Hey Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Your personal dating coach.
In today's video what I want to be going over is a question that I
got while looking here on my computer from someone in my secret Facebook group
called Tripp's Corner. If you want access to Tripp's Corner which basically gets
access to about a thousand guys plus me and some other coaches, you can do that
by getting access to Hooked. How do you get access to Hooked? Go in the
description below and get that program right away because one of the bonuses is
being a part of this community called Tripp's Corner. What I'm gonna be doing
today is answering your question from a Tripp's Corner. Something that guys have a
lot of struggle with and I totally totally get it and I want to confront
this right away. There's a lot of good things to be said here. Basically we have
a situation where a guy is texting a girl. Maybe you're in this. You're texting
a girl and she's responsive to you. She's responding to you, sometimes
even very quickly. She's not taking a day to respond but she's actually in
conversation with you texting but you ask her to meet up and she doesn't or she
gives an excuse or she says she's busy or whatever it is. In this case I'm gonna
be showing you some text messages where a girl is almost practically trolling
this guy. Just saying all these nonsense things in a way to reject him without
actually rejecting him. Let's go over what's happening here in the text
messages and then I'm gonna be telling him and you what to do when you find
yourself in this situation. We have here in Tripp's Corner texting this girl
and he says hey do you want to hang out tomorrow evening around 6:00 to 7:00
maybe go for a coffee. She says well it's a bit cold and so he says wear a jacket
then. I actually like that response and she says lol cheeky meaning she also
liked it and she said I don't think one jacket is enough and then he said really.
Here what we can see is happening is she's kind of rejecting him, kind of not.
We don't know yet maybe she's just playing around. But then it keeps going. He says
we won't be outside I can warm you with my hug. I actually like that, that's kind of
flirty. And she said I don't like hugs sadly. He keeps on going then what
does you crazy cold ass needs in order to stay warm. Then she says well
like 10 coats, 10 coats plus me and then she said lol well I don't know.
What's happening is one or two things. Basically either one she's playing hard
to get and he needs to try harder or two she's just really bored and she's
just having fun with him but she really isn't interest in him. Here's the
newsflash; sometimes girls will respond to you via text but that doesn't mean
that she likes you. You only know for sure if a girl likes you is if she shows
up to the date otherwise you can assume that she's not interested and that's
what's happening here. We can see that she's obviously not interested and
she's just bored. Girls will do this. They get bored, people get bored, they like the
attention, she likes the attention, she knows that she can kind of puppetmaster
this guy into just continuously texting her and makes her feel good and she can
just play with his emotions. We can sit here and be like well girls are evil
and she's evil and she's a bitch and all this stuff but let's not do that because
obviously not all girls are like this. Yes it's kind of rude that she's playing
with him but I think let's take control of our own lives, not play a victim
mentality here and just leave it be. That's my answer here; leave it be.
That is gonna accomplish both scenarios. Either you're gonna leave it be and
she's gonna be like wait where did he go and the hard-to-get is now gonna be
reversed and the guy's gonna be playing hard-to-get so he's just gonna stop
texting and then she might text later on and that's when you go for the date
again and then if she was playing hard-to-get then she'll say yes or she's
just playing him all together and then you just stop
texting her and you move on. I don't usually like to give this advice and
this is not something that parents would ever say to their kids but I'm telling
you to give up. That's what he's asking her. Should I give up? Here's the
thing; when I say give up, I don't really like
that terminology we're not giving up. In fact we're doing the opposite, we're
moving on and we're building a stronger you because you're gonna be going for
girls who are actually interested in you. You don't want to be with girls who are
playing those games especially girls playing those games and is actually not
interest in you. Yeah it is kind of rude but whatever we move on. We "give up" so to
speak but really we're moving on, we're growing and we're going for another girl.
That's what I want you to do if you get yourself stuck in this situation
you've got to remember, she doesn't like you unless you guys are meeting up.
You must move on. Stop playing these games and live in a an abundant mindset.
Abundant meaning knowing that there are plenty of other girls that you
can have a chance with that will like you and you don't have to sit here
begging this girl to go on a date with you just because she's responding.
You are better than that. Write down in the comments right now if
this has ever happened to you or if you're in a situation right now with a
girl that's not interested in you and that's okay. We can have girls that are not
interested in you. Write down the comments below "I will move on"
"I will move on." Right now, write that I WILL MOVE on because that's
what we're gonna do. That's what we're doing here as a community. We're moving
on to other girls who are interested and we're not gonna stay here in this little
fantasy world of the girl who's sort of responding to you and we're so desperate because
they're responding that we think we have a chance. I will move on. Write it right now
and you know what to do. Go and get the Hooked program so you can have access to
Tripp's Corner as well and if you like this video, you want me to do more of
these Q&A's from Tripp's Corner, I'll do that but I got to see you hit that
like button. That's it for today's video. Hope this helped. See you in
the comments.