Today we will provide an update on Kim and Usman from 90 day fiancé.
We will be talking about their storyline on Before the 90 Days,
Usman’s relationship with his ex, Zara
and his current relationship with Kimberly.
On 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days Season 5 32-year-old aspiring musician Usman Umar
AKA King Africa AKA SojaBoy
appeared with his potential 50-year-old girlfriend Kimberly.
Previously Usman had already appeared on Before the 90 Days, on season 4,
where he married an older American woman, Lisa.
After got divorced, the viewers were surprised to see Usman giving another shot
at dating someone older on the next season.
A lot of 90 Day Fiance fans speculated that SojaBoy is only in it for the air time
and Kimberly is just a means for him to be on TV again.
They would say that not only Kimberly is being used to be on the show, but also to receive expensive gifts.
Even Kimberly’s son Jamal brought this up during the Tell All Episode
These suspicions intensified as Usman confirmed that Kim wasn’t even his first choice of a partner to be on the season.
According to the Nigerian 90 day fiance cast member, his 26-year-old American girlfriend Zara
decided to not proceed with the filming
as she ended the relationship with Usman "due to jealousy".
Kimberly is adamant that Usman is not using her.
During a Q&A on her Instagram she confirmed she was reluctant to join 90 day fiance,
but in the end she decided to proceed with the filming.
On Before the 90 Days Usman invited Kimberly to witness the shooting of his music video for the song “Zara”.
Kim claimed she didn’t know why the song was titled like this
At the beginning of their season on 90 Day Fiance Usman was rather cold towards Kim.
While Kim was pushing for their relationship to go on a next level,
SojaBoy was hesitant.
But as Kim’s trip to Tanzania was coming to an end, he has decided to make their relationship official.
After they began dating, Usman came clean that the song “Zara” was dedicated to his ex-girlfriend
and Kimberly wasn’t happy about it.
The couple fought and Kimberly threw a drink on Usman’s face, threatening to leave Tanzania.
However, eventually the couple had reconciled
and by the time Kim was to leave back home, she was quite sad about having to leave SojaBoy.
Meanwhile Usman invited Kim to visit Nigeria,
and this might confirm the rumors that Kimberly had been filming in Usman's home country.
When saying their goodbyes, Usman refused to kiss his girlfriend due to not wanting to show PDA
On 90 day fiance it was shown, that after Kimberly left, Usman made a video call to Zara.
During their conversation Usman appeared to be enamored with his ex and he behaved quite differently than with Kim.
He was also wearing his iced necklace that Kim went through great lengths to send him.
On social media she claimed it was not a cheap accessory to buy.
After Usman talked to Zara, he expressed to the production crew that he’s unsure if he made the right choice between Kimberly and Zara
Once Kimberly found out during the Tell All filming about Usman’s conversation with Zara she started crying
Although the cast members were not supposed to reveal their relationship status until after the second part of the Tell All,
Usman felt he needs to confirm on Instagram that he and Kimberly are still together and going strong.
According to Usman, the couple has their ups and downs, but they always fix their problems.
The Nigerian rapper confirmed, he was hesitant about dating Kimberly at first due to the age gap
and not wanting to repeat the same mistake he made with Lisa.
In his social media post Usman addressed his call with Zara, saying it was a badly editing by the production.
He said, that in fact he called his ex-girlfriends on his 5th day of stay on Zanzibar out of 21 days trip
While on the show they made it look like he called Zara after Kim had left
Usman claims that the production was convincing him to call Zara for two hours
SojaBoy is also adamant he’s not using Kim.
According to him, he’s making more money than she does.
He concluded that he wishes Kim’s mom was alive to see that Usman is a “blessing to anyone around him”.
In the comment section Usman said that production showing his call to Zara at the very end of the season
makes it the last memory of the show and it is unfair.
Usman said, “I’m not a regular cast member, I have been on TVs all my life”
He added that he made good ratings for the network profit of and he would not tolerate them spoiling his image.
Some fans supported Usman and Kim, saying it’s none of anyone’s business and their relationship is obviously real.
In the meantime, SojaBoy received plenty of criticism for his statement.
Some fans said that while it might be true it took him time to be convinced to call Zara,
he definitely went to the next level by unbuttoning his shirt, flirting and signing his song to his ex.
Kim has no regrets about her relationship with Usman.
She called the day she met him the best day of her life and said that he treats her like a queen.
Nonetheless, she did receive plenty of criticism during her time on 90 Day Fiance.
The fans found it disgraceful her that she called Zara a b word and Kim has publicly apologized for that.
She was also called a predator for chasing Usman, most notably by her fellow 90 day fiancé cast member, Ben.
However, Ben apologized to Kim, saying his Tell All comments were patronizing, misоgynistic and hurtful.
Kim has accepted his apology.
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