Yes! Yes! It’s happening! Based Zeus is finally talking about overcoming social anxiety.
You would understand why I said it like that, if you saw my DMs.
Seriously. I made so many videos about confidence and conversational skills that it still surprises
me how many of you guys are still too afraid to start conversations. But then I realized
that even though I teach you all the theory you need, you can’t put that shit into practice,
so I developed a method anyone can use to overcome social anxiety. It’s so simple
that even a shy 2nd grader could do it, so I don’t want to hear any excuses.
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Now let’s get right into it.
I call this trick the “3C Method”. Those three Cs stand for CONSTANT-CASUAL-COMMENTARY.
I give these methods fancy names just so you guys reaaally remember them. Even though they
are pretty damn simple, they are extremely powerful and effective.
Ready? Are you ready?! Okay, so what’s this method all about?
The basic idea is that you should just live your life as you normally do, observe everything
that’s happening around you and make casual comments about it to whoever’s next to you.
Constantly. Everyday.
What do I mean by this? Let’s say that you are just walking to the store and you see
a person with a dog walking towards you. Make eye contact with the dog owner, smile and
just blurt out “What a cute dog.” and keep it moving. Or let’s say that you see
someone trip and fall right in front of you. You can just look at them and say “You good?
That must’ve hurt like a bitch.” They will probably just chuckle and say “Yeah,
I’m good.” Then again, you just keep it moving.
If you tell me that your social anxiety is so bad that you can’t even do this, l have
only one thing to say – You can fool yourself, but not me. Seriously. Because that’s just
a bullshit excuse. EVERYONE can get enough confidence to blurt out a casual comment.
Even people with crippling social anxiety. To keep it real, most of you don’t even
have such a bad case of social anxiety.
Actually, most of you probably don’t have a real disorder anyway, but you are just referring
to your shyness as “social anxiety”, which is extremely counter-productive by the way,
because you are programming your brain to always succumb to the shyness. Blaming everything
on “social anxiety” makes you give up all the control and it ends up making your
anxiety even worse. Before some of you mental health awareness activists attack me for not
taking mental disorders seriously, let me just clarify that I believe that there’s
an actual social anxiety disorder, but only a portion of people who say they have it actually
have it.
Let me make this simple, if you’ve never gone to a licensed doctor who told you, you
had social anxiety, just assume you don’t have it, and stop being afraid of social situations.
Trust me, it’s possible to get over this shit EASILY, I’ve seen it done many times
by numerous people.
Anyway, enough about social anxiety. Let’s talk more about the actual method and why
it’s so fucking awesome. As I said, blurting out one comment is extremely easy. If you
say you can’t do it, you are lying to yourself. What makes this method great is that it removes
the stress from having a full-blown conversation. When you just comment on shit, people will
usually just laugh or say “Yeah.” and it ends there.
Worst case scenario, or actually the best case scenario, you will exchange a few sentences
and it’s up to you if you want to turn it into an actual conversation or not. How hard
can that shit be? It really isn’t. And you know what’s the best part? These strangers
will forget that you made that comment within 15 seconds of you saying it and they will
also forget that you ever existed within 5 minutes of you getting out of their field
of vision.
There’s literally no pressure, so don’t tell me you can’t do it. If you are really
shy, you will feel some fear. But don’t worry, it’s normal. Fear is absolutely normal
and okay. Do you think that stuntmen don’t feel fear before doing all those crazy stunts?
Their hearts probably drop somewhere near their balls before they do backflips on bikes
through rings of fire. But it’s okay. You know why? Because fear is perfectly okay,
unless it stops you from doing what you want. But if you let the fear stop you, you can’t
blame the fear. You can only blame yourself. Because every day there are millions of people
chasing their crazy dreams, even though they are scared to death. You think those people
are special? They really aren’t. If they can do it, you can too. I’ll say it again.
Don’t let your fucking fears stop you. The best thing is that when you face your fears
more and more and when you put yourself into “The Uncomfortable” as much as you can,
you will eventually overcome that fear altogether and you will start doing shit that used to
terrify you with ease.
Now, let me explain why this tip is so powerful, so you have enough motivation to really do
this shit all the time. This method will indirectly affect everything.
You will get into the habit of talking to new people and saying what you think. You
will stop caring about what people think about you. You will learn to live in the present
moment.
You will stop having expectations about social interactions. Doing this at school or work
will also improve your reputation. You will be known as this cool guy who just says what
he thinks and doesn’t care about how it’s received. People are drawn to people like
that.
Back in high school I would always make funny comments when something happened and everyone
knew me as this chill funny guy, who was cool with everybody and I think that’s the best
reputation you can have. I’ve had friends in all grades and classes, because no matter
where I was, I would always crack funny one-liners and people liked me for it. It would often
lead to cool conversations and always just created an overall good vibe for everybody
around.
When you have this reputation at school or even at work, it makes all social interactions
even easier, because a lot of people you’ll start talking to will already have a good
perception of you. Have I convinced you to take this shit to
heart already?! Because I’m 100% sure that this habit was 80% accountable for my reputation
and made high school and college sweet. When people know that you create a positive vibe
and light up a room, they will always want to be around you.
Especially since everyone keeps complaining and constantly talking about depressive shit.
You don’t want to be that person. You want to be the person that emits positivity. It
won’t only make others feel better, but you will feel a lot better as well.
Before I end the video I have to add a little disclaimer. Those 3 Cs stand for constant
casual commentary, remember? Every single one of those words has a reason and is crucial
for the method to work.
First of all, it has to be constant. You have to do this daily and at least 20 times a day.
You won’t reprogram your brain, unless you do this shit constantly. But don’t overdo
it. Don’t be this annoying guy who has to share every thought every 30 seconds. Second
of all, it has to be casual.
By this I mean that you shouldn’t comment on deep shit like religion, politics, morals
and so on.
Nobody cares about political views of a stranger. Another thing I mean by casual is that you
shouldn’t overthink what you say. All I want you to do is say the shit that crosses
your mind.
Don’t try to make it wittier, don’t try to add a hidden message to it or anything
like that, don’t try to ensure that what you say isn’t offensive. Don’t do any
of that. Just say your raw thoughts out loud. One comment at a time. Okay and finally, commentary.
It should be a comment. It shouldn’t be a deep thought, it shouldn’t be a question,
it shouldn’t be anything. It should be just a comment with no hidden intention, no hidden
meaning, nothing. Just a simple comment.
And that’s it. See? I told you this shit was simple.
If you follow these tips correctly, you’ll smash your social anxiety in no time.
And for the guys that do have social anxiety, I have something perfect for you.
Like I mentioned earlier, I just released a video that breaks down how you can use texting
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And don’t worry, the advice I give in this video WILL work for you EVEN if you have social
anxiety, remember this is texting. Texting doesn’t require a face to face interaction,
so if you can learn to text like a boss, you’ll be setting yourself up perfectly for the in-person
hangout and girls will go into the date, already in love with you.
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See you there.