it's not your fault see abuse comes in many forms some people abuse your your
trust your kindness your loyalty your heart sometimes we can't see the abuse
when it's right in our face because we think oh it can't happen to me abuse can
happen to anyone it's so easy to blame yourself and make excuses for other
people but please understand it's not you but abuse happens everywhere
everyday it doesn't matter your education skin color gender abuse can
happen to anyone and you know what else it's not your fault even though they
make it seem like it's you even though they made point fingers at you but they
never take responsibility for their own actions this is another trick of an
abuser they invalidate your feelings they treat you like you're stupid they
play mind games they manipulate you they they gas likes you they make you
question your own your own memory and sanity this is not love love and fear
don't go hand in hand if you have to walk on eggshells that's not love if
they want you to feel sorry for them all the time that's not love if you can't be
yourself around them it's not love I know it can be so hard
to get out of this toxic environment but you have to look within and find the
courage to stand up the courage to walk away from somebody that is no longer
serving you when you summon the courage to stop serving someone who is not
serving you when you stop being loyal to somebody who's not being loyal to you if
you lose them that is not a loss that's a game you are not a victim you a
survivor I know it's hard to leave but I want to tell you a story that I heard a
long time ago see once upon a time there was a man and this man he was visiting
his friend's house he hadn't seen this friend for years so he was happy to
reconnect as his friend was giving him the house tour he heard a sound
something crying so he looked around and he noticed his friend's dog was crying
in the corner he asked his friend is your dog okay the friend said yeah he's
fine well why is she whimpering like that oh he's just laying on a nail well
why doesn't he get up from that spot and take the pain away and the friend said
because it's not hurting him bad enough yet you see sometimes in our lives we
can be in a spot that is causing us pain but we don't get up and take the pain
away because it's not hurting us bad enough yet how bad does they have to get
before you walk away from what's hurting you I know they may not be a bad person
themselves they're probably just hurt and yeah we can be compassionate for
them we can't stay with them yeah they had a
bad upbringing this or that but it's not your job to fix them it's a full-time
job to fix yourself plus you can't fix them all you're doing is giving them
more permission to abuse you you have so much to offer this world so much courage
so much beauty so much strength it's not your fault but it is your responsibility
to move on and get up from that spot that's hurting you
thank you guys for watching this video if you enjoyed this video please share
it see abuse can happen to anyone at any time and you never know who a video like
this can help peace