﻿10 DUMB ADVISES UNSUCCESSFUL PEOPLE GIVE YOU. Hello viewers and welcome to another informative
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so that you won’t miss out on any of our amazing videos. Here shortlisted are ten dumb advises
unsuccessful people give you. • DO WHAT YOU LOVE
If there is one piece of advice people always give is Oh! Just do what you
love. This is really terrible advice let me explain why; you shouldn’t do what you love,
you should rather do what gets you paid. If you are passionate about dancing and feel this is
what makes you complete that is awesome. Later on, you will come to realize you need to pay bills,
fuel your car, pay your rents, and suddenly you will realize that your passion alone isn’t enough.
Don’t get us wrong it is very important to know what makes you complete and happy
but there are two things you need to do in order to achieve this.
Firstly take care of the basics; that is getting a job, a business, or something that will give you
enough income to cater to your needs. You don’t want to be in a situation where your son is being
rushed to the hospital and you lack the funds to settle the bills. Like it or not the world
runs on money, get enough of it and your safe. Secondly, you need resources to put into your
passion. Resources here include both time and money. If your passion is music and you want to
put this passion to work you need both the time to practice and enough money to buy yourself a gear.
Believe it or not passions are expensive. You can do what you love but there are a lot of shit you
need to do first in order to be sustainable. • YOU’RE SO YOUNG,
YOU HAVE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD That’s false! You have a limited amount of
time to figure out your life, and then get busy working towards whatever you desire. Assuming,
an individual reaches the age of 20, he’s got around 40 years to make sense of everything.
40 years seem a long time but it really isn’t. Between 20 to 30 years, you take decisions and
risks that determine your future. This is when you’ve got the most freedom and you
can even survive on low income. If you are smart enough, you will take chances
and opportunities that will guarantee you a comfortable life ahead in your thirties.
Between 30 to 40 years when you start building a family, the moment you start having kids,
your ability to take risks decreases, you want to play it safe just to provide
for your family. Taking chances that will maintain or slightly increase your earnings
without compromising your family’s needs Between 40 and 50 it’s your costing period,
life keeps moving forward, technology is changing, trends are changing,
the world becomes a scary place and you just want to keep making sense of it all.
Between 50 to 60, your children are maturing and ready to start the cycle all over, you look
back at your life and you’ve done well. But it’s what you’ve done in those early years that make a
difference. Thus, the sooner you start planning your life and knowing how to manage your time
the greater the chances of you becoming rich. • YOU NEED MONEY TO MAKE MONEY
This is one thing all beginner entrepreneurs say to justify their failures.
Any human being can make money if you give them enough money to begin with.
The moment you borrow money from a bank or from a friend to finance your project,
you have failed to grow this thing organically and you need someone else to keep your float.
Use your time and knowledge to make yourself money early on. Take that money and try to grow it until
you have enough to make money using money alone. • WE ARE ALL BORN EQUAL
Sorry to disappoint you, but we are not all born equal. You can’t say a child being born into a
poor family will have equal privileges as a child being born into a rich family. It’s obvious that
the rich child already has a future perfectly planned out. He will go to a prestigious school,
graduate, then employed immediately into one of his parents companies contrary to a poor child
whom after graduation will go through the hurdle of dropping applications in different
establishments before getting himself a job. Some rich kids even inherit wealth and properties from
their parents thus having a secured future. Having both parents in your life setting a
perfect example and helping you become better is a major head start against someone raised by a
single mother struggling to put food on the table. For hundreds of years, women have been seen as
second class citizens. There are a lot of jobs in which a woman can’t qualify for.
In some communities in the world like women are prohibited from going to school.
Not everyone has access to the same privileges, resources, education, or health-care.
You need to understand the implications with you been born from a certain geography
or race and adapt to it. Just then will you start living a satisfactory life.
• EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON Things don’t just happen for reason;
they happen if you or an external force makes it happen. Stop always looking for a meaning
in everything, life is a chaos and things don’t actually happen as we plan. For example a student
failing an exam, there are no other explanations than that the student didn’t prepare adequately
or the teacher manipulated the results. If you miss your flight don’t console yourself with it
“happened for a reason”. The only reason is you didn’t know how to manage your time thus arrived
at the airport late. Sorry too late Hewett!!! • GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT
The truth about life is nobody owes you anything. You don’t just have to idle around and wait till
success, a job, or what you have always dreamed about come knocking at your door.
Nobody will bring you that thing you deserve but never earned. You have to work for what you want.
If you have always dreamt of becoming a doctor, banker, entrepreneur, go out there ask questions,
read books, follow what successful people do, get to work and you will get your reward.
No one will employ you as a doctor or a manager of a certain company if you
don’t work for it. Some awards or promotion at your job site may seem longer to achieve
but it’s not by waiting that you earn them. It’s the efforts you put in that will qualify you for
that award or promotion. Thus stop waiting, go out there, invest in yourself, work for what you
want and you will definitely get a reward. • WHAT DEOSNT KILL YOU MAKE YOU STRONGER
Like seriously? What doesn’t kill you can make you traumatized or even paralyzed for life.
It could not only ruin your life, but the lives of those around you. When people utter such words to
you, it’s just a means to make you feel better about something or a situation and they have no
idea how it feels because they are not the ones facing the pain or trouble you are going through.
Avoid taking unnecessary risk in the name of ‘if it doesn’t kill me, it will make stronger’.
You will never hear a lady, who lost her husband, tell another lady going through the same tragedy
that she’s stronger now. Opportunities, finances are infinite but life itself is finite,
and you won’t want to waste your life on earth doing things that can affect you forever.
• TIME HEALS ALLS WOUNDS Can you explain how time
will make you forget about how you lost someone you loved and cherished so dearly into the cold
hands of death? , or how you lost a contract that could pave your way to becoming a billionaire?
Obviously not! Time never heals wound, humans turn to live with the pain for the rest of their lives
till they die. People who throw such advices are ignorant to type of pain you are going
through. Don’t be that type of person. • GOD GIVES YOU A BURDEN YOU CAN’T CARRY
According to the news, the economy is getting better, but this doesn’t apply to everyone. A
lot of people have to deal with joblessness, loans getting due, illnesses, car breakdowns,
home accidents. Relationships fall apart, families spilt, loved ones die. A Christian
friend trying to encourage you tells you “God never gives us more than we can handle”. This
in any way isn’t helping and make sure to rebuke such a person who tells you this. This statement
implies that if we cannot handle what’s going on in our lives, it’s our fault because God
gave us the means to overcome it. It makes it sound like God has already prepared us for any
unforeseen situation and it’s left for us to handle whatsoever comes our way. Absolutely
no! Truth be told God allows much trouble to come into our life so that we can manage. He never
promised that he will protect us from too much trouble. Get the sense out of what I am saying.
10) THINK POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND THE UNIVERSE WILL PROVIDE
How weird some advice really sound. Wait like seriously if I think about
becoming a billionaire without doing what it takes to become a billionaire,
will the universe provide that for me? If I want to live in a villa,
drive a Lamborghini, use the latest phone, eat in expensive restaurants without working for it,
will the universe provide that for me? Nobody owes you anything as said in the previous points. Not
even your father or mother owes you property or wealth. Get out from your comfort zone,
stop thinking and start working in order to achieve what you desire in life.
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