Stop pushing them away.
Draw them back to you for an incredible,
loving relationship by letting go and using
the Law of Attraction.
Hi everyone. Robert Zink, Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Life Coach.
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High Flyers.
Have you ever been a situation where you really want to draw
somebody to you and you're focused on drawing them to you
and you keep trying everything, you know,
birthday cards and flowers and phone calls and
good morning texts, and you've tried it all.
And the more that you continue to try to draw them to you,
the further away they move,
you're literally pushing them away.
You see early on in a relationship when people are falling in love,
they oftentimes send up red flags and
they don't even realize they're doing it.
And the other person energetically feels that red flag.
And usually,
usually that red flag is centered
around a lack of confidence,
a lack of independence,
a lack of personal power,
no matter what the person is saying or how much money they have or what they've
done there is that kind of that intuitional
feeling that this person is,
is needy.
And that pushes that pushes that person away.
Neediness is the opposite of independence and
personal power. So High Flyers,
if you want to draw people to you,
you're going to have to transform yourself and transcend
beyond the state of want need, fear,
doubt, worry, anger,
begging all of those kinds of emotions and
behaviors tend to push people away. But here's, here's the,
this is the important thing about this.
It doesn't have to be explicit.
In other words,
inner begging is just as poisonous
as outer begging inner fear and doubt and
worry is just as poisonous as
expressing it outward. It just takes a little bit more time,
but it has the same effect. You see,
we are not merely physical beings. We think we are,
but we're not. We're spiritual beings.
We're energetic beings.
And so that energy,
that vibrational frequency within us
determines whether we draw people toward us or whether we're
pushing them away. What it really does.
High Flyers to be absolutely clear.
Is it lowers your personal magnetism?
It's kind of strange,
but when you put out an intention and then you just let it
come to you and you give up the
obsession and the attachment
and you just allow it to happen.
Oftentimes it happens sooner than,
than we even expected. When we moved into this big house,
I never thought it was going to happen that fast.
I never thought it was possible.
All my fears and doubts kept holding me back.
But when I let go of it, Rachel said, just let go. Just let it happen.
It happened.
And it continues to happen over and over and over again.
So High Flyers,
there's this little book that I absolutely love called 365 ways to
raise your frequency by Melissa Alvarez and
in the book. There's this short little, I mean, you can see it's very,
very small. Each chapter's like one page,
but she talks about deep soul frequency.
And I want you to think about that for a moment because we we've heard about set
point set point is your, is kind of your average.
If you averaged out your frequency, your vibration,
this is your set point, but deep soul frequency is much,
much more explicit about who we really are as spirit
as energy, as true vibration as eternal beings,
as co-creators of our reality,
what I've discovered in my own journey without knowing the word deep
soul frequency is that the more I began to
focus on my soul,
on my spiritual journey on why I'm here,
what my purpose is, the more my set point.
All my other frequencies began to rise. They, they,
they rise automatically because you are putting your energy,
not into obsessing over someone else or obsessing
over attracting someone else.
You're putting your energy into raising your deep
soul frequency.
You're focusing more time meditating on your journey,
inner prayer. You know,
whether it's yoga or whether it's exercise or
music or burning incense or ringing bells or
reading books or doing rituals.
I come from a tradition called the golden Dawn where it's all
ceremonial ritual. And it's very,
it's very deep.
It raises your deep soul frequency.
I'm not telling you to be more religious.
I'm talking about focusing on your inner power,
your inner confidence, your inner independence.
So as you begin to raise your deep soul frequency
and you understand your value,
your worthiness, your special-ness,
your uniqueness. As you begin to do that,
then it becomes easier to follow this simple formula. See it,
feel it, believe it, and then let go of it.
See it. So you see it in your mind,
you feel it intensely in your body and your energy field.
You believe it. And that it's not just belief. It's certainty.
I'm certain.
I'm absolutely certain that the love of my life
is in my life or even someone better.
And then I let go of it
just like go and I don't obsess over it.
I don't just focus on it all day long. I don't think about it.
I don't allow negative thoughts to dominate my mind.
And by doing that by letting go and by focusing on your deep soul
frequency, who you are as a spirit,
as a human being manifesting becomes so much more easier.
And you literally draw what you desire to you. Whether it's a relationship,
a new house, a new car, more money, whatever. It's all there.
It's all part of the universe. Your universe,
High Flyers following this simple formula takes
you from dependence where I can't be happy without
her. I can't be with happy without him. I can't be happy without my car.
I can't be happy without a new car. I can't be happy without a new house. I,
you see what I'm saying?
It takes you from that state of dependence to independence.
I am happy. I am fulfilled. I am worthy.
I am enough because I say, I am now,
this is important. So don't go away.
It's only when you're at a state of independence
when you are,
when you are focused on your own journey and
why you are here,
when you are raising your deep soul frequency,
it's only when you're in that state of consciousness that you're able to
create, not co-dependence, but
interdependence. So what Stephen Covey calls in the habits,
seven habits of highly effective people. Interdependence.
It's where I am fully unique. I am fully me.
I am fully on my journey,
but I choose to partner with you who is also unique and independent
and on your journey.
And we've partnered together because we understand that one plus one
equals more than two. It could equal three or five or six or 10. I mean,
we just become so much better together than we are apart.
High Flyers.
I want to make one thing absolutely certain before we continue on it.
Cause this is this. If you don't get anything else, this is it.
Letting go is not giving up.
As a matter of fact, when you obsess,
when you're fixated, when you won't let go,
when you are in a state of constant pain and worry and
fear and doubt and anger and jealousy, well,
that's giving up because if you're choosing those lower vibrations
and they're very, very low, if you're choosing those lower vibrations,
if you're choosing to believe in them to give them life,
what are you doing to yourself? You're giving up.
What are you doing to your magnetism to draw that person to you?
You're giving up,
what are you doing to your ability to create independence?
So that in a relationship you can have interdependence
you're giving up.
So letting go is not giving up,
but it is total and complete trust in
yourself.
And in your partnership with the universe and with the universe,
it's always this, or even something better,
High Flyers.
You can have it all the money you desire,
the love that you crave and the health and
happiness that you are worthy of and deserve.
All of it is yours.
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