Is there a better feeling than getting a perfectly timed
totally naughty text from the person you love? I think not.
Shakespeare had his sonnets Beethoven had his symphonies.
And you sir, have a QWERTY keyboard in your pocket. Right
now, I recently did a video about all the make or break
rules of texting during the early stages of courtship. Then
I thought to myself, hey, what about all the taking guys out
there, you know, the guys who are in committed relationships
who want to keep things exciting, or maybe even bring
some spice back into their love lives with their partners? My
dudes, this video is for you. And to be fair, it's for all
y'all because no matter where you are in relating to women,
this is gonna be some good shit. I'm not over promising Actually,
I came up with this whole system in turns. That's awesome. And
the good news is that all it takes is the phone you already
have in your pocket. In this video, I'm going to tell you
exactly how to text your wife, girlfriend, lover in to bed,
here are the four types of texts that
you must send in the order that you must send them to get her
into bed. Number one text to tease and fascinate if you want
to get her heart pumping with a great text, the perfect place to
start is with teasing, and Fascination. These are texts
that build up anticipation and get her into the mood to receive
something a little more risque. Think of this as like pre
foreplay, I've said it before women take a while to get ramped
up. And often the number one mistake that guys make is going
from zero to 100. So sending her a text that builds intrigue, and
curiosity is actually a lot better than just jumping
straight for the dick pic. And this is for two reasons. First
of all, you're not coming out of the gate too hot. That way, if
you catch her at a bad moment, you don't need much of a
recovery. The second is that women have vivid imaginations
and sparking them is a great way to get us turned on. In fact,
you just kind of spark and then she will go ahead and light the
rest of the fire. This is especially the case if you've
been with your partner for a while and things could use some
spicing up the key with the teasing and fascination texts is
not to get into the details, you're just sparking her
interest, you're just letting her know that you have something
on your mind and that it probably is not PG building this
anticipation can be a huge turn on for many, many, many women a
tease and fascination texts could look like I can't wait for
you to come home tonight that that that or I have something in
mind for us later. These ones tend to be a little more on the
tamer side. I mean, they're basically an appetizer to the
main course they're basically just telling her that there is a
main course at all, but that doesn't make them any less
effective. And this is the part where guys get confused sending
these texts let her know that you're thinking about her and
they invite her to start thinking about you too, which is
where we begin and allows us to move on to number two text to
engage her senses. You've got her attention with a little bit
of teasing and anticipation. Where do you go from there you
text her in a way that invites her sensory imagination to get
involved. And again, this is a place where men just get it
confused. So listen up, men tend to be visual creatures and some
simple graphic imagery is more than enough to get them revved
up like one pic with like a little bit of nipple in game
time. So when their partners their female partners, minds
tend to go in a different direction. They can miss that
because women are just wired differently. And don't get me
wrong visuals can be exciting for some women, but a lot of
women need more than that they actually need to have their
other senses engaged. This is why the dick pic is not number
one seduction method and why I haven't literally never
recommended it despite making hundreds of videos and 1000s of
hours and millions of views. When you're texting a woman to
engage her senses is all about telling her something you want
to do to her or recollecting something from the past in a
detailed and descriptive way it is about sparking her
imagination that lives inside of her body and in her senses. To
do this effectively. All you have to do is get into the
details but not the details. Like I want to give you the
details like I can't wait to get into bed and enjoy the feeling
of your skin on mine. I look forward to the soft sheets
wrapping around us the smell of you washing all over me see the
difference? It evokes a specific image and what you're really
trying to do here is spark a fantasy inside of her but a
fantasy that exists in her body and not in her mind. So how do
you write an effective sensory text simple consider all of the
senses taste, touch, smell, vision and hearing. The more you
include, the more she has to go off of whether that's sending
her a playlist or just describing how wonderful she
tastes. Alright, so we've got her anticipating we've set off
her sensory imagination and that brings us to number three text
to arouse her so you've got her deep in the mood with your sexy
and sensual descriptions and chances are she is ready for you
to get a little more direct with things when sending these more
sets. She will texts, it is really important to make sure
that it is a good time for her to receive them. Consent is
important with all of these texting types, but especially
when things get a little nuts a forward, arousing texts are much
more direct, they're hot, they're heavy, they're getting
into dirty talking territory. And this is where you can pop in
something like I can't wait to queue or I can't wait to make
you come. The key to sending these is gauging your partner's
preferences. So some women are okay with receiving one of these
out of the blue, but most of them would prefer that you send
text types of ones and to to get them warmed up. First, the great
thing about these different text messages is that you will learn
over time, what she likes and what causes her to get grossed
out or feel disgusted. So make sure that you pay attention to
all of her reactions, and assure that she's into it. Also great
reminder that for all of these text messages, it's great to get
consent first, you can just send her a message can I send you a
dirty text you're on my mind and it's not PG want to hear there
are a bajillion different ways to get consent, and 100% of the
time, it is worth it because no one is going to enjoy a dirty
text sent at the wrong time. Which brings me to number four,
text her taboo, introducing a bit of kink is a classic way to
spice things up in the bedroom or on the phone screen. But
before sending her one of these, it's important to have a bit of
a sense of what she's actually into taboo or kink is anything
that has a sense of the forbidden or freaky, and it's
very, very personal to you. It can range from fooling around in
public all the way to bondage and BDSM and everything and
anything in between. But you do not have to be into whips, and
chains, because kink is about whatever is taboo to you. So
bringing a sense of taboo into your texting repertoire is a
great way to spice it up. Say you have a big meeting and your
girlfriend knows about it, you could text her something like
heading into this meeting. And all I can think about is you
write on the conference table that's kinky, it's hot, it's
taboo, you're not supposed to have sex on the conference
table. And you're definitely not supposed to be imagining that
during your meeting. So this is an awesome way for you to
explore kinks, and fantasies and things that you may not actually
ever do in real life. But you get to fantasize together. And
the reason that this is so perfect inside of this system is
because it actually causes her to engage, you've actually taken
her past the point of just playing arousal, which is great.
And if we stopped there amazing. But now we've taken it into the
realm of things, we're not allowed to do things that would
be really interesting, if we did do things that we would probably
never ever actually do, because we would get arrested. And once
you're there, you're actually engaging different parts of her
brain than you were if you just got her to arousal. So taking it
this extra step, especially in text message because it's just a
fantasy. You're not actually pulling her into the conference
table. You're just mentioning that you're just pulling her
imagination into the conference room with you. That is where you
enter master Jedi sexed your wife into bed master territory.
If you want to be a sexual Jedi Master, check out my high
performance male coaching program because I would love to
train you. In all the ways of the Force texts included. I'm
Caitlin V. Please write in the comments below all of the fun,
sexy, arousing, exciting, enticing and sensual text
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