- Should you ever ignore your guy?
And if you should, when is a good time to do so?
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Hi there, my name is Greta Beresaite,
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So my ladies, in this video, I will show to you
5 situations where it's good for you to ignore your guy.
The first one is when he is being negative.
When he is giving you bad energy, for example,
texts you something nasty, manipulative or rude.
If you do not like the text, the best thing
is to ignore it.
When he is being rude or crossing the line,
he is very aware of it. He is not stupid.
Reason he is doing it, is because he is looking
for your reaction.
He is checking how will you handle this.
For do not give any energy to negativity. Ignore it.
When you give energy to the negativity, it spreads,
and I'm pretty sure this is not what you want.
The second situation where it's good to ignore a guy,
is when he is teasing you.
For example, I will never get married, or your sister
is so beautiful, Ladies, if you not know what to
say to that, you can ignore it or just don't react.
Or, you can banter back. Just make sure not to get affected,
as it is just a tease, it's a provocation.
He knows he is being annoying, therefore,
make sure don't reward it.
As I said before, ignore it or banter back.
So, for example, if he says he never wants to get married,
you just say like yeah of course,
why marry a pig if all you need is a little sausage.
Or if he says wow your sister is so beautiful,
say thank you so much, of course she's beautiful.
She's like my sister.
Ladies, if you would like my full banter bag,
I have it totally free in my video description below.
The third situation where it's really good to ignore a guy,
is when he pulls away.
Ladies, there are many reasons why men pull away,
and it is very important to understand the reason
and to let a man pull away.
And, why men do pull away, please watch my video,
which you can find just by following the link right here.
Anyway, when a man pulls away, let him do that.
The worst thing you can do when a man pulls away,
is to chase him.
In order for a man to realize his feelings for you
and to miss you, he actually must pull away.
This is when men realize their feelings and love for you
when they pull away.
If you will never let a man pull away, he might actually
fall out of love with you.
Ladies, pull away is a secret love potion
to your relationship. It is good.
As I said, Ladies, if you want to know why men
need to pull away, you can find the video
just by following the link right here.
The fourth situation of where it is good to ignore a guy,
is if you are getting into a nasty argument.
Ladies, when guys get into an argument,
for them, usually the goal is to sort out the problem,
but to win it. No matter what it takes.
So, if his goal is to win it, as he is a competitive male,
rather than caring and nurturing female,
he will, very likely, blame, accuse, fight, confront.
Therefore, Ladies, there's literally no reason for you
to stay in an argument. I mean, what is the point?
You will not solve anything. Let him have his tantrum.
Ignore it. Do not waste your energy on this.
Instead, learn to set healthy boundaries
with your actions, not your words, your actions.
And how to set the healthy boundaries, please watch my video
of which I have totally free, just by following the link
right here.
The fifth situation of where it's good to ignore a guy,
is when he is trying to make you jealous.
By liking other girls' pics on Instagram,
or mentioning an ex, for example.
Or some other beautiful girl.
First you need to understand that he knows what he is doing.
He is not dumb. All he is trying to do is get a reaction
from you.
And, he is trying to get a reaction from you
from giving you negative energy.
So, how do you respond to that?
As I mentioned before, there is no need to respond
to negativity. Do not reward the bad behavior
with your precious energy. Ignore it.
When he will see that you are not reacting,
it will not make sense to make you jealous anymore,
as it will just be too boring for him.
Ladies, please watch my video why men try
and make you insecure, which you can find
just by following the link right here.
So my queens, now you know the five situations
where it's good to ignore a guy.
How do you take in mind, are you a higher value
or a low value, for one test, just for your
own self-awareness, to see are you actually
making any mistakes?
If you have not, I really recommend you to do that,
and you can find my test just in the video description below
Totally free.
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Thank you so much for watching, Queens.
Kisses from London.