let's say you want to be successful you
have the desire you have their heart you
have to work ethic but what if where you
are at or where you live you don't
actually have a mentor right you don't
have a role model that you could follow
then the best that you could do is you
watch maybe a YouTube video to get a
little bit of inspiration again a bit of
wisdom to get a little bit of knowledge
from different people and different
sources this is the most education that
you could get then what do you do today
I want to share one of my key secrets to
success with you and it's not quite what
you think you see if you don't have a
role model one of the most powerful
things that you could do is to look at
what everyone else is doing around you
and then do the opposite why do I say
that because a majority of the people in
life they are not successful they're
living life of quiet desperation they're
not fulfilled they are not happy and
they're definitely not financially
well-off so if you look at what they do
and you observe and you pay attention
and then you do the opposite
guess what chances are you are on the
right track every successful person
every millionaire will hear these five
things you will hear these five things
first thing you hear is you will never
make it you will never make it you don't
say you don't have that background
you've never done this before right who
do you think you are you would get that
from people right they'll say that to
your face the second thing you hear is
you think you're special you think it's
somebody you think you deserve this they
say that behind your back the third
thing that you hear is your workaholic
all you care about is money they want to
do that to diminish your character and
then number four the fourth thing you
hear is you got lucky you just got lucky
nothing special about you
and the five things you hear it I knew
you're gonna make it when they run into
you when they see you on social media
you hear these five things from all
kinds of people so when you understand
this is the world that we live in that
the world is against you don't be so
naive and think oh yeah everyone is so
supportive they are not supportive
people don't want you to succeed most
people don't want you to succeed even
after you're successful you will meet
people who are jealous of you but don't
like you who hate you not because of
anything that you've done but because
they want to make up a story in their
own minds they want to believe that you
must be doing something wrong you must
be doing something unethical because
that makes them feel better about
themselves haters are gonna hate
so when you meet such people when you
see people talk about you and when
you're successful by the way people will
talk about you what do you do I'm gonna
give you three questions that will
eliminate a lot of noise that will also
help you to get some inner peace so
before you take an advice from anybody
before you listen to anybody what they
say what they write what they pose you
have to ask yourself the question is
that wisdom or is that an opinion most
people have opinions broke people have
opinions not a lot of people have wisdom
that's a key distinction you want to
listen to twist them over opinions so
three questions that can help you
question number one is this whatever
they're saying this advice coming from a
real person they're we're limiting a big
chunk of the people you see on social
media if they're nameless faceless
they're hiding they are pretending
they're using a fake name ask yourself
is that a real person they're saying
this if it's not a real person you can
eliminate that advice right there and
they're because they've got something to
hide
question number two has this person
produced the results that I want
wherever advice you're thinking of
listening
has this person produced the results
that I want so your friends telling you
H you shouldn't go to college or should
go to college or you should do this you
should invest in this you should buy
this and you should whatever it is that
they want you to do
has this person produced the results
that I want instead a real person
there'll imitates a lot of noise cuts
back you know what has this person
produced the results I want almost never
there's only a tiny handful of people
out there that you should listen to your
period he's a third question that can
help you is the criticize er whoever's
doing the criticizing more successful
than a criticize II the person that
they're criticizing it that's it those
three questions eliminates a lot of
noise when you observe what it's going
on in the world there's no excuse you
say I don't have a role model it doesn't
matter look at what everyone else is
doing and just to do the opposite you
will be on the right track if everybody
says things a certain way they do things
a certain way which you know majority of
them are not successful and just simply
do the opposite you don't need to have
some one hand holding you all the time
maybe you don't have that privilege
you're not as lucky doesn't stop you you
could do it right now just look at what
everybody else is doing look what look
at what your friends are doing look at
what most people are doing if they're
spending two three hours a day watching
TV and and watching movies and playing
video games
guess what should be doing do the
opposite read a book watch something
that would help you if you see
everybody's going one path doing one
thing do the opposite but you see it
sounds so easy to do but it's not easy
to do because requires you to have such
a strong wheel knowing what you want
knowing that the world is against you
and knowing that even when you're
successful they don't support you you
have to be okay with that
that to me is one of the keys also
knowing the difference between wisdom
versus opinions that's it from there you
have clarity with clarity comes power
and the power to act to power to change
the power to improve their power to be
better comment below if you're getting
this and not everybody gets this and not
everybody could do it comment below and
see and let me know if you could
actually do it
watch what everyone else is doing and
think critically and think independently
and do what you know it deep down is
right for you for your future for your
life