I'm going to tell you in this video.
Hey, I'm Rebecca Zung.
I am an attorney
and I'm also a narcissistic association expert
and I've been following this Will Smith and Jada
huge massive fallout ever since he slapped Chris Rock at the Oscars a couple of weeks ago
and I just really believe that
he should actually just divorced Jada right now
in order to save his soul,
his sanity and also his image
and I'm going to tell you why
for a number of reasons
and you really need to watch all the way to the end
so that you really understand my thinking on this.
I've been doing divorce law for a long time.
I'm also a narcissist negotiation expert
and I'm going to break it all down for you right now.
So listen, over the weekend a whole out of things have come to light.
First of all, the consequences came down from the Oscars.
The Academy said that he has been banned for 10 years now.
He did already resigned from the academy
but now they're saying that
he's banned for 10 years.
Within minutes, he came right out and said
‘‘I accept and respect the Academy’s decision”
He had already apologized.
He's already graciously accepted responsibility for his actions.
Now, we're his actions reprehensible?
Absolutely
and I've already said that,
I've already said, his actions were horrible.
He has said that his actions were horrible,
but I've already said
why I think he did what he did in previous videos
but I'm going to reiterate that briefly here.
In his book.,
he talks about how he witnessed his father
beating on his mother when he was a child.
He was very frozen with fear.
He always felt that he never
protected his mother all the way through recently
when his father died.
He never really felt that he could talk about that.
He always felt that he lived in fear.
He never felt like he protected the women in his life.
He always felt like he failed the women in his life.
I also believe that Jada is a covert narcissist.
I believe that he attracted himself to a woman
that made him continually feel like a failure.
He's an empath.
I do believe that he's an empath
and I believe that what happened was he is with this woman who
continually makes him feel like a failure
and she has continuously emotionally abused him.
She's cheated on him.
She's done these things with him and here they're sitting, it's his big night.
Supposed to be his night
and as narcissist do, they want to take the attention away from that person
especially when it's their biggest night of all time.
He is heavily favored to win that night.
So what does she do?
She wants to take attention away from him.
Of course, Chris Rock is supposed to roast people.
That's what he does. That's his job
and so he says something to her,
everybody's laughing.
He's laughing. She's laughing
and then within seconds, she gives him this glare,
the stare and like
“what you going to do about it?”
kind of a look and he is triggered.
He's triggered by that and in that moment he gets up
and he does something that is totally out of character for him
and something I didn't say in my previous videos,
but I'm going to say here is I have a family member that's close to me
who has been in a relationship that's similar to that
and I seen this family member also get out of a relationship that's similar to that
but during that period of time, I saw this person act in similar ways.
You know, like when this person was in that relationship
and that wife was like,
“what you gonna do about it?”
Had to like act in ways that were way out of character
for him and before start to be this person to third parties that was not them
and that's exactly what happened here
and so now, you know, he had to try to run interference
and try to do damage control for himself.
So now over the weekend, all this new stuff is coming out.
New videos are surfacing.
One shows her filming him a couple of years ago.
I guess Esther Perel was coming on her show
and I guess this person, his therapist have been
working with them and she's starts filming him saying
“Hey, let's talk about this”
and he clearly does not want her to film him.
He begs her,
“Please don't do this in the privacy of our home.”
Please don't do this.
But what does she do? She continues to do it anyway,
and he even says,
“Please don't use me for clout. Please don't do that.”
What does she do?
She does it anyway.
It gets released anyway,
She uses him for clout.
She's using his celebrity for her own gain.
Continuously does that anyway.
Another video that surfaces is that two days.
Just two days before the Oscars,
Jada releases a video that says,
I don't give two craps about this bald head
But yet, here she is at the Oscars
giving him the glare, making him “what you gonna do about it?”
kind of a look.
Also not good
and then after he does this.
He does the slap. He basically ruins his career for her.
After this all happens,
she comes out afterwards and says she wishes he hadn't done it
She does not help him.
That is not supportive.
That actually makes it worse for him.
Where is the support? That actually distances her.
That actually is like I'm better than you kind of a thing.
That is also really so narcissistic frankly
and then she even on her
social media says,
this is the season for healing.
I'm here for it or something like that.
Again, making it seem like it's all his problem.
All his fault.
Again, not helpful, not helpful
and now many other celebrities are calling for his return of his Oscar
even though of course obviously all the way up to that night,
he had earned it.
He done the work for it.
His work was stellar enough to have earned it,
but now other celebrities are saying,
“Oh you should return it.”
It's all unraveling
because basically this narcissist has stolen this from him.
She accomplished what she wanted to accomplish, right?
Again, you know, why did she go to Wil into doing this?
Why was she out to ruin his big night?
If she didn't care about the bald head and all of that sort of thing.
Okay.
So why do I think that he should divorce her now?
Well, a couple of things,
Then he can actually start to really heal.
I mean apparently he was seeking treatment
for his additional treatment for his trauma for his childhood.
Yeah, of course, he needs that but that's really not addressing current problem,
in my opinion.
So the people can understand it and see it
and I think that it would be so helpful for people.
So helpful for people to understand it
and I think that they would have a whole lot more empathy
for him so that they would understand what was actually going on that night.
I think it would help him. I think it would help his career.
I think it would help him to rehabilitate his career
and his image and it would help a whole lot of people in the process.
Do I think that he would actually do it?
No, but I think that he should.
So that's my call to him
and that's why I think that he should divorce her now.
I think it would help save him, his soul,
his sanity, his career
and a whole lot of people
and for you guys,
if you think that you might be in a relationship with a narcissist,
I'm going to drop a link to a quiz below in the comments
and I want you to take that quiz to see if you think that you might
be in a relationship with a narcissist.
So check it out and check out my other videos on this situation
and I would love to know in the comments what you think about this whole situation.
Do you think that Wil should divorce Jada now or not?
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I'm Rebecca Zung.
Thanks for stopping by this channel
and as always,
today is a great day to start negotiating your best life
and I will see you in the next video.