Hey, Brad here with another YouTube video.
And today I’m going to talk about the 6 things that absolutely KILL woman’s attraction
for you.
If you’ve watched some of my videos before, you know that the reason why people break
up is because of a loss of attraction.
In some cases, this loss of attraction can happen over the span of weeks, or sometimes
it can take years.
But regardless of how long it takes for a woman to lose that spark for you, it’s more
important to know WHY it happens.
This way, you can fix your behaviour moving forward whether it be with your ex-girlfriend
or another girl you might be dating in the future.
When it comes to preventing a loss of attraction, there are a few principles that you must remember
moving forward…
1.)
Stop trying to please her all the time.
When you first meet a girl, acting “too nice” to her can be a turn off.
I mean, by all means, open doors for her and act chivalrous when you need to… but that
doesn’t mean you need to be constantly buying her gifts, saying how amazing she looks, and
bending over backwards just to put a smile on her face.
Women get incredibly turned off by this behaviour…and this doesn’t change when you’ve been in
a long term relationship.
Being a woman’s slave doesn’t exhibit any sexual value to her and it makes her look
elsewhere for a man that will stand up for himself.
Remember, women are attracted to MEN, not effeminate losers, so start acting like a
man!
2.)
Stop with the clinginess and jealous behaviour.
Even the most confident of men act needy and clingy when they feel like the women they’re
with are out of their league.
But you can’t fall into this trap.
Even if you think your wife or girlfriend is the bee’s knees, you can’t begin acting
like a wuss every time she wants to leave the house without you or hangout with some
male friends.
Even if she says that she thinks your jealous behaviour is ‘cute’, don’t fall for
it.
She won’t dig it in the long run.
Give her time and space to reset without you and she’ll be coming back for more and more!
3.)
Stop complying with her so much.
Once again, rolling over and dying is NOT attractive to a woman.
If your lady is behaving in a way that you don’t find acceptable, then tell her.
Don’t comply and bend to her every whim.
You’re a human being with your own moral compass, and you need to make sure that she
needs to chill out if she’s crossing the line.
So the next time she starts talking about her ex boyfriend for an hour, cut her off.
Don’t let her bitch and moan to you like she would to her girlfriend.
Be her BOYFRIEND and tell her that you don’t appreciate her behaviour in a polite way.
After the dust settles, she’ll respect you more AND be more attracted to you.
It’s a win-win!
4.)
Stop being negative all the time.
If you’re always complaining about someone or you had a bad day at work, then bitching
and moaning about it constantly will make your lady go running for the hills.
Nobody wants to be with a negative nancy…not even guys do, so instead of trying to play
the victim all the time, try holding it in and doing something about it.
To be a man is to be a problem solver and a solution finder.
What you should be doing is fixing your own problems because they’re not going to fix
themselves for you.
By the way, if you’re looking for more ways to prevent the loss of attraction and make
women (even your ex-girlfriend) notice you and want you… then head on over to www.BreakupBrad.com/girlfriend.
In that video, my good friend Christian Hudson talks about how you can become a bonafide
lady magnet but adjusting certain behaviours.
These psychological “shifts” are subtle…but I guarantee that you’ll notice women talking
to you more…and be more willing to give you their numbers!
Once again, the link to that video is BreakupBrad.com/girlfriend.
5.)
Stop putting her down so much.
On the complete flipside, treating her with too much disrespect will eventually kill her
attraction for you.
A lot of “nice guys” that I coach will try and overcompensate by trying to be that
asshole men think women like.
But going way too far in this direction will lead to the exact same result – a loss of
attraction.
6.)
And finally, stop being so lazy.
Once you’re in a relationship for a year, things tend to settle.
You stop having sex as much, you trying to impress her, you might even stop showering…
okay, but that’s taking it a little bit too far but it’s been known to happen!
While you need to make time for yourself, you also need some adventure to keep things
alive and well.
So the next time you’re tempted to put on the sweat pants, smoke a joint, and watch
some Netflix, try actually doing something with your girlfriend instead.
Keeping her on her toes and stimulated is one of the best ways to prevent a loss of
attraction.
Okay, that’s all for now.
I know that you might have some questions about this video, so if you do, just hit me
up in the comments section below and I’ll do my best to get back to you!
Alternatively, if you want some really in depth advice when it comes to why your ex
girlfriend lost her attraction for you (and what you can do to fix it), then head on over
to breakupbrad.com/coaching and sign up for my personal coaching service.
Men who sign up for my personal coaching service have experienced a 300% increase in success
rate when trying to get their ex girlfriend back...so if this is your goal, then go to
BreakupBrad.com/coaching and watch the video on there for more details.
Talk to you soon!