[groans]
[laughs]
What are you doing?
Chilling. What you watchin'?
What I always watch, sports.
-Okay. -No studio today?
-Nothin'. -Hmm.
Nothin' but you.
[laughs]
There's more than one reason I cut Kai off,
ain't no one reason, but the ultimate reason
is my woman.
Me and Lexie, we're in a good place
right now.
Uh, we still got some things we need to fix.
She's confident in us again.
And I am too.
Dr. Nicole has this assignment that we have to do.
What do we see is our vision for marriage?
What's your vision, what's my vision,
how it's similar, how it's not similar.
-I want to keep up the cuddling.
-[laughs]
I do not want to lose the fun we have.
You know, 'cause that what happens most of the time,
titles, you add it on and then you
lack the luster
you used to have, like, it's no more fun.
I don't want to go through that.
As far as getting married to Lex, uh, I'm doing it
because Lex wants it,
you know, at the end of the day, happy wife,
happy life.
If that's gonna make Lex happy, I'm down,
so, you know, I'm doing it for her.
So what you want to add to what we already do?
I mean, we do plan on having a baby.
I think a baby will bring some excitement,
but I think it'd be fun I think, I bet the baby
would keep us locked in.
A kid, a dog. I think of Family Matters.
-That's my vision of marriage. -Right.
Obviously, number one issue communication,
um, making sure you come back every day
'cause condo gone, so that should be
an excuse anymore, right?
-I'm just saying. Okay, are we agreeing?
-Duh.
I want more support from you.
Mm-hmm.
Whatever I'm doing, like, if I'm having a bad day,
you know,
I want to be able to know that you're checking in,
in, like, a best friend way too.
And vice versa, you know, being a husband,
being a boyfriend
-is support. -What good examples
have you seen in marriage?
I didn't have good role models in there, like, I didn't.
-Your grandparents. -They stayed together,
you know, they did,
-until death did them part, but...
-[laughs]
[sighs] It was tough.
The relationship between my grandmother
and grandfather.
It wasn't a peaceful marriage, it wasn't the ideal marriage
that I wouldn't want to have with her.
They went through a lot of scarring each other
physically and mentally.
I thought that when he grew up with his grandma and grandpa,
it was just a good vision because they are married,
but, he, this is the first time he told me,
like, how he hasn't had
any good examples of marriage, period.
Not only, I'm like, my uncles, I've seen them get divorces,
because I've had poor examples of marriage
growing up.
I do think it plays a role in my fear.
I don't see too many of my people
that are divorced.
So, maybe that's why I'm wanting to be more
than just girlfriend and boyfriend.
Are you afraid of marriage?
I'm not afraid of it.
-Okay. -Don't let me do nothin'
stupid alone.
-Do it with me. -[laughs]
I guess.
[Alexia] At this point, I feel like things are actually
going really good
with me and Darion, he's been more romantic.
I feel like Darion is actually more in tune to accepting
that this is what I want.
Um, I feel like he's wanting it as well.
I think, that we're definitely getting near a proposal.
I really don't know. But it does feel good.
[laughs]
[Darion] I think that baby gonna add some spice
to our life.
[Alexia] You're crazy.