well good morning get your coffee out because we're going to talk about relationships we're
going to talk about do you need to need you know i don't like to use downward because we don't need
anything we have everything but do you feel that there are people in your life that perhaps
it's time to say farewell at least for now or have people eliminated you in their life
and maybe you are a little perplexed about that it's happened to me
and um and i have all equally stepped away from certain relationships myself what is that
is it good is it bad is that judgment is that us not being spiritual oh no it's a requirement
right now if you want to step into a new world i'm going to explain why you're ready let's go
welcome to Landria Onkka on youtube here to help you break through those fears and live an amazing
life right now Landria in all of this yes that's the whole test it's not just i can live an amazing
life when everybody behaves and i get everything i want even though it's polluting the planet
which is how we've been living oh life is great despite the fact that every thing in the way we
live is really destructive to animals plants the planet other people right we've been self-serving
we're going into world that is not self-serving it is service to others it's still a choice
you will struggle and go into pain if you don't go to the route of service to other because
you will spend the rest of your life looking for the material world to make you happy and it will
continue to go to the tipping point of not doing that why because we have outworn our welcome here
all right so the the effects of all of our actions are now spewing back the negativity
that we have created and you could say well i didn't but i guarantee you that you are using
plastic or doing something or chemicals or eating fast food i guarantee that you're doing something
just by being here that contributes to the planet in a negative way you know there's just so much
you can do but we are all responsible and all of us have to take those steps now here's what
i want to share with you about other people when you separate yourself from other people
and i accumulate it's such a crazy example but um somebody wanted me to stop wearing a hat
i love your messages landria but you know uh your hat's distracting
wow how are you functioning in the world because this is how we are as humans whether it's somebody
wears a hat and you don't want them to and you want them to stop being who they are
or enjoying what they are and their expression because of you what is that 100 ego that is just
one example of what we do all day long i don't want you to dress a certain way i don't want you
to um live your life a certain way i don't want you in my life because of your color or
your culture or whatever you must change for me is 100 ego driven now let's talk about the other side
of things where you're just trying to get along with everybody right maybe you are not doing that
you're not judging you're trying to be as open and accepting and compassionate and loving as possible
so yay okay you're going into community and service to others what if the other
is not respecting you what if the other is constantly battling with you about how things are
and you're battling back right you are having the argument which goes nowhere because in the real
world of all things there is no right nor wrong there's no arguments there's not even
talking eating nothing it's just pure bliss and the rest is just sort of insanity
well if you're involved in that conflict then you have to take a look at yourself
and say you know am i the source of this nine times out of ten the answer is yes because
you're still trying to be right or enlightened and you're trying to tell somebody else that
they need to be different in order to be in the new world where they'll be happy
they are happy where they are so allowing that is the most spiritual uh action that you can take
is total acceptance and love and compassion now what if you don't get along with
that person it's time for you to walk away and it really is i've had amazing people in my life
and quite a few of them actually most of them i don't really have any connection with at all
simply because they don't have anything in common with them you go through cycles in your life
and there's no rule that says it just because you were close to somebody at one point that they're
supposed to be in your life now that's the beauty of diversity in a a you know spiritual evolution
and all the wonderful things that happen along the way that allow you to experience new relationships
new friendships new whatever and so it doesn't mean that you create an enemy in the person that
you no longer connect with you can wish them well and bless them you can also see maybe
the things in them that you were attracted to at the time that weren't of a higher frequency and
so therefore you were participating in it at that time right and so now you can look back and say
you know what i was a part of that i was maybe a part of somebody who was more negative or critical
or you know whatever it is and so instead of blaming them now you can look objectively much
more objectively and say that was a part of me at that point it wasn't them i was attracted to them
okay same thing with those of you who are in negative relationships loving supposedly loving
relationships is that really love or is that an addiction to chaos and control or abuse or i'm not
good enough and if you came from that of course it perpetuates because your parents came from
it and theirs and theirs came from it we are here to break the cycles okay that is one of the most
difficult things as humans to do because as humans we have patterns and in you know they are an
imprint on us physically and so we have to go into consciousness to recognize the negative patterns
how about those people who've dumped you i've been dumped a couple times in the last few years
uh and it's not that those are those relationships have really ended but let's just say if uh you
know there are certain people that want you to behave a certain way to make them happy and nobody
can make somebody else happy and so that's when you have to shut the door and say you know that's
way too big of a job i'm not here to talk the way you want me to or act the way you want me to
so the so the real ultimate decision has to be if you want me to be a different person then find a
different person you know and that sounds a little harsh but the bottom line is that when we stop
accepting one another for what we are then we have to you know say okay then maybe
i'm just wanting something and i don't have acceptance and acceptance is enlightenment
acceptance can be you are maybe negative or uh you know um you are argumentative or controlling or
you know or you're you know such toxic uh and so maybe you realize it it's not there's no healthy
place for me to be here and those energy fields just are not a good match and me not wanting to
change you has to walk away from that and say that is no longer a match for whatever reason you're
going to have to walk away from it it's okay so we are always judging ourselves saying oh is it wrong
you know am i judging that person by no you're not technically judging you're recognizing
that this is not a healthy space and you are making choices through free will of what you
will and won't expel expose yourself to i'll give an example you know if you choose to stop spraying
chemicals in your house and on your lawn somebody said fertilizer is okay i said no it's not
it is a pollutant that's what's you know going into our waters here if you make it if you tell
yourself a story and you make choices you know when you make a shift to walk away from something
it's a 100 percent you saying that's toxic i have to make a decision to walk away because i
have been believing it's okay for all this time and now i'm conscious and so this is
how it works you have to go into consciousness and understand that your your life will change
and some of it's gonna seem very inconvenient at the time but i guarantee you ultimately what
happens is the opposite you start to create a life that's so healthy and clean and and you're
not having to expose yourself to the negativity or you know emotional abuse of other people
that you've wanted to change and now you're realizing that the best thing you could do
is have the love and compassion acceptance but remove yourself because you're going to reprogram
yourself to not accept that in other words zero tolerance that's the zero tolerance it's not
you're wrong it's that i'm no longer resonating with you and you were at some point right i was
resonating with the people that uh were in my life and so now i realize that just really don't have
anything in common and there's no reason for us to be together it would just be a real effort
in a way that's not good for either of us right doesn't make anybody wrong it's time for you to
start cutting you know some relationships somebody said if do you believe in cutting cords i said
sure i can cut cords all day but that doesn't end my karmic connection with people you there's a
reason for it and you absolutely are entangled with absolutely everybody you've ever come in
contact and will and everybody you do and don't see you can cut all the cords you want
but it doesn't go away it's still part of your learning it's part of your um
your past and if you want to cut a chord you're denying the lessons and the beauty of that
relationship that you chose so if there's any cord cutting it's you deciding that you're not going
to participate and then in that addiction to the arguing or negativity or whatever else which you
are perpetuating now and they are not that is when we must walk away and have minimal
contact with that person and do it in the most peaceful loving way without the judgment or
i can't be around you anymore because you're toxic or you're so negative and i'm enlightened
no you know you know that's not the way to go it's that i learned from this
all right and there's a very nice way to make an exit all right it is time to start doing that and
so that's where the split starts to happen and so those people will start to hang with other people
that do argue with them that are on that frequency and you'll find people that are peace loving
and want to focus more on the positive aspects of their lives and what they can do
to live an amazing life and you can do that nothing wrong with it all right so again
we want to do this without judgment and anger or blame we want to take full responsibility
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what we all end up in the same place because we are the one we are the one from the same place we
are the same place we are the creators no judgment all right blessings to you my friend namaste