Matt: All right, so let's cut to the chase.
You want a girlfriend and the reason you
clicked on this video is because you think there's something that you don't know or
maybe even something wrong with you that's stopping you from getting one.
Or should I say her, because you probably
have a specific girl in mind already, am I right?
You just don't know what to do.
So then the question is,
how do you take a girl that you like and turn her into your girlfriend?
If you want to know the answer
to that question, then this might be one of the most important videos that you've
ever watched, because I'm going to show you the four foolproof steps that every
man must follow in order to make that happen.
And I wish I knew this back in the day because I used to always sabotage myself.
Any time I liked a girl,
I would always say the wrong things and women would literally scatter.
I remember my best friend told me
that girls like you, man, until you open your mouth.
And that just hit me like a ton of bricks.
And it took me a lot of trial and error to really figure this out.
But when I did, getting a super high quality girlfriend
became really easy and I was able to increase my standards.
And here's something you need to understand.
Regardless of your experience to date,
it's actually pretty darn easy to get a girlfriend why every heterosexual single
girl on the planet wants to get a boyfriend and most girls that are
already in a relationship actually want a new one.
What this means is that you're actually
in a buyer's market and when you're in a buyer's market, you have all the power.
This is the first mistake that most guys make.
They don't realize that they're surrounded
by an ocean of women that are looking for someone like them.
This mistake builds a scarcity mindset within them and closer to opening a new
P0rnHub tab than landing that cute girl they work with.
But the second mistake that guys make is even worse.
And you probably make it every day. You know what it is.
You don't have a plan A to B plan of how
to take a girl that you like and turn her into your girlfriend.
You ask yourself, it's all a bit of a mystery,
like trying to describe what the force is.
[Yoda being Yoda] Matt: You simply don't know what to do.
And because of this, you might think that guys who do have
girlfriends are somehow better than you or they have something that you don't have.
I guess they do have something. You don't have a girlfriend,
but the reality is you just don't know what you're doing.
And their dad or big brother or pervy uncle showed them the ropes.
This lack of a plan, coupled with the fact
that you and every other guy on the planet fails to realize the sheer number
of opportunities around you are the reason that you spent the last few years getting
repetitive strain injury in your wrist rather than cuddling up in front
of Netflix with the hot barista that you've always wanted to ask out.
But for the sake of your aching heart that ends now, I'm going to give you
my four step foolproof plan, taking that classy,
sassy senorita and turning her into your high quality, loving girlfriend.
This isn't going to be a list
of techniques, and this is not going to be ridiculously complicated.
But I can promise you, if you follow these four steps to the teeth,
you will land the girlfriend that you've been looking for.
Number one, you need to know what you believe.
Your beliefs about yourself and about
women and about the world in general are going to torpedo your chances to get
a high quality girlfriend faster than anything else on Earth.
This is why it's so important to actually
take a step back and examine your beliefs about women.
Do you believe you're attractive to women?
Do you believe women are interested in your personality?
Do you believe you deserve a top ten Instagram model girlfriend?
Do you believe you're worthy of love?
You really need to dig in and really find out what makes you tick.
If you find that you have a bunch
of unhealthy or limiting negative beliefs that aren't helping you, start to challenge
them. And ask yourself if they're really true.
And by the way, I've developed an entire
system called the identity breakthrough process that will transform your beliefs
from the inside out so you no longer see yourself as unworthy of a beautiful
girlfriend and instead see yourself as a confident, powerful man who is worthy
of a total ten drop dead gorgeous girlfriend.
And when that happens, it really becomes like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
But I'll talk more about that at the end of the video.
You also need to know what you want when
you actually know what kind of girlfriend you're looking for.
It gives you a clear target. Why, you might ask?
Well, that girl certainly has hobbies.
She has certain interests and lives a certain way and has a specific type.
For example, if you like rocker chicks, then going to rock concerts and getting
a bunch of tattoos is probably going to help you land that kind of girl.
But there's one big caveat.
Do not go for a girl that is your complete opposite.
For example, if you're a bookish,
introverted guy, finding a girl who likes to hit up nightclubs and sing karaoke
and partying till 3AM probably isn't a good idea.
No matter how hard she is,
you've got to find someone more your speed and knowing exactly what you want will
mean that you have standards because you won't just let anybody be your girlfriend.
And a guy with standards is a lot more
attractive than a guy who will just go for anything.
Look, man, understanding your beliefs
about yourself and knowing exactly what you want gives you the strongest
foundation for meeting women and having the confidence to get a girlfriend.
So if you're interested in becoming the
best version of yourself,
then feel free to apply for a free call with one of my team members.
I'll put a link to it down in the description and we'll set you
on a course to transform you from the inside out to unleash that beast
of a man that I know is inside you so that you can finally attract that total 10
dream woman, because that is exactly what we do.
Number 2 to make sure your cake is baked before putting on the icing.
A girlfriend is the icing on an already excellent life cake. By this, of course.
I mean, she enhances a life that's already good.
If your life sucks and you have a dull
social life, a crappy job, and you're still wearing last week's
underpants.. then you need to fix all that first, the easiest way to attract
a high quality woman is to have a life that you enjoy because she sees it as
the kind of life that she would love to be swept up in.
And she admires you for taking care of yourself and for taking your life
seriously. When you're trying to get a girlfriend,
but your life is a little bit of a shambles.
It just screams that you're looking for her to be a Band-Aid.
And you're not a man who's in charge
of his own world. Sorting out your "life cake" before you get some "girlfriend
icing" also comes with the added benefit of improving your confidence, your looks,
your bank balance, your social life and, of course, your sex life,
all of which will help you attract a higher quality girlfriend.
In other words, it's one of the closest
things to a magic pill that you're going to find.
But look, I know you're probably thinking,
why do I have to build this amazing life just to get one girlfriend?
I'm going to let you in on a little secret. For girls,
an attractive life isn't one filled
with Ferraris, suitcases filled with money and models hanging off your arm.
It's just a guy whose life is at least a little bit above average.
That's it, man. A guy whose life is a little bit above
average and she can curl up on the sofa with and eat ice cream and watch Netflix.
Seems pretty doable, right?
I hope so, because that's it.
Number three, learn a woman's secret language.
Your future girlfriend is a girl,
and you're going to have to speak to her at some point.
So as scary as it might seem right now,
you're going to have to get comfortable speaking to women.
Not only that, but you don't know where
you're going to meet the girl that ends up becoming your girlfriend,
especially if you want a really high quality girlfriend.
Relying on the easy swiping of online dating is probably not going to cut it
because women are bombarded by messages from other guys.
So the competition is really effing high.
You need to grab your balls, build up some courage and some resilience
and learn how to speak to women in real life in all different types
of environments, like walking down the street in a coffee
shop while she's at work, at bars, parks, wherever.
Because look, man, at the end of the day,
dating, whether you're looking for sex or for love, is a numbers game.
The more you play, the more you win. This means you're going to want
to increase your chances of meeting her as much as possible.
And when I first started meeting women in everyday situations,
I looked like a deer in headlights because I felt like I was bothering them.
I was like, Hey, hey, don't hurt me.
And of course, that wasn't very attractive.
And my results were pretty slim.
And as I did thousands upon thousands of approaches, I became a lot better.
I became a lot more confident and I was
able to spark sexual tension immediately and women's eyes would just light up.
But the good news is you don't have to do thousands of approaches.
You don't have to learn the hard way like I did.
All you need to do is get a mentor.
So again, there's a link down
in the description to apply for a free phone call with us.
And I also created an entire video on how to meet women in everyday situations.
And I'll put a link to that at the end of this video.
And maybe there'll be one in an ICard above.
But think about it for a second.
Think of all the beautiful women you see on a regular basis.
Imagine you able to meet all of them.
Well, some of them you would get phone numbers from and some of those would turn
into dates and eventually a date will turn into a girlfriend.
And when you have an abundance of women
to choose from, that's when you can pick the best high quality girlfriend.
And by the way, man, here's another little side tip.
One of the best ways besides in everyday
situations to meet women is to throw events where it's just you maybe one or
two other guys and ten or fifteen beautiful women, because then they're all
fighting for your attention and you instantly become a high value man.
It's so easy to get a girlfriend that way.
And I show guys exactly how to do that in my mentoring program.
But the only way to join that is to apply
for a call. Numero cuatro is make your move.
Do you know when the best time to ask a girl out is? "Yesterday"
The second best time? "Right Now"
a while back,
I taught a class in Singapore with 14 women and I asked them,
what's the biggest hang up that you have when it comes to men and dating?
And they all unanimously agreed their biggest hang up or gripe or challenge was
that men in their culture did not make the move.
But it really applies to all cultures.
I mean, imagine that for a second.
You're a beautiful woman and you like
a guy, but it's just not in your nature to make a move.
I'm not saying women can't make moves.
Yes, of course they can. It's all good.
But go for it.
If you're a woman watching this, please make the move.
I would be very happy if that happens, but it's just not in most women's nature.
They just feel very masculine if they have to ask the guy out.
But once you've challenged your beliefs
and you know what you want and you've built an attractive lifestyle and you know
how to talk to girls, you only need to take one more step.
And it's pretty simple.
You just need to ask her out and go on dates.
Don't wait man, just do it.
And of course, not all women will say yes, but if you do this enough,
you will get a yes and you will end up on a date from here.
It's just a matter of time, chemistry and compatibility,
which of course, is why step number one is so important.
You got to know what you want. When it works, you'll know.
And when you do. And you've been on a bunch of dates
and everything's all kissing lovey dovey looks and thinking about each other all
the time, just ask her to be your girlfriend.
Who knows? She might say yes.
So call your crush and ask her out man. And leave a comment down below.
Let us know how it goes.
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I would love to chat with you.
I remember there's that link down below to apply for a free call with us to see if
you qualify for our mentorship program and make sure to watch the next video
right beneath me on how to meet and attract women in everyday situations.
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