See, there's some people that
have toxic masculinity,
that "Grr!"
I got that sacred
-masculinity. -Yeah.
'Cause power never shows power.
Power is very gentle.
-Mm-hmm. -That's why
I'm very gentle.
-Yeah. -I'm
gentle with myself.
♪♪
Only thing I don't want to do.
I'm not gonna cut you off,
like how I usually cut you off in the car.
I ain't gonna cut you off.
-Need to let you run it. -Right, right.
Hey! Somebody playing music?!
Oh, he can go sit in the car.
Hey, what's happening?
For those of you watching
and don't now who I am,
my name is Kevin Gates.
And my co-host
is gonna be my best friend,
OG Boobie Black.
So any of you that may be
dealing with any type of issues
and need help, you can call us
and we'll give you some
advice to help you,
I guess,
aid and assist you in your healing process.
Exactly.
♪♪
Thank you.
I'm happy it looks good also.
Make sure you put that slim fliter on me.
Make me look slim. Say, Boo.
What's going on?
Who next?
Oh, we got Genesis.
Genesis.
Genesis from New York.
Click him in.
What's happening, Genesis?
What's going on?
-What's up? Check this out.
I'm a 25-year- old female,
but I am a single mom
and having trouble dating
because whenever I tell a guy
who I am seeing that I have
two daughters,
they seem to lose interest or,
you know, cold feet or whatever.
So, I'm not looking for a soul mate,
you know,
so I want to know what can I do
to find somebody
who will accept my situation
for what it is?
Well, I'm gonna say this.
When you present a boy
with two daughters,
it sounds like responsibilities.
And a boy is not equipped
for responsibility.
But they have men out there
that can't have children.
They have men out there
that would love
to raise your daughters as their own.
And to be honest with you,
when you say you not
looking for your soul mate,
then what are you looking for?
Because the things that we desire
desire us.
All I could tell you is this.
-Don't settle. -Ever.
Don't settle. Don't force anything
because A,
if it's by force,
hey, it's never by choice.
But when it's by choice, it's never about force.
Yeah, you're right.
One thing you do is always be yourself.
Never try to be somebody else
for somebody else.
And then another thing.
This is something I learned from
my wife.
There's nothing wrong with crying.
Tears are for healing.
That's how we heal our body,
through tears.
We release trauma.
We release negative energy
through our tears sometime,
so that's okay.
I hope I answered your question.
Yes, you did.
When your perspective changes,
that's when miracles happen.
Yes, I really appreciate it.
We appreciate you so much.
Have a good day, guys. Alright, take care.
I kind of feel her,
you know what I'm saying?
I kind of slowed down
and I listened
to everything she was saying.
You know, when
you're a lover like that
and you're just a great lover,
you want to disperse that love.
And we them big pilots
in this cockpit right here.
You heard me, so on to the next caller.
You are now flying
OG Boobie Black
and Kevin Gates help airline.
We're gonna get you to your destination.
♪♪
Say, who we got next?
We got Joe from New York.
Put him in.
Put him in?
How you guys doing today?
We coolin', Joe.
What's happening with you?
We just vibing right now.
So, I'm struggling with telephone anxiety,
like calling anyone on the phone.
Even like family members
is making me more and more anxious.
I would, like, always
rather text, but, you know,
it makes me feel bad to text my mom
and not give her a call.
Do you have any advice on how to get over
that issue?
I got a question.
Have you ever walked into a room
after two people
had an argument
and nobody said anything
but you could feel the tension in the
room?
Mm, mm, mm, mm.
Without anybody saying anything,
you could feel the tension in the room.
-Yeah, absolutely. -So you're an empath.
You have --
That's your psychic ability, empath.
You pick up on energies.
And a lot of times,
you know, when we get on the phone
with people, we're transferring energy.
-Right. -Mm.
And it could be the energy
from the other people
that's making you feel anxious.
Yeah, you know, it's just --
I feel there's this narrative
that it's selfish and superficial
to just be texting instead of like,
connecting more intimately
on the phone, but it does.
It makes me feel completely--
completely exhausted afterward. Yeah?
Says who?
Right.
Who wrote the rulebook?
Right.
Who wrote the rulebook about
how Joe should live his life?
'Cause this is Joe's journey.
If Joe doesn't like to talk
on the phone,
then Joe has every right in the
world to not talk on the phone.
One thing I can say about it, Joe --
telephones gonna be here
when you're gone,
and telephones was here
before you got here.
And sometimes we get good news
and sometimes we get bad news.
But when you don't mess with the
phone,
you can't get good or bad.
Yeah, you can't get no news at all.
No news is good news.
And they say no news is good news.
-I hope we answered your question.
I hope we was able to aid and assist.
You did, you did, you did.
I feel better about it.
Thank you so much.
Joe too hard on himself.
Yeah, I think Joe is real too hard,
and I think he wanted to ask us
some more questions.
I think he really wanted to talk more.
I could tell that he care about
what other people think
and have to say about him.
He try not to hurt other people feelings.
Probably hiding in his shell too.
He's probably in his own shell.
But you know the good thing about it?
-What's that? -He called us.
Yes, Lord.
♪♪
My sister Jewish.
We got the same father.
She, like, a real like "Shalom."
Got red hair.
Look just like me,
but got white skin, red hair.
So who we got on the line?
Oh, man, we got
Coolr the Don
from New York, the city so nice
they had to name it twice,
New York, New York.
Click him in.
Coolr the Don, it's Kevin.
What's happening?
Yo, Kevin, what's
going on, brother?
How are you?
I'm well.
Look, I got one request,
to be as honest
as you want to be with me.
We don't judge.
But what can we help you with?
It's basically man like, --
I just wanted advice on getting back
with my ex.
We kind of like broke it off five
years ago,
but I feel like she might be the one
that got away.
You feel like she might be the
one that got away
or you know she the one
that got away?
-She's still, like, you know,
when we speak,
it's like there's still clearly
this level of attraction,
and it's like, "Yo, why did you--
like, why did you break this off?"
If you had to analyze yourself,
do you think it was anything
that you may have done
that may have made her cut it off?
Honestly, I think it had more
to do with her
than it had to do with me.
Could it be that you did something
that you're unaware of?
Hey, man, look, I'm a human being.
Nobody's perfect.
Hey, I'm nowhere close to perfect, brother.
If I was you, I would ask her.
"Hey, what is it that I've done
that made you leave out of my life?"
I like that. I like that, brother.
I'm definitely gonna try that, for sure.
Hey, it's easier said than done.
Right. But this is about action
right now, and it starts with me saying that.
But don't be too
aggressive. Don't be aggressive.
Don't be forceful. Just ask the question.
I want to give you this word of advice.
Sometimes you just got to let
things go and fly free and
if it come back, that
mean it was meant to be.
Do you feel like this amazing woman,
do you feel like she completes you?
Hell yeah.
You know, I ask that question
because you say you fee like this
amazing woman
completes you.
Nothing should ever complete you in life.
I guess I meant to say, like,
it would enhance me.
Like, I'm cool.
I guess I spent my time figuring
that out since we've been apart,
so it's like I'm cool.
I would just like to be enhanced
to really ride this shit out.
This is life, man.
We all go through ups and downs,
but it's like let's make the ups
a little bit more lit.
That's all.
Yeah, and not bringing the old
you into a new relationship
because if you bring the old you
into a new relationship,
you're gonna get the same old results.
Word.
Get yourself together and get ready, man,
because it's about to happen.
You know what I'm saying?
Don't give up on it.
You know what I'm saying?
There's always light
at the end of the tunnel.
Say, Coolr, I hope I aided and assist you.
I hope I gave you some good advice, baby.
Nah, you definitely gave me
something to think about, man.
I'm about to make some --
I'm about to take some action.
Good luck, guys.
Yes, sir.
I don't think he all the way focused.
I think it seemed like he got
something else
he probably focused on.
But he love that woman, though.
-He love that woman. -Yes, indeed.
-But at the same time, it could be love,
but it can also be obsession.
-What? -Obsession in
a possession.
You think so, Kevin?
The only reason I say that --
because he was like,
"Man, she got a lot of other things
that she got going on,
like school and this and that."
-But he -- -I used to be like this
with my woman, not to cut you off.
I used to be like,
"Why you got to be over there
taking a shower
when I want to --"
You know what I'm saying?
"When I want to be laying down with you?"
You know what I'm saying?
But, you know,
at the same time, you know,
it's about being selfless and not selfish.
You know, and men, you know, we could be
selfish sometime.
I know I am.
I be selfish in a lot of situations.
I'm still selfish. I get jealous of the kid.
♪♪
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Helpline."
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But let me leave you with this.
Vision without action is merely a dream.
We all have the ability to heal.
Some people just heal
slower than others.
We love you.
I'm not --
I think you ought to do another one.
I think you ought to do another one with the
cigar lit.
No. I don't -- I'm high.
I'm high already. I've been smoking.
I'm high. I don't even smoke
that much.
That tobacco got me...
It's not no bullshit.
He be talking about, "Man, I smoke
Cuban cigars."
That's cool.
My tobacco come in a jungle.
Down there in Peru.