you're more feminine-looking because it's just not
True. We all have different bodies. There is no one way to look male. There's no one way to look female
Just remember this if you're feeling any type of dysphoric about your hips, I'm here. I set the record straight
I want you to know that you're beautiful
exactly how you are you're just as manly as the next guy you are who you are and you shouldn't try to change that unless
You feel really dysphoric and you want to make an effort towards it, right?
Because I'm not trying to say like don't do anything! You're perfect how you are!
I mean you kind of are perfect how you are but let's just be real some of us like to dye our hair we like
To paint our nails we like to change our clothes
I mean, you know, we like to get piercings get tattoos, you know, we like to express ourselves through our bodies
so if you're looking at in the mirror and you feel
Dysphoric about your hips just start working out start following and surrounding yourself with people who have different body types
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