- [Interviewer] How long did it take for you to sleep
with someone else after the breakup?
- You asshole.
- [Interviewer] What's your name and what's your ex's name?
- My name is Kit. My ex is Amparo.
- My ex's name is Brit.
- My ex's name is Scott.
- My ex's name is Jessica.
- [Interviewer] What'd you think of your ex?
- He got a lot of work to do on himself.
- [Interviewer] We're going to be filming you two separately
and see how your answer is differ, are you ready?
- Yeah. - Yes.
- [Interviewer] How would you rate your ex in bed?
One through 10?
- What are you saying, I didn't know,
this was gonna be a question oh my God.
- [Interviewer] How would you rate her in bed? One to 10?
(man laughing)
- I don't want to give him a good rating
and I'm like a five.
- A seven and a half
and he's gonna say I'm a 15.
- Like a nine.
I'm not going to give the satisfaction of a 10.
- [Interviewer] How would you rate your ex in bed?
- 10. - 10.
- We lost our virginities to each other.
- Eight and a half, nine.
- I'll give her a 9.5.
- He's a 10. - I'm gonna say eight.
- [Interviewer] Why just an eight?
- That's just kind of how I am.
I'm never an A plus for anything.
Like even if something was great, I'm just like ah.
- [Interviewer] why did you break up?
- We were on like a poly relationship when we started.
- [Interviewer] A poly relationship?
- When you engage in a romantic relationship
with multiple people,
pretty much our first time being in a poly relationship.
So as a really big learning curve.
- There was a lot of unresolved conflict and like,
I'm not afraid to say that I was kind of the toxic partner
in the relationship.
- [Interviewer] Why did you break up?
- I was like in the crosshair between like two guys.
- He was cheating.
- [Interviewer] Did you have breakup sex?
- Oh yeah, totally. - Yeah.
- Yes we did - Yes.
- We did yeah. - Yes.
I don't know why I said that so excitedly, sorry.
- [Interviewer] Did you have breakup sex?
- No. - I honestly don't remember.
- Almost.
- [Interviewer] What do you mean by "almost"?
- He fell off a roof and his leg was broken.
So I came over to his house one night
to help him with groceries
because I'm an amazing ex-girlfriend
and we got a little hot for a minute.
- [Interviewer] So what kind of sex was it?
- I don't know you're making me uncomfortable.
I think it was oral sex.
- I remember being on top of him and that I felt like his
cast rub against me and I was like,
bitch, I'm outta here, zoom zoom.
- [Interviewer] Did you have break up sex?
- Yes. - Yeah we did.
- I literally called him over just to like give him the best
sex ever.
- Like aggressive sex.
And he's not an aggressive sexual person
so it was kind of like, fuck you literally.
And then he hugged me and was like "Take care of yourself"
- [Interviewer] So was last time you had sex?
- I have to be honest?
- [Interviewer] Was it today?
- Yesterday.
- Oh my God, it's like full circle.
- [Interviewer] When last time you had sex?
- This summer.
It was kind of surreal, because it's like,
I just did not think that would be happening again.
- We were having sex and I like
looked and I was like, wait,
am I like in love with you still?
Or am I just chasing something that's not there?
- [Interviewer] Where was it?
- At my place. - [Interviewer] Where?
- In the shower, on the couch.
- Like nice sectional, big couch.
- On the floor.
Everywhere.
- Her bed is also not usually vacant.
Whether it be like just the remnants of the day, clothes,
things like that.
It can be a little bit of like a mood kill.
- [Interviewer] Did both of you orgasm?
- Yeah,
(laughing) - No.
He's gonna get mad at me. (laughing)
- [Interviewer] Did both of you climax?
- Yes always.
- I think so.
- It was good sex, but there wasn't any emotional attachment
to it, it's more of just like a physical act.
- I wasn't over the relationship.
And so therefore it felt good to me at the time.
But looking back,
I don't think it was good
just because he also was in a relationship.
I just didn't feel morally right.
- [Interviewer] Is he dating that person now?
- He was. I don't know if they are,
they might be on a break.
- There have been times in my current relationship
where we've like taken breaks,
but she's aware that I've hooked up with my ex,
she's taken it really hard as anybody realistically
would and should.
- [Interviewer] How long did it take for you
to sleep with someone else?
- You asshole.
- [Interviewer] How long did it take for you
to sleep with someone else after the break up?
- I have not. - I haven't.
- I would say it took me maybe six months.
- [Interviewer] How long did it take them?
- I would say maybe two weeks.
- About a month I wanna say.
- [Interviewer] And is it with your current girlfriend?
- Yes.
- [Interviewer] How long did it take for you to sleep
with someone else?
- Oh my gosh.
- Not long.
Like two months, - Months,
- Month or two.
- [Interviewer] Did the person that you slept with,
is this the person you're with now?
- Yeah.
- [Interviewer] What is your partner think of your ex?
- That she's crazy.
- [Interviewer] What do you think of this new person?
- She seems nice.
- [Interviewer] How long did it take for you
to sleep with someone else?
- A month and a half, two months.
- [Interviewer] Does he know this person?
- He's met them.
- I know that she has had sex with other people since then.
- [Interviewer] You don't know who it was?
- No, didn't ask.
I don't really feel the need to dive into it too hard,
because as soon as I do that,
it's going to be a lot of questions towards myself as well.
- [Interviewer] Who was it?
(laughing) - Rude.
A friend.
- [Interviewer] How long do you think he waited?
- I don't think he's had sex with anyone.
- I haven't been putting myself out there.
- [Interviewer] You haven't just had
a random one nightstand? - No.
- [Interviewer] How long do you think it took her
to sleep with someone else?
- I just don't think about that.
- I don't wanna think about that.
It could be anywhere between seven days and three months.
- [Interviewer] How long did it take for you
to sleep with someone else?
- A couple of weeks.
- It took me six months.
- [Interviewer] Does he know
you've had sex with other people?
- No, I have not told him.
- I mean, she was going out and partying
and doing that so it could have happened, yeah.
- [Interviewer] Do you think he just assumes?
- I mean, you know, I'm 24, like I'm not 31 and ugly.
Like,
this is really hard to do.
It's like really quiet.
I'm like nervous.
- [Interviewer] Well I'm 32 so I was a little insulted
with that last comment. - Oh I'm sorry.
- [Interviewer] How long do you think it took your ex
to sleep with someone else?
- Oh, he hasn't. - I haven't.
- I'm kind of over relationships
because it seems like anytime
I get involved with somebody, I just kind of ignore myself.
- [Interviewer] How would you feel
if he slept with someone else?
- That's a great question.
Over everything, I want him to be happy.
So if he can find someone that is amazing
and loving and safe, caring, then get it.
- [Interviewer] How does your ex rank
in your list of partners?
- Probably top three.
- Two or three.
- Near the top.
- Again, he is a 10.
- I think he's the best partner I've ever had.
I hope he says the same, I don't know.
- I'd say now, like number one.
- Like top two,
- If he wasn't a liar, he probably could have been that one
that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.
- I'll put her top three.
- Well, I've only been those two people.
So he would be top.
- [Interviewer] Is she number one?
- I would say yeah. For sure.
- Out of all my sexual partners, dude?
I think we have different styles in bed.
- He's the only person I've had sex with
that I've had feelings for, so pretty high.
- [Interviewer] Out of all your partners how does she rank?
- The best.
- [Interviewer] Oh, but you're with someone now.
- Oh.
(laughing)