- Now, before I became a love strategists
helping you sexy single ladies, get out there and find love,
I used to actually coach men on how to get out there
and confidently approach and flirt with you, yes you.
So in this video, I'm gonna walk you through
five dating mistakes that tend to scare men off
and guarantee that you never get a second date.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, my name is Adam LoDolce
and I'm the head love strategists
where we help single women successfully get out there
and attract long lasting love
and do it with a proven strategy.
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My love accelerated coaching clients
know absolutely what they don't wanna be
when it comes to first dates.
They don't wanna be a no second date Sally
A no second date Sally is basically the woman
who goes out on a decent amount of first dates,
but she never hears from the guy ever again.
But it's really confusing because Sally thinks
that the date went really well,
but then it's just crickets on the text chain.
It sometimes gets so bad that she'll even text the guy
a week later just to see if he's still alive
and then she'll notice that he read the text,
but still never replies.
Never again, now that you know
these five dating mistakes to avoid.
Mistake number one is needlessly going negative.
This is when you go on a first date
and you talk about things that are
just negative in your life.
Whether it's talking about your ex boyfriend
who won't stop hitting you up,
or you're talking about that boss
that you hate at your work, or maybe
it's your neighbors barking dog
(dog barking) who just won't shut up
when you're shooting video.
Whatever it is, you do not wanna be talking about
these negative things in your life.
It's a first date.
You just wanna build a little bit
of playful chemistry between the two of you.
Dating mistake number two
is making the date an interrogation.
Now this is something that my Love Accelerator clients
run into quite a bit because they are so focused
in their love life to find the right type of man
that they'll sometimes go on dates
and it'll almost turn into,
"Hey man, are you the type of person for me?
And I'm gonna go through a checklist
and see if you're right."
It almost feels like an interrogation
rather than an exciting and enjoyable experience
between the two of you.
So of course ask him questions,
but make sure that you leave a little breathing room
in the conversation for him to ask you some questions too.
Dating mistake number three is jumping the gun
and getting way ahead of yourself.
Have you ever had a date go so well
that you start talking about what your kids' names could be
or where you could live together
or how well this date is going and you tend to just get
a little too excited or worse, you feel
so comfortable with this guy
that you you're connecting so well
and things are going well
that you start just revealing your deepest, darkest secrets
that he really doesn't need to know about.
That, my sexy single ladies is getting ahead of yourself.
The next dating mistake is checking your phone
constantly throughout the date.
Now, look, I get it.
You might have children at home
that you need to keep your phone on you,
but wait until you go to the bathroom
before you go ahead and check your phone,
and if you don't have any dependents,
then please put your phone on airplane mode,
put it in your purse and give all of your 100% focus
on the date that is in front of you.
If you're serious about finding love,
then you need to put your dates as a priority
when you're on that date.
And there is nothing more rude
than when someone is on a date
and they are constantly on their phone.
And finally dating mistake number five,
which is the opposite of the interrogator.
This is the type of person
who doesn't ask any questions on the date.
You're on the date because you wanna get to know the guy
and make sure you're asking the right type of questions
when you're getting out there.
In Love Accelerator, we give you these tools
and this information that you can use,
a whole set of questions you can ask
when you're on a first date
or further along in a relationship
so that you can really get to know the guy
on a much deeper level.
So I'd love to hear from you in the comments below,
which of these dating mistakes are you most guilty of?
And if you are ready to get on the phone
with one of my love strategists,
then make sure you click the link right there below
or head on over to LoveApply.com.
So you can apply for that
complimentary love strategy session,
where we will see whether or not you're a fit
for our love coaching program called Love Accelerator.
Thank you so much for watching
and I'll speak to you soon.
Bye bye.