6 Keys to understanding women perfectly.
Men often get lost in dealing with women.
In many occasions, simply, they do not understand anything of what they are saying, they do
not know how to foresee women's reactions and they are unable to glimpse even a part
of what goes through their heads.
No need to give examples, for that, there are all the comedies of the world and our
daily coexistence with that being that many consider indecipherable.
But what if it turns out that it is not so complicated to understand women?
If there was a manual so that we would not go crazy deciphering their intricate strategies?
The veteran American psychologist Barbara Markway believes that it is not so difficult
to know what women are thinking and what is worrying them.
As explained in her blog, just follow six basic guidelines that will help us understand
what women want from men.
Its practice is fundamental if we want our relationship as a couple or our date, to come
to fruition or, at least, not take us to the insane asylum.
1.
Women need closeness.
Women have a need for their relationship to be stable.
After a period of separation (even if it's only a day) try to reestablish closeness as
soon as you can.
They have to know you're there.
"This does not mean you have to set aside your own needs," explains Markway.
But you should not ignore your partner's demands as if they were not with you.
If you do, your relationship has the days counted.
2.
If you do not know what she wants, ask.
Many times our partner behaves strangely.
We know something is wrong but we can not guess what it is.
The best thing, in this case, is to ask explicitly what is her need.
Avoid the archetypal "what's wrong?"
(Whose automatic response is "nothing", which actually means "everything") and, even worse,
the awful "what are you thinking?"
It is best to choose phrase of the type: "Do you need something?"
"Are you okay?"
"Can I help you?"
...
3.
If your partner is less interested in sex, work empathy.
The idea that women are less concerned about sex than men is not only commonplace, it is
also false.
If sex does not work in the couple is that something happens, but we should not take
it as a personal rejection and, much less, pressure our partner to make love when they
do not feel like it.
Stop to think why you are not synchronized on the sexual issue and think that the problem
does not have to be yours.
Perhaps your partner is blocked by an external aspect that you can not control, but you can
help her overcome it.
As always, the important thing is that communication is not cut off: ask, talk and try to be understanding.
4.
Think about how much your partner works
Although domestic work is increasingly distributed among men and women, it is still not as much
as it should be.
Many couples have ended badly simply because both parties were too tired to love each other.
The infamous work schedules that many people have to endure are not compatible with marital
health, but if the tasks are not well distributed, the relationship can be doomed to failure.
Is your partner exhausted?
Do you assume enough responsibilities in domestic work?
These are questions that we have to ask ourselves every day.
5.
Allow your partner to express her fears and support her.
Women do not need a man to solve their problems, but they do need their partner to listen to
them and support them.
Women (like men) feel reinforced by a positive attitude of their partners, which contributes
to their general well-being and the achievement of their goals.
6.
Communication is key.
As numerous studies have testified, communication is the basis of every love relationship, and
failures in this are the basis of most breakups.
If we can not express ourselves freely, or we are afraid to say what we think of our
partner, the relationship has its days numbered.
Try to talk as much as possible, listen and be honest.
Although it seems that women and men communicate in different ways, talking frankly, it always
comes to a good end.
(Source: https://www.elconfidencial.com)
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