When I'm working with my coaching clients, I get this question a lot.
Guys will say to me, how do I physically escalate with a woman?
When is a good time to touch a woman?
When do I introduce touching?
How is this to be done?
How do we do it in a way that's not going to offend her or creep her out?
So what I want to go over on today's video, is how to do that and a really cool move.
And it literally takes 5 seconds that you're going to be doing to introduce touch, but
do it in a very easy way, where she's not gonna get creeped out, she's not gonna get
weirded out.
And it's going to be easy for you.
Here's one thing you have to understand about touching in general.
When you want to introduce touch, don't think about touching the girl in a way where you
think oh Tripp said I have to touch a girl or some other dating guru said you got to
introduce touch, like you have do that to build attraction or get her interested in
you.
Yes, touching does get a girl more interested in you.
Because human interaction, human touch is something that people desire, because we are
mammals and we were born being touched, so it feels good.
However, I don't want you to think about it something you have to do.
I want you to kind of flip it a little bit and think about it as something that you would
desire to do.
Because if you desire to do it, if you desire to physically connect with someone, that is
step one right there to prevent it from it being awkward.
It's going to be more awkward to touch someone, when it feels more forced, it has to be more
natural.
The way you're going to make it more natural is you're going to introduce touch when you
want to and when you feel comfortable in the interaction.
You're just going to be asking yourself throughout the interaction like is this the time when
I feel like connecting with her?
You might not even have to ask it, it's just going to kind jump through your body, like
you're going to know like, Oh, this is a time when I want to physically connect with her.
And I'm not talking about kissing, per se.
This is not about how to kiss, but how to introduce touch in more of the innocent touching
way, before you get to a more intimate level like kissing.
Here's a great way to do it.
Okay and the cool thing about this is this is actually going to turn her on a little
bit.
It's going to kind of spark her emotions a little bit.
It's going to make her feel like whoa, what's going on, like, I'm being touched by someone
in a way that's not creepy or weird, but feels right because you're going to be doing in
a natural way because of the step I just told you a second ago.
But also this step right here.
What I want you to do is when you feel like you're in this moment where you want to physically
connect with her, I want you to see if there is a piece of jewelry that's either on her
wrist or maybe on her finger.
This is going to be a little bit more advanced, but maybe a necklace.
Potentially even, we can go a little bit more advanced to maybe her ear, and I'll explain
why this is advanced in just a second.
But all these little bits of jewelry.
And most of the time women are wearing something.
And of course if she's wearing a wedding ring, this is not one that's going to count in this
move.
Because this is not going to be the type of woman that you're going to be hitting on or
pursuing.
But women wear jewelry and all these different places.
What you can do is as you're talking to her, and you could have been talking to her for
a couple minutes, maybe 5 minutes, maybe 10 minutes, when we move to more of the advanced
parts of the body like necklace or earring, you're going to kind of softly grab her hand
again, not like jolt and grab it, but you're just going to softly grab her hand, and you're
going to touch the ring, or you're going to touch the bracelet, whatever's on her wrist
and you're going to say, wow, this is really cool.
Where did you get this?
Okay, so you're just gonna save just like that.
This is really cool.
Where did you get this, while touching it.
You're going to do this ever so gently.
You're not going to just grab her hand or grab her ear, or grab anywhere near her neck.
You're just going to kind of almost caressing away, but at the same time while analyzing
the piece.
If you're going to do it on her neck, her necklace, you're just going to kind of barely
touch her collarbone and just kind of touch on that and go, Hey, where'd you get this,
that might be one you're going to do and even talking to her for a little bit longer, it's
more comfortable, because that's a very vulnerable place less vulnerable than maybe her fingers
or her wrist.
And then another like I said, more advanced move is her earring.
If it's a cool earring or something, you know that some something interesting that you got
somewhere you can kind of like, kind of go and kind of almost grab it almost touch it
again, this is like really entering someone's personal space so you might not want to do
this until you gained a really good rapport with her.
You might kind of touch her ear very subtly, or just kind of almost like you're about to
touch your ear when you don't you kind of touch her and say, well, it's a really beautiful
earrings.
Where do you get that?
Okay, so that's the move right?
There takes only five seconds or under.
And it's not a hard move.
But you're gonna have to kind of build up the courage and really, you know, get inside
yourself for a second and feel like, okay, is this a time where I want to do this do
I feel comfortable doing this because if you don't, and you're just kind of listening to
what I'm saying in a video like this and just going for it, it's going to be kind of rough.
And it's not going to be as natural, what a great way to introduce touch and connect
you to when you do this, it connects you guys so much more and she'll become more attracted
to you.
In this process.
I have a ton more techniques that are just like this that I teach you as you're going
through your own journey.
If you're interested in getting coaching from me, where I can help you through your personal
journey depending on where you are, whether you've never even approached a girl before
or to the point where maybe you're in a relationship let me help you.
Once you go to www.coachedbytripp.com you can apply for coaching and I can help you
with that.
And we can basically dive into wherever you are see your sticking points and completely
remove them.
So you're going out and you're meeting and attracting beautiful women and I can teach
you different techniques just like this and also teach you stuff that's gonna be designed
specifically for you.
Go check that out if you're interested.
Now a lot of guys know that I do coaching and I help guys in person and over the phone.
So go to www.coachedbytripp.com and apply today.
And of course I'll see you in the next video.
I hope that this technique works for you try it out.
Let us know.