Have you ever felt like you can tell when someone is lying to you,
even if you don’t have any concrete evidence?
Do you often sense the hidden motives or emotions behind people’s words and
actions? If so, you might be an INFJ, one of the rarest and most
intuitive personality types on the Myers-Briggs spectrum
INFJs are often called human lie detectors,
because they have a unique ability to see through deception and manipulation.
But how do they do it?
And what are the advantages and disadvantages of having this skill?
Let’s explore Why INFJs are so good at detecting lies.
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Keen intuition for reading people's expressions and tone
INFJs are known for their highly developed intuition, which allows them to pick up on
subtle cues in their environment, including facial expressions, tone of voice, and other
nonverbal signals. This sensitivity to nonverbal communication allows them to detect patterns and
inconsistencies in people's behavior, which can help them spot when someone is lying.
When someone is lying, their nonverbal signals may not match their words,
or they may exhibit nervous behaviors, such as fidgeting or avoiding eye contact. INFJs can
pick up on these cues and intuitively feel that something is not right.
INFJs can also use their intuition to ask the right questions and probe deeper when they
sense that someone is lying. They are skilled at uncovering the underlying motivations and
emotions behind people's behavior, which can help them identify when someone is not being truthful.
Value honesty and integrity above all else
Another reason why INFJs are so good at detecting lies is their value system,
which places honesty and integrity above everything else.
INFJs have a strong sense of right and wrong,
and they strive to live according to their ideals and principles. They are
loyal and faithful to their friends and loved ones, and they expect the same from others.
INFJs hate lies, because they see them as a betrayal
of trust and a violation of their core values.
Honesty is so tied to their sense of being,
they can have a sixth sense like ability in uncovering when someone is not being truthful,
they can feel the discrepancy between what the person says and what the person means.
INFJs are very sensitive to incongruence and hypocrisy. When they sense that someone
is lying or being deceitful, they may feel a sense of unease or discomfort,
and in order to put their minds at ease they will naturally investigate,
and seeking the truth naturally leads to uncovering the truth.
Able to detect insincerity and hidden motives in written messages
INFJs Intuition can be so powerful it can give INFJs the ability to
see through a lie even through a written message.
INFJs are not only skilled at reading non-verbal cues, but also at analyzing verbal cues,
such as word choice, sentence structure, punctuation, and tone. INFJs can detect
insincerity and hidden motives in the words and tone of the sender, because they pay attention
to the nuances and implications of what is being said and what is being left out.
INFJs can also compare the written message with their
previous knowledge and intuition about the sender,
and notice any discrepancies or contradictions. They are not easily swayed by persuasive or
emotional language, because they can discern the underlying logic and purpose behind it.
For INFJs, lying is not just a matter of facts, but a matter of communication and connection.
Strong sense of empathy for detecting hidden emotions
INFJs have a strong sense of empathy, which allows them to understand and share the
emotions of others. They are highly attuned to the emotions and feelings of those around them,
and can pick up on subtle cues in body language, tone of voice, and other nonverbal signals.
This ability to feel what others are feeling enables INFJs to detect when
someone is hiding or masking their emotions, which can be a sign of lying or deceit.
When someone is lying, they may try to suppress or conceal their true emotions
in order to avoid detection. However, INFJs can sense the underlying emotions
that are being suppressed and can use this information to decern whats really going on.
They can detect when someone's emotions are incongruent with their words or
actions. This can be another sign that someone is lying or being deceitful,
as their emotions may give away their true motivations.
Abstract thinking to spot inconsistencies and contradictions
INFJs have a complex and abstract way of thinking that enables them to analyze and
interpret information in a deep and nuanced way. They are able to see patterns and connections
between seemingly disparate pieces of information and can understand complex systems and ideas.
This way of thinking allows INFJs to spot inconsistencies and contradictions
in someone's story. They are able to see when pieces of information don't quite fit together
or when there are gaps in someone’s narrative. They can then identify when someone is leaving
out important details or when there are contradictions in what they are saying.
INFJs are also skilled at detecting when someone
is being evasive or avoiding answering a question directly.
High self-awareness and authenticity
INFJs have a high level of self-awareness and authenticity, which means they are
in tune with their own values, beliefs, and emotions. They have a deep understanding of
themselves and their motivations, and are true to their own values and principles.
This level of self-awareness and authenticity enables INFJs
to sense when someone is being fake or dishonest.
Because INFJs know themselves so well, they are able to spot when someone is
behaving in a way that is inconsistent with their own values and beliefs.
They can detect when someone is being insincere or disingenuous, or when they are putting on
a false persona to hide their true self. This ability to sense when someone is being
fake or dishonest is rooted in their own deep understanding of themselves and their own values.
Deep understanding of human nature
INFJs, due to their Extraverted Feeling (Fe) function, will tend to have an innate
understanding of human nature and psychology. They are naturally attuned to the emotions,
motivations, and behavior of others, and are skilled at interpreting the
underlying meanings behind people's words and actions. This understanding
of human nature and psychology enables INFJs to recognize the signs and motives of lying,
such as defensiveness, avoidance, or manipulation.
For example, when someone is lying, they may become defensive or evasive when questioned.
They may try to deflect attention away from the topic at hand or become hostile or aggressive in
response. INFJs can recognize these behaviors as signs of deception,
and can use their knowledge of human psychology to understand the underlying motivations behind them.
Rich inner world for accessing clues and hints about the truth
INFJs have a rich inner world that is filled with insights and visions. They
are deeply introspective and reflective, and are skilled at accessing their subconscious
and unconscious mind. This can be a valuable tool in detecting lies,
as the subconscious mind often holds clues and hints about the truth.
When INFJs access their subconscious and unconscious mind, they may experience sudden
insights or intuitions that provide them with a deeper understanding of a situation. They
may be able to sense when someone is lying based on these insights, even if they are
not consciously aware of the specific cues or signs that are giving them this impression.
For example, an INFJ may have a sudden insight that someone is lying based on
a nagging feeling. They may not be able to explain why they feel
this way, but their intuition is guiding them towards the truth.
Natural curiosity and desire to learn
INFJs have a natural curiosity and desire to learn about the world around them. They
are always observing and researching, seeking to deepen their understanding
of the people and situations they encounter. This ongoing pursuit
of knowledge gives them more knowledge and experience to draw from when detecting lies.
INFJs' curiosity and desire to learn means that they are always seeking to expand
their knowledge and skills. They may research topics related to human behavior, psychology,
and communication, in order to gain a deeper understanding of how people think and act. They
may also seek out experiences that expose them to different perspectives and ways of thinking.
This ongoing process of learning and gaining new experiences can be valuable when detecting lies,
as it gives INFJs a broader knowledge base to draw from. They may have a better
understanding of the motivations and behavior of different types of people,
and may be able to recognize patterns or connections that others may miss.
Would you say you have a natural penchant for detecting lies. Let us know in the comments below.