6 Questions you have to ask yourself before saying 'YES' to marriage.
As you may have seen in romantic novels or movies, in real life, at the time of being
at the altar, the father asks a crucial question to the couple that more or less refers to
whether each will be willing to accompany them in the good and bad moments.
To this, those who truly fall in love with marriage will answer yes, but those who are
not totally sure doubt it.
That is why before committing we must be sure if it will be a correct decision.
Saying 'I do accept' is a complicated decision because you are joining a person practically
for 'all your life' even if you know that today people divorce until days after they
get married.
So that this does not happen to you and that this important day for you does not get more
complicated than it is, you have to be very sure and according to the specialist Mathew
Hussey, answer yourself these questions:
1.
"Does he make me feel in the clouds or on the ground?"
This is a basic question and at the same time, it is key just at the moment of making important
decisions like this one.
Maybe the love between the two has reached the point of strengthening even more so as
your relationship may be maintained only by habit.
Ask yourself if when you are by his side, things go well, you feel good and if he brings
out the best in you.
If being honest with yourself, the answer turns out to be the opposite, that is if he
only generates fears, insecurities, and undefined arguments but you still want to marry, check
with someone else you trust and that you know wishes you happiness.
2.
"Do we want the same lifestyle?".
Needless to say, it is important that both share the same interests and go in the same
direction for their life goals.
It is valid to ask if you are capable of tolerating each other's activities and to be clear about
future plans.
The fact of when you will become dads is a decision in which the two have to be perfectly
in agreement, where you will live, etc.
Getting along is complicated but you must know how to complement your lives for good
and to project a future of well-being for both of you.
3.
"How does he behave at his worst moment?".
Well, they say that until you live with that person you do not know who he is, so it is
obvious that you should be aware of how he behaves not only in good times but in the
worst.
Does he throw tantrums?
Is he possessive and jealous?
Is he offensive when you are arguing?
Of course that nobody is a candid person at all times and in all situations, so you should
know what attitude your boyfriend takes on the problems.
Remember that in the worst moments is when we really know people and what are the values
that govern them.
4.
"Do I feel a unique sexual attraction?".
Sexual attraction should not be questioned; It is that physical and intimate part that
makes you want to be together.
It is obvious that over time the unbridled passion you had at first will disappear, however,
it is crucial that you do not lose that chemistry that you felt when you started.
Remember that one thing is to have sex and another is to have sexual attraction or connection.
5.
"How much sex do we want?"
Sex should not be an obligation for anyone but relationships do not end well if both
do not put the same value on sex.
This does not mean that you should have it all the time, but it must be enough to be
satisfied and keep the flame of love burning.
Try different things, use your imagination and make each of your encounters something
different and interesting that makes you stay connected physically and emotionally and stay
eager to get home soon.
6.
Are you willing to apologize and work on your mistakes?
Arguing is inevitable in a relationship because there must be a debate to reach an agreement.
The issue is how far those fights can go.
In the event that they turn bad, sometimes it works to swallow pride and apologize.
When both are calm they can then talk and solve the differences they had at that time.
Remember that both are partners so they should be able to recognize their shortcomings and
sometimes swallow their pride to apologize
In the event that your partner cannot give in to his mistakes in an argument and only
makes you feel guilty or waits for you to solve everything, then the future together
will be a constant struggle.
(Source: https://www.whatthegirl.com)
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